“transandrophobia is not a thing” does not mean “trans men do not face unique issues.” gay men also face unique issues, but that doesn’t mean they’re facing “homoandrophobia,” it means they’re facing homophobia. and if gay men were to coin a specific term for gay male oppression because they saw lesbians talking about lesbophobia and decided they wanted one too, that would be lesbophobic.
lesbophobia is the intersection of misogyny and homophobia. transmisogyny is the intersection of misogyny and transphobia. there is no such thing as “androphobia” for homophobia or transphobia to interact with, and as such there cannot be unique intersections of these dynamics with it. oftentimes what you are describing is actually these dynamics intermingling with misogyny, just presenting in a different way than it does toward trans women because they are women.
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- bricksotherblog15.01.2022 - 2 days ago
ppl: omg I love butch lesbians 😍😍😍 butches are amazing 💋💖💖💕 if you’re a butch lesbian I love you so much 💘💖💕😍💋💋
me: h—
ppl: EXCEPT if you’re a he/him lesbian, trans lesbian, aspec lesbian, nonbinary lesbian, agender lesbian, they/them lesbian, are too masculine, get top surgery, go on hrt, call yourself masculine/gender neutral titles, feel more comfortable being reffered to as a man/neither, do/are literally anything that butches historically and culturally are known to do/be.
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- bricksotherblog14.01.2022 - 3 days ago
@furbearingbrick will you stop reblogging from me and listen to the people that have told you that transandrophobia does not fucking exist.
are you going to listen, or will you perish in righteous flame?
transandrophobia does not exist, simply use transphobia instead. <3
not cool.
That’s funny, I actually hate the term with a passion and have been blocked by most supporters of the person who coined it for this very reason. One of my posts addressing this (which was subsequently screenshotted by the “transandrophobia” crowd and mocked relentlessly) literally says:
so yeah, if you stopped lying about me, that would be great.
do you even have proof of the person making the transandrophobia blocklist being a rapist, or is that an accusation you’ll sling at any trans woman that disagrees with you.
I didn’t say the op was a rapist, i said shey was a rape apologist
I literally linked the receipt in the post but since it seems you want to pretend it doesn’t exist…
I’d request higher-res versions of the screenshots, but fluxphage has me blocked (again, not a big surprise)
fluxphage is literally a transandrophobia truther + they’ve outright said that trans men don’t oppress trans women. (we literally do.)
Also I’m obviously not in that aro server anymore, so I can’t provide more context or screenshots, but I explained this after I sent the message which Kirin is using as proof that I’m a rape apologist — When I sent it, I hadn’t read the earlier messages in the thread to know that Kirin was opening up about their traumatic experience. I apologized several times, including in DMs to Kirin, and I acknowledge that it was incredibly careless and hurtful of me to not be more conscious of others in that thread. I inserted myself into the conversation without the full context and ended up hurting someone because of it. That was wrong of me, and I genuinely am sorry.
But I truly don’t know how that makes me a rape apologist. I made a really stupid mistake. I never said that Kirin’s trauma didn’t happen or was justified or that trans women can’t be rapists.
I’m glad we could get things cleared up. I’ve deleted the offending “callout” post, and I urge anyone who’s reblogged it to do the same.
update: I checked Kirin’s blog and they’re doubling down
update 2: I didn’t think it was possible, but Kirin’s actually getting worse
update 3: Kirin’s apparently a racefaker and a zionist as well
christ this person’s like a fucking Matryoshka doll of horrible
you got scrots of that?
It was an anonymous tip, it was the same message was that was sent to aromantic-fugo.
You’re right, though; I really should confirm that. I’ve certainly been lied to before that way *gets bad flashbacks to The Incident*
OK I actually checked up on the race-faking claim and it’s not true, looks like the anon was just trying to start shit
Kirin’s still a transmisogynist fuckface though
43 - bricksotherblog13.01.2022 - 4 days ago
TERFs will be out here saying that trans men transition to get male privilege and some of yall don’t even question them. Like yall seem to think masculine = cis acceptable then whine and cry misogyny when anyone yall don’t deem feminine enough says otherwise.
