Come check us out on Bdsmlr, where we’re reposting our old archive every day and you can get your fill of anal only motivational content.
The end of Tumblr is nearly here and it’s time to let the world know what we’re doing going forward. For the time being, my anal only porn blogs will not be migrating anywhere. Because I run multiple blogs, I need a fairly specific featureset at a minimum in order to keep them all active easily, and there are so many different platforms duking it out right now to replace Tumblr, but none of them have everything I need. I’ll keep watching, and may pop up elsewhere with time. BDSMlr looks promising but has a ways to go still for me to use it regularly. Stay tuned.
In the meantime, the Anal Only Lifestyle blog and community live on outside of Tumblr. I’ve just migrated that blog to a self-hosted platform and will be continuing to post and interact with others there. You can send messages or ask questions just like Tumblr through the Ask a Question page (leave the name field blank if you want it to be anonymous). In addition to the blog, our Forum and Discord server are going strong, and you should join them to stay connected to the community.
Finally, I’ve created a new page on the blog to make note of the various anal only blogs out there and where they’re moving to. Right now it’s not a complete list at all, and most of the blogs don’t have a known new location, but hopefully over time it will fill out more. If you have an anal only blog that isn’t listed or that is but you’ve already moved to a different platform, please feel free to let me know. (Please include your blog’s name, Tumblr URL, and where it’s now located, including the platform, your new username, and the public URL if there is one.)
Thank you to everyone for your support and enthusiasm about anal sex, anal positivity, and the anal only lifestyle. I never would have expected this level of enthusiasm and adoption of the lifestyle by so many people when I first started my first blog as an outlet for anal porn that truly was anal only all the time. We aren’t going away, however, even with the loss of our original platform, so be sure to save these links and stay in touch!
Bookmark our Anal Only Porn Blogs page to keep in touch with your favorite blogs as they migrate to other platforms over time
I combined your two asks into a single post for easier reading.
Since you asked so nicely I was never a penetrating masturbator, I would vibe my clit or hump a pillow (the clit makes one desperate!!) After my husband I started incorporating anal into our sex life I found I literally couldn’t cum without something in my ass, so I would plug myself, stimulate the clit and be done in 10 mins. Well I started to feel unhappy with depending on my clit to masturbate, at this point I could cum strictly anal on my husbands cock easily. This is when I messaged you
It took time, and accepting that I wasn’t going to cum every time I masturbated, which for a clit addicted woman this is hard to accept! I learned that I needed to allow my solo sessions more time, and to ride the dildo! This way the motion is sooo satisfying and I can play with my nipples while I ride my ass out = heaven! I’ve came several times this way and will never go back to clit stimulation
Thank you for sharing! Nipple play and other stimulation can be a great thing to explore along with anal penetration, and definitely can lead to orgasm and help unlock anal orgasms without the dominance of clitoral stimulation overpowering everything. I’m really glad you were able to figure this out and have no desire to return to your clit ever again.
Congratulations! That’s wonderful. Do you mind sharing your process in case it helps anyone else get to that same point?
Tumblr has updated their terms of service and will be banning all adult blogs starting December 17. That means this blog and all associated blogs will be disabled and removed from public access soon.
Obviously, I’m quite disappointed by this and the resulting loss of over 6 years of work building and maintaining this blog and its community. I will try to set up a mirror of the Anal Only Lifestyle blog in the coming weeks, but I expect that the porn blogs may be gone for good just due to the costs of hosting large amounts of image/video content.
How Can I Stay Connected to the Anal Only Lifestyle Community?
Fortunately, we’re far more than just these blogs! Our community is centralized at the Anal Only Lifestyle Forum and Discord server. Please join and bookmark these links in order to stay connected with this community and follow our next steps as we continue to build and grow the anal only community. In addition to discussion and realtime chat, the Discord server also has porn sharing sections.
What Can I Do About My Own Blog?
Tumblr lets you back up and download your blog. Go to your Blog Settings page for the blog in question, scroll to the bottom, click the Export button at the bottom, and wait for an email that notifies you it’s ready to be downloaded. If it’s a big blog, it might be a very large file—this blog was 25 GB!
Congratulations! That’s wonderful to hear, thanks for sharing the update. Here’s to many more years!
So, I’ll start by saying that my perspective and bias is going to be pretty obvious, considering the source. I say you should insist that you want to stay pure anal only and want to keep your pussy unused because you value that and think it’s hot to stay that way. Vaginal is likely to be a disappointment after being anal only for so long, anyway. A lot of women who start with anal for several years and then try vaginal later before ending up back in the anal only lifestyle later in life express regret that they broke their anal only streak and bothered with vaginal at all. You can always choose to try vaginal later, but you can never choose to go back to being a vaginal virgin.
That said, you should think about what you want. It sounds like you’re conflicted and if it was up to you wouldn’t be bothering with vaginal at all, so it’s more the pressure from your boyfriend that’s making you consider it. But it’s your body, your pussy, your lifestyle, your choice. If you value being anal only, and that’s what you identify with, you shouldn’t give that up lightly. You have to weigh the desire to stay anal only with what your partner wants.
If you do decide that you want to stay anal only, you should sit down with your boyfriend and tell him why and what it means to you, and that it’s not a rejection of him or what he wants, but that staying anal only and not using your pussy at all is something that you value and want to maintain, and that you’re not willing to give that up. Remind him of the positives: he can fuck your ass anytime he wants, anal is better than vaginal, he can cum in you all he likes without ever getting you pregnant, etc. You can also talk with him about anything else that he’d like to do that maybe you haven’t tried together yet, and start doing that instead of vaginal.
