Can I fill up a tub with my tears and drown?
Why I feel like this?
Anywhere I go. I feel alone. I don’t feel alone with Dana or Taylin.
I don’t feel anyone with me
Everyone else hurts me
If I ever go without a trace.
I leave everything to em.
Trying to step away from Snapchat
The filter makes me look so cute thooo
I think ppl tolerate whooping their children because how society normalize it or even humor it.
But let the child fight back or whip their parents. The world would call em disrespectful or disowned or ungrateful.
If you’re a parent, your first instinct is to protect your child from this world. Since birth, your first instinct is to shield it from harm and guide em to their most beautiful form.
If you’re a parent, you supposed to learn from your parents wrongs and carry their rights through your child.
If society stop normalizing harming your child for discipline… ￼would you stop? Would you learn other ways to speak to your child? Would you listen to your child more? Would you treat your child with respect and equal right equal fights?
Stop thinking harming your child discipline em. It’s not funny. It’s not the right way.
Are you a better parent than your parents or are you forgetting you were once a child
I am not agreeing nor disagreeing with the post but I do believe it is important as to know the origins of whoopings. During slavery, slaves would whoop their kids as a reminder to respect them but mainly the slave masters because if a child disrespected a slave master, they were more than likely to do more than just beat them , many of them would find themselves killed because they may have not listen to the master or disrespected him in someway, shape, or form. So in this sense they were trying to establish a loving fear into them to save their lives LITERALLY. It was a method of protection as well as to establish a respect. I know if I am taught in the house to respect my elders, obviously my mother being the primary receiver of my respect . It will be instilled in my mind to respect anyone outside of my home in that manner because if my MOMMA KNEW I AM OUT HERE ACTING A FOOL. Imma feel it later , but have the best sleep of my life. 🤷🏾♀️
☝🏼 this… is the something someone who try to justify parents actions and I understand her point of view.
She believes parents means good intentions of whooping their children for discipline for survival.
But what parents !!!not the children!!! the parents must understand that theses no one fits all
Some child don’t respond the same with whopping.
It’s the parents responsibility to protect and guide their children. That means!!!!!!! Master their craft. Learn their children. Try to understand em. Learn from their kids. See how other methods of handling their kids beside thinking if “oh my parents parents did it and everyone okay with it so it the only way”
It’s not the only way.
Break the chain and during slavery, do you really think slaves had another choice but to do whatever it take to make sure their children survive. And even the parents was brought up to whopping by their slave owners.
Did you think they had the luxury same as we do?
Please please… don’t think the past is a blueprint is the past should be to educate and learn from it.
Not to repeat it or normalize it.￼
Why did they remove groupchats?
I’m so proud of a black woman.
Back in the day we were represented to be aggressive tough strong no feminism at all.
And if we were feminism people didn’t believe us and push their ideals image onto us.
I’m so happy how far we came. And I’m so excited for where we’re going.
Black girls it’s OK to be vulnerable and strong softly. It’s OK to act like a girly and most importantly.
Fuck everybody else opinion about who are you supposed to be.
It’s all about who you want to be in who are you.
And that’s on
You know what REALLY grinds my gears about certain/most men?
They can literally make entire careers and empires out of exploiting women. Everything from porn to prostitution. They write songs about it, make music videos about it, write books about it, conduct seminars to teach other men how to do the same, and congratulate each other on it (in public and in private).
And yet these SAME guys want to suddenly clutch their pearls and act dumb when they find out that there are women out here who actually use THEM for money/gifts/trips, etc, the same way THEY use women for their own personal pleasure.
These are the same men who wear toxic masculinity like it’s their favorite accessory. These are the same men who are unapologetically sexist, misogynistic, manipulative, borderline abusive, homophobic, transphobic, have wack dick, couldn’t find a G-spot with Google Maps, don’t wash their asses, barely can bother to practice the most minimal amount of personal care and hygiene, are uninteresting, unfunny and some of them barely know how to use a fork and a knife…but somehow can’t fathom the notion that there are women who REFUSE to surrender their time, energy and bodies to them unless she’s being paid or compensated in some way?
Why do so many men think that having a dick and a pulse at the same time puts them on par with the Avengers or the X-Men?? Why do they think that women are just supposed to give up our time to them for the low low price of our dignity and self respect…for free?
They want attractive women but don’t want to help pay for her to get her hair and nails done. They want her to look nice but don’t want to offer to buy her a couple of outfits. They want her to have the perfect body/figure but don’t want to help her pay for her gym membership or to get some extra work done. They believe that it’s woman’s duty to make herself willing and available prey for him and to just consider herself “lucky” that he chose to use her up and waste her time instead of the next person.
They want to put in minimal effort but expect maximum benefits in return. They deep down love to play the game, they just can’t stand it when they run into women who are better at playing the game than they are. To which I say either step your game up, or tag out boo boo kitty.
Only insecure women who haven’t embraced the power of the pussy yet get duped into donating their time to men who have done next to nothing to earn it. (And I’m not judging because I know some of us used to be that woman, it’s never too late to see the light.)
But the way so many men literally have the audacity to DEMAND to be praised and rewarded for their mediocrity is just so upsetting. You don’t get to objectify women and then get mad because we found ways to capitalize on your objectification. Grow TF up.
Because a woman is never a gold digger to a man that can actually afford her. If you can’t afford me, leave me alone. It’s simple as that.
Why do I surround myself with people who think I’m selfish…
I can’t wait be selfish and think about only myself.
But every time I turn around, someone I care about needs me so I drop whatever I’m doing and go to em without a second thought. Sometimes I want to breathe for do the world can hurt em anymore.
But the min I say no or speak my mind or ask for equality. I’m selfish or ungrateful or you shouldn’t need it
Bitch I’m hurting.
I don’t want you to keep hurting me
I’ll walk away and won’t take a second glance at you again with the same devotion I have for you
Please acknowledge I need you too.
don’t spend all day neglecting the things that matter most in favor of mindless activities. the grades you want, the skills you desire, the job you’d kill for, the body you want, the beauty routine that would change everything, the books you want to read, the life you want to live is so much more important. years will go by and you’ll look up, barely being able to remember specific things you wasted time on but you will certainly be able to name everything you missed out on with ease. all that time wasted with nothing to show for it. don’t do it to yourself. prioritize the good life you want and never let it play second fiddle to all of the distractions.
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this is for the college students. The struggle is real
I forgive you. All I can do is think about you when I was a child and how you mean everything to me.
I forgive you for the things you didn’t do and the things you did.