296 - bricksotherblog13.01.2022 - 4 days ago
@furbearingbrick will you stop reblogging from me and listen to the people that have told you that transandrophobia does not fucking exist.
are you going to listen, or will you perish in righteous flame?
transandrophobia does not exist, simply use transphobia instead. <3
not cool.
That’s funny, I actually hate the term with a passion and have been blocked by most supporters of the person who coined it for this very reason. One of my posts addressing this (which was subsequently screenshotted by the “transandrophobia” crowd and mocked relentlessly) literally says:
so yeah, if you stopped lying about me, that would be great.
do you even have proof of the person making the transandrophobia blocklist being a rapist, or is that an accusation you’ll sling at any trans woman that disagrees with you.
I didn’t say the op was a rapist, i said shey was a rape apologist
I literally linked the receipt in the post but since it seems you want to pretend it doesn’t exist…
I’d request higher-res versions of the screenshots, but fluxphage has me blocked (again, not a big surprise)
fluxphage is literally a transandrophobia truther + they’ve outright said that trans men don’t oppress trans women. (we literally do.)
Also I’m obviously not in that aro server anymore, so I can’t provide more context or screenshots, but I explained this after I sent the message which Kirin is using as proof that I’m a rape apologist — When I sent it, I hadn’t read the earlier messages in the thread to know that Kirin was opening up about their traumatic experience. I apologized several times, including in DMs to Kirin, and I acknowledge that it was incredibly careless and hurtful of me to not be more conscious of others in that thread. I inserted myself into the conversation without the full context and ended up hurting someone because of it. That was wrong of me, and I genuinely am sorry.
But I truly don’t know how that makes me a rape apologist. I made a really stupid mistake. I never said that Kirin’s trauma didn’t happen or was justified or that trans women can’t be rapists.
I’m glad we could get things cleared up. I’ve deleted the offending “callout” post, and I urge anyone who’s reblogged it to do the same.
update: I checked Kirin’s blog and they’re doubling down
update 2: I didn’t think it was possible, but Kirin’s actually getting worse
update 3: Kirin’s apparently a racefaker and a zionist as well
christ this person’s like a fucking Matryoshka doll of horrible
you got scrots of that?
It was an anonymous tip, it was the same message was that was sent to aromantic-fugo.
You’re right, though; I really should confirm that. I’ve certainly been lied to before that way *gets bad flashbacks to The Incident*
43 - bricksotherblog13.01.2022 - 4 days ago
@furbearingbrick will you stop reblogging from me and listen to the people that have told you that transandrophobia does not fucking exist.
are you going to listen, or will you perish in righteous flame?
transandrophobia does not exist, simply use transphobia instead. <3
not cool.
That’s funny, I actually hate the term with a passion and have been blocked by most supporters of the person who coined it for this very reason. One of my posts addressing this (which was subsequently screenshotted by the “transandrophobia” crowd and mocked relentlessly) literally says:
so yeah, if you stopped lying about me, that would be great.
do you even have proof of the person making the transandrophobia blocklist being a rapist, or is that an accusation you’ll sling at any trans woman that disagrees with you.
I didn’t say the op was a rapist, i said shey was a rape apologist
I literally linked the receipt in the post but since it seems you want to pretend it doesn’t exist…
I’d request higher-res versions of the screenshots, but fluxphage has me blocked (again, not a big surprise)
fluxphage is literally a transandrophobia truther + they’ve outright said that trans men don’t oppress trans women. (we literally do.)
Also I’m obviously not in that aro server anymore, so I can’t provide more context or screenshots, but I explained this after I sent the message which Kirin is using as proof that I’m a rape apologist — When I sent it, I hadn’t read the earlier messages in the thread to know that Kirin was opening up about their traumatic experience. I apologized several times, including in DMs to Kirin, and I acknowledge that it was incredibly careless and hurtful of me to not be more conscious of others in that thread. I inserted myself into the conversation without the full context and ended up hurting someone because of it. That was wrong of me, and I genuinely am sorry.