Try a bigger plug, or one with more friction. Glass and steel are pretty smooth and can be used without lube fairly easily, especially for those already fairly experienced with anal, so you might want to try silicone to increase the friction. Going up in size will also increase the surface area and thus the available friction to make you feel it when you push it in.
Get a friend to take you to a store, or place an order for you?
If using your clit makes you feel like a bad girl and you want to focus on strictly anal only, especially since you know that you can orgasm from it in the right circumstances, I would suggest that you change your perspective on masturbating and stop thinking of it as a quick path to orgasm and self-satisfaction, and more of another opportunity to play with your ass, whether it leads to orgasm or not. Take your clit out of the picture and just enjoy rubbing, fingering, and dildoing your ass. If something in particular feels good, do more of it. If it feels like it could make you cum, focus on that, but don’t make an orgasm your primary goal.
It might be a challenge at first, and it might take multiple rounds of trying it for a while, being unable to resist your clit and going back to old habits, then starting again, but so long as you try to maintain a trend over time of going longer and longer without your clit and only masturbating anally, you’ll eventually be able to get entirely clit-free, and the longer you go without it, the more you’ll find sex and your orgasms with your husband to be even better, and most likely will start to be able to orgasm from anal masturbation as well.
Good luck! You can do it, you know you want it, you know it’s right for you, and if you’re this far into it, you know you won’t be happy until you’re anal only for good.
Well done! It’s a wonderful feeling, I know, to make that decision and stick with it and reap all the rewards of knowing you’re anal only for good.
I don’t and won’t advocate cheating. That’s not fair to anyone. If you’re unhappy in a relationship, respect him enough to be up front and end it before having sex with anyone else.
Before doing that, there are other things you can try. You could compromise and have all your own masturbation/play be strictly anal only and not use your pussy or clit for anything except with him.
You can talk with him and try to figure out why he thinks he likes pussy more. A lot of guys say they do, but it’s rooted in a societal concept that men are supposed to prefer pussy and think of it as a woman’s primary sex organ, rather than a true superiority over anal. If anal regularly requires waiting for cleaning or lots of warmup, some impatient men can find it less exciting than vaginal, because less preparation is needed there. Regularly being prepared for anal at a moment’s notice through regular plug wear or play can make anal and the anal only lifestyle more appealing to such men.
You can ask him if he’ll try going anal only with you for a month and give it a chance on its own merits rather than his preconceived notions about it.
Increased pleasure, increased arousal, increased sexiness, and increased intimacy. It’s also natural birth control.
Why not give it a try for a few months and find out for yourself how you like it? If you’re having a good time after a several month trial period, commit to it then longer term.
Yes, it’s still anal only if you need to combine clit stimulation with anal. I encourage going without clitoral stimulation and learning to focus just on anal pleasure, but not everyone is at that point yet, and you can absolutely still be anal only. So by all means, go anal only now, and over time work towards using your clit less and less until you don’t feel the need for it anymore.
Many people have had success learning to have anal only orgasms over time, often through a combination of clitoral denial and the resulting increase in arousal that comes from that, and a daily practice of anal masturbation and sex. Excluding clitoral stimulation for a while and becoming extremely horny as a result opens your body up more to alternate paths to orgasm, and frequent anal stimulation fills that void and can start to develop the ability to orgasm that way.
Fundamentally “anal only” means “no vaginal penetration for sexual purposes”. A lot of anal only women still use clitoral stimulation if they want/need to. Do what works best for you, and don’t let a desire for clitoral stimulation otherwise prevent you from going anal only.
I would suggest that if you masturbate with your clit while being anal only, make sure to have a finger, dildo or butt plug in your ass at the same time, to remain anal-centric in your masturbation and just use your clit to get over the edge to orgasm.
That said, I do encourage exploring anal without clitoral stimulation, at least from time to time, and figuring out what sort of pleasure you can experience and unlock without your clit overpowering things.
Try using saliva, coconut oil, cocoa or shea butter, natural vaginal lubrication, etc.
Start with just your fingers. Add some lube, massage around your anus with a finger, rubbing across it and around it in circles, let yourself get into it and relax. As it starts to want to open up a bit more, slide one of your fingers inside and move it in and out a bit. Keep adding another finger as you feel yourself relaxing further and wanting more. If something hurts, go back down in size again. It might take multiple play sessions to go up in size. Listen to your body and go at a pace that works for you. Once you can fit three or four fingers with relative ease, then you would be ready for something more.
A cucumber and similar vegetables can make for a reasonable makeshift dildo if you don’t have anything better available. Wash it and make sure it doesn’t have any sharp points on it before trying, and if you have a condom available, try putting that over it as well. Some make do with small bottles as well. But real dildos and butt plugs are best, as they’re designed to go in your ass, so I would recommend getting some.
Congratulations on going anal only, first! That’s always a great decision.
Not everyone finds enemas/douching to be necessary, and many people primarily control cleanliness through simple dietary control (a low-fat, low-sugar balanced diet with a healthy amount of fiber does wonders for natural cleanliness) and getting to know their daily digestive routine to know the best times of day to have sex.
For those who do or who want to make extra sure, a small douching is all that you really need, just enough warm water to flush out the rectum without going deeper, repeated a couple times. Done after going to the bathroom each day, you rarely need more, and it can just take a few minutes. So in that sense, it can just be a quick, easy and routine part of the lifestyle. Some see it as another form of warmup, getting clean and starting to relax before play/sex.
There are those who really enjoy enemas as a form of sexual play in and of itself, but that usually involves longer and deeper enemas, which get into cleaning out the colon well beyond the rectum, and aren’t generally as good to do quite as often as it can disrupt the natural balance of the intestinal flora, whereas a simple rectal flush doesn’t do that.