But I truly don’t know how that makes me a rape apologist. I made a really stupid mistake. I never said that Kirin’s trauma didn’t happen or was justified or that trans women can’t be rapists.
I’m glad we could get things cleared up. I’ve deleted the offending “callout” post, and I urge anyone who’s reblogged it to do the same.
update: I checked Kirin’s blog and they’re doubling down
update 2: I didn’t think it was possible, but Kirin’s actually getting worse
update 3: Kirin’s apparently a racefaker and a zionist as well
christ this person’s like a fucking Matryoshka doll of horrible
43 - bricksotherblog13.01.2022 - 4 days ago
“only white transmascs describe themselves as stuff like ‘stinky trash rat gremlin’ because toxic masculinity and male entitlement and men are inherently disgusting and men men men and”
you do realize it’s mostly nonbinary people doing that, right
right
aaaand there’s that “only white people have
unpalatable to our cishet overlordsaesthetically displeasing to me personallyweird and probably harmful genders though i have no real proof of that last part just trust me” tactic again! I totally haven’t seen that before!26 - bricksotherblog13.01.2022 - 4 days ago
baokki :
Hey, can y'all not put @/bering-strait on my dash anymore? I’m tired of his white as fuck takes. He has so many good posts about transphobia, but his dumb racist ass is defending the Keith Haring shit a lot of us recently found out about because… white men will defend white men! As a bonus, he basically said everyone disagreeing with him is an uneducated child and made a joke about school underfunding - what a classy move considering it’s an issue that disproportionately harms people of color, the victims of Keith Haring’s abuse were people or color, and the people in our community most hurt by these realizations… are people of color.
As a bisexual trans man of color it makes me viscerally uncomfortable to see this shit. Criticizing the racism and predatory nature of white gay men, even HIV+ ones, for preying on young men and literal teenagers (largely Black and brown ones) is not fucking homophobia or serophobia.
Anyway, here’s a post with photos of the book pages that contain the supposedly “out of context joke” that definitely isn’t a fucking joke. It’s a whole interview with Juan Rivera about being used by Keith Haring and witnessing him having affairs with boys and using them for “inspiration,” and additionally included the fact that Haring didn’t appropriately disclose his HIV+ status. Between the fact that Haring knowingly had sex with someone without disclosing his HIV+ status and the fact that he was in his thirties having sex with underage and barely legal teens… especially fetishizing boys of color… sure fucking sounds like a racist sexual predator to me!
If you don’t trust the pictures of that book in that post, the full book detailing Rivera’s life and experiences can be found here.
he’s now at cock-dealer
UPDATE: last night (Jan 12th, 2022) he made a series of posts implying that he was attempting suicide by overdosing on pain medication. As of this reblog (4:33 PM Eastern Standard Time, Jan 13th 2022) he hasn’t posted anything else. Until anything is confirmed about this, Morg should still be referred to in the present tense.
UPDATE: he’s still alive
1168 - bricksotherblog13.01.2022 - 4 days ago
about tme/tma
The earliest usage of “TME” I could find was from 2015.
Earliest usage of “TME” by people who are not the apparent coiner are from early 2016.
“TMC” (transmisogyny confined/constrained) from mid-2016.
“TMA” also from mid-2016,
but the full “transmisogyny affected” from late 2017.
“Transmisogyny experiencing” was also a thing apparently.
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bricksotherblog13.01.2022 - 4 days agoi just saw an incredibly shithead take about transhets by an exclusie, so i made this to calm down
because of current fuckshittery, I am forced to make another addition
time to get blocked by even more people
187- bricksotherblog12.01.2022 - 5 days ago
baokki :
Hey, can y'all not put @/bering-strait on my dash anymore? I’m tired of his white as fuck takes. He has so many good posts about transphobia, but his dumb racist ass is defending the Keith Haring shit a lot of us recently found out about because… white men will defend white men! As a bonus, he basically said everyone disagreeing with him is an uneducated child and made a joke about school underfunding - what a classy move considering it’s an issue that disproportionately harms people of color, the victims of Keith Haring’s abuse were people or color, and the people in our community most hurt by these realizations… are people of color.
As a bisexual trans man of color it makes me viscerally uncomfortable to see this shit. Criticizing the racism and predatory nature of white gay men, even HIV+ ones, for preying on young men and literal teenagers (largely Black and brown ones) is not fucking homophobia or serophobia.
Anyway, here’s a post with photos of the book pages that contain the supposedly “out of context joke” that definitely isn’t a fucking joke. It’s a whole interview with Juan Rivera about being used by Keith Haring and witnessing him having affairs with boys and using them for “inspiration,” and additionally included the fact that Haring didn’t appropriately disclose his HIV+ status. Between the fact that Haring knowingly had sex with someone without disclosing his HIV+ status and the fact that he was in his thirties having sex with underage and barely legal teens… especially fetishizing boys of color… sure fucking sounds like a racist sexual predator to me!
If you don’t trust the pictures of that book in that post, the full book detailing Rivera’s life and experiences can be found here.
he’s now at cock-dealer
UPDATE: last night (Jan 12th, 2022) he made a series of posts implying that he was attempting suicide by overdosing on pain medication. As of this reblog (4:33 PM Eastern Standard Time, Jan 13th 2022) he hasn’t posted anything else. Until anything is confirmed about this, Morg should still be referred to in the present tense.
1168 - bricksotherblog12.01.2022 - 5 days agoQuestion:
I havent seen tylenol being racist, I havent seen him being against trans women, and if he didnt know you were trans he just didnt know. If his friends who talked to him about it and probably took the screenshots didnt inform him that you are trans, how the hell would he know? You have blocked him so he cant access your blog. In what way is he being racist, because I have not seen him being racist. And dont just say its because he supports dead-dyke or any of his friends, I want concrete proof that he is actually racist, and not him interacting with someone who was involved in a misunderstanding that you and your sibling still refuse to let go.
Answer:look—if you can’t understand how him budding into intracommunity discussions, and policing the words black people use to discuss our own intracommunity oppression is racist, and also rallying his white friends to also have a say on that—and then end up saying actual anti black slurs on their blog, discussing how black people joke about their own oppression, literally discussing a black person using the term ‘monkey’, etc. then I don’t know how to tell you that what he and his white friends are doing is racist.
And even if you have someone blocked, you can quite literally still look on their blog to check their pronouns and their gender. Like even if people have me blocked, I actually do go on their blog to make sure I’m not misgendering them or mislabeling their gender. Can you imagine if I called tylenol or all of them cis and misgendered them because I refused to actually to the basic, polite and decent thing and check their pronouns? Can you imagine if I willingly called them cis for years and when I was called out, I said “well I’m blocked so how did I know?” you know that isn’t right at all—you need to stop trying to switch it up just because you like this person. It’s like the way you have gone out of your way to excuse misgendering and ignoring someone’s trans masc identity just because you don’t like the person is heavily tranphobic, but I really don’t think at this point y’all give a damn. like you don’t give a shit. like i love how y'all turned me into the bad guy for me getting upset at you misgendering me and misidentifying me, just like you did that to my sister when you made fun of her trans identity. and none of y'all apologized for it. i guess it’s okay to misgender and make fun and misidentify black trans and trans masc people if you don’t agree with them
Also “refuse to let go”….yo, literally they are quite literally the ones who are still talking about it. I can go DAYS without talking about them, my sister can go days without talking about them, and we still see them in our tags. Like just look in my tag, or wocs tag….like y'all will be talking about us for legit days straight when we haven’t even brought you up. during my hiatus, you all were still talking about me and i literally didn’t give a hsit.
Quite literally, tylenol, nothorses and their whole group will talk about us randomly, nonstop. Even though they sit here and say they don’t go on our blogs, every. Single. Day there is a print screen from or blogs, or one of them literally SEARCHING through our blogs digging up a link, or saying some weird shit. They are always talking about us. I bet if I went to any one of their blogs, they are talking about me. The only reason I started talking about them recently was literally because I was being misgendered and misidentified and that wasn’t okay.
And also, because they are literally tone policing how I as a black person can speak??? I haven’t been talking about them randomly—I have let it go but im not gonna let people misgender/identify me?
And even more so when their whole group is deciding to speak on race and racism? Like it’s just funny how you tell me to let it go when I can’t even talk about intracommunity black issues without them, as white people, prinstcreeing my shit, and inserting themselves in the conversation and attempting to police how I can talk about issues that affect ME as a black person, using lingo and words that affect ME and other black people
it’s funny how you tell me to let it go when nothorses quite literally has opened his inbox to people from my past, who were racist to me, literally telling him how they were being racist and how I ‘harassed’ them for discussing racism in the fandom and holding discussions of racism in fandom. It’s funny how nothorses and his whole group are literally ridiculing and discussing my discussions of racism while inviting people who were racist to me in the past to slander me and having these conversations daily??
I can’t even talk about racism—things that aren’t related to them—without them as white people getting offended and inserting themselves in the conversation. I can’t even talk about racism or intracommunity black issues without them printscreening my things, and hosting discussions that don’t involve them, and even posting slurs that they shoudldn’t be using and tone policing my language.
Why do you think I’m leaving tumblr? Literally because of them. it’s ALL because of them.
I am not safe to talk about racism or black issues because they are always going to be policing me. They are always going to be inviting racists who I’ve gotten into arguments with in the past, or who just didn’t like my racist metas, accusing me of ‘harassment’, because I spoke about racism. They will always be stalking my blog, and printscreening my discussions of racism, even if they are white, and scrutinizing them. They have literally harassed and stalked me to the point where I am not free to talk about any form of racism on my blog without them looking and bringing it up. So they literally are responsible for harassing not one, but two black trans masc people off of tumblr <3
‘let it go’, yes I am trying. But then I get weird anons like this, who don’t take a black persons word and concrete examples of racism. Im sorry, but not every instance of racism is saying the n word or anything like that. If a black person is having intracommunity discussions and you are intruding as a white person and trying to tone police that is racist, because white people have tone policed how black people speak for ages. White people discussing fandom racism and shaming a black person for discussing it, and calling it harassment (despite the fact that I have been harassed for discussing fandom racism TONS of times), and giving people a platform to do so is racist. But you probably won’t believe that. So I really don’t know what else to tell you.
LIKE im pretty sure, almost 10000% sure this post is gonna end up on their blogs or they’ll at least be referencing it. I’m pretty sure they’ll be talking about it. But who cares–it just proves my point.
and if you’re gonna send me anything else, send it to me OFF anon or i will block you.
35 - bricksotherblog11.01.2022 - 6 days ago
me: lucifer psychologically manipulated me for years and i’m still recovering from it. i wish i’d never met them. i hate them so much and i want them to die horribly.
fucko: ah, so you still support them? you’re butt buddies? you want to marry them?
me: i saw a receipt that seemed to prove that the creator of the “transandrophobia truther” blocklist was an abuse apologist, but this turned out to be a case of miscommunication on both ends, and patched things out with the person in question. I have since rescinded and apologized for the “callout.” the accuser, on the other hand, doesn’t seem to have learnt a thing and deserves to be disregarded. Also, I hate the term “transandrophobia” and the person who coined it with a passion.
fucko: I KNEW IT! YOU’RE BUDDY-BUDDY WITH TRANSANDROPHOBIA TRUTHERS!! YOU’RE BASICALLY A TERF AT THIS POINT!!! AND DON’T FORGET YOU USED TO SUPPORT LUCIFER EVEN THOUGH THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS!!!
me: here’s Julia Serano, the creator of the term “transmisogyny,” literally saying that…
fucko: DIE, BIGOT
18 - bricksotherblog11.01.2022 - 6 days ago
me: lucifer psychologically manipulated me for years and i’m still recovering from it. i wish i’d never met them. i hate them so much and i want them to die horribly.
fucko: ah, so you still support them? you’re butt buddies? you want to marry them?
me: i saw a receipt that seemed to prove that the creator of the “transandrophobia truther” blocklist was an abuse apologist, but this turned out to be a case of miscommunication on both ends, and patched things out with the person in question. I have since rescinded and apologized for the “callout.” the accuser, on the other hand, doesn’t seem to have learnt a thing and deserves to be disregarded. Also, I hate the term “transandrophobia” and the person who coined it with a passion.
fucko: I KNEW IT! YOU’RE BUDDY-BUDDY WITH TRANSANDROPHOBIA TRUTHERS!! YOU’RE BASICALLY A TERF AT THIS POINT!!! AND DON’T FORGET YOU USED TO SUPPORT LUCIFER EVEN THOUGH THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS!!!
me: here’s Julia Serano, the creator of the term “transmisogyny,” literally saying that…
fucko: DIE, BIGOT
18 - bricksotherblog11.01.2022 - 6 days ago
me: lucifer psychologically manipulated me for years and i’m still recovering from it. i wish i’d never met them. i hate them so much and i want them to die horribly.
fucko: ah, so you still support them? you’re butt buddies? you want to marry them?
me: i saw a receipt that seemed to prove that the creator of the “transandrophobia truther” blocklist was an abuse apologist, but this turned out to be a case of miscommunication on both ends, and patched things out with the person in question. I have since rescinded and apologized for the “callout.” the accuser, on the other hand, doesn’t seem to have learnt a thing and deserves to be disregarded. Also, I hate the term “transandrophobia” and the person who coined it with a passion.
fucko: I KNEW IT! YOU’RE BUDDY-BUDDY WITH TRANSANDROPHOBIA TRUTHERS!! YOU’RE BASICALLY A TERF AT THIS POINT!!! AND DON’T FORGET YOU USED TO SUPPORT LUCIFER EVEN THOUGH THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS!!!
18 - bricksotherblog10.01.2022 - 6 days ago
Posts that are like “if you see terfs taking more about trans men than trans women it’s because it’s more socially acceptable to question and attack trans men” and “terfs are specifically anti trans women and we need to stop calling man-hating gatekeepers terfs” just show how little people genuinely understand about terfs and terf ideology
You don’t have to be an expert but this kind of compartmentalizarion, separation of issues, and hyperfocus on specifically transmisogyny while sidelining everything else is EXTREMELY harmful to discussions about terfism, because it willfully obscures the breadth of and intent behind their beliefs and ideology.
i know that i’ve said this before but it’s worth repeating: there are some TERFs who call themselves MERFs instead (male exclusionary radical feminists) and while trans exclusionary more accurately captures the harm that they do, male exclusionary is a better summary of what they believe. (that said. TERF is the more common and more understood term and calling them MERFs just,,,feels icky.)
this is because, as many of them have pointed out, they are in fact inclusive to trans men and exclusionary to trans women. that’s because trans men are AFAB (”natal women”) and trans men are AMAB (”natal men”), and their fight isn’t against trans women as women, but against trans women as male individuals. or at least, that’s how they see it.
if you read JoKe Rowling’s essay TERF Wars, you’ll notice that she actually talks more about trans men than she does about trans women. that for all of the attention that her book–with a man who disguises himself as a religiously veiled woman in order to commit violence against women–received, the more important and ideological book that was published recently was titled Irreversibly Damaged, which is specifically about the way that “gender theory” harms young AFAB people. it’s written by a woman who uses the testimonies of parents whose AFAB children transitioned rather than the testimonies of the trans youth themselves, to push TERF rhetoric about how “trans indoctrination” and “gender ideology” brainwashes young AFAB people who are socially isolated, neurodivergent, gender nonconforming, attracted to other girls/women, etc. into transitioning into the bodies and social roles of men instead of tackling the pain and suffering of being a woman. This is based off of the idea that FtM trans people transition because of the trauma of misogyny, rather than dysphoria and gender.
(On the flip side, MtF trans people transition, according to TERFs, because of a fetishized view of womanhood that they are trying to “appropriate” without the trauma of girlhood and womanhood, and MtF trans people inevitably are sexually deviant, predatory, and disgusting; they are the oppressor class whose transition is driven by a fetish for the womanhood that they (”natal males”) never had, while FtM trans people transition because of that oppression directed against them.)
TERFs do not believe in gender; this is why the alternate name that many of them prefer is “gender critical”. If they do believe in gender, they believe that gender and womanhood are born specifically out of misogynistic trauma, hence why young AFAB people want to transition to escape it, and hence why AMAB trans people can never “truly” be women.
TERFs want to, at the core of their ideology, “protect natal women from natal men”. The enemy is not transness inherently, but they believe that they are protecting “women” from “males” (trans women), and on the other hand believe that they are protecting young AFAB people from maleness (transitioning to men).
That isn’t to say that TERFisms aren’t inherently transphobic, nor that they aren’t virulently directed at trans women. But to act as if transphobia and specifically transmisogyny is the sole and primary aim of TERF ideology is ridiculously ignorant and allows them to continue to target and attack FtM trans youth, who they see as their “lost lesbian sisters”, as “the tomboy that I was when I was a kid, and if I was born in this age, I probably would have transitioned too”, as the “natal women and girls” who are so traumatized by their oppression that they “mistakenly desire to join the oppressor class”.
38 - bricksotherblog10.01.2022 - 1 week ago
MOGAI is an acronym meaning; Marginalized Orientations, Gender identities, And intersex.
I see so many posts talking about how “MOGAI is harmful to the LGBTQ community!” and “MOGAI is fake!” To the people making those posts I just want to say this…..
IT IS LITERALLY THE ENTIRE LGBTQ COMMUNITY YOU FUCKING MASHED POTATOES!
WE ARE ALL MARGINALIZED ORIENTATIONS AND GENDERS!!!
UNLESS YOUR A CISHET ALLO YOU ARE MOGAI!!!
WHY ARE YOU ALL SO ANGRY ABOUT THIS?!?!
WTF ARE YOU IDOTS SMOKING???
I still remember when exclusionists were claiming up and down that MOGAI includes pedophiles and then the actual creator showed up and explained that it was specifically created to replace the other proposed acronym to replace SAGA (GRSM) which did include wiggle room for pedos
EXCUSE?
thank you for the info but I’m actually flabbergasted, I had no idea that happened.
116 - bricksotherblog10.01.2022 - 1 week ago
@furbearingbrick will you stop reblogging from me and listen to the people that have told you that transandrophobia does not fucking exist.
are you going to listen, or will you perish in righteous flame?
transandrophobia does not exist, simply use transphobia instead. <3
not cool.
That’s funny, I actually hate the term with a passion and have been blocked by most supporters of the person who coined it for this very reason. One of my posts addressing this (which was subsequently screenshotted by the “transandrophobia” crowd and mocked relentlessly) literally says:
so yeah, if you stopped lying about me, that would be great.
do you even have proof of the person making the transandrophobia blocklist being a rapist, or is that an accusation you’ll sling at any trans woman that disagrees with you.
I didn’t say the op was a rapist, i said shey was a rape apologist
I literally linked the receipt in the post but since it seems you want to pretend it doesn’t exist…
I’d request higher-res versions of the screenshots, but fluxphage has me blocked (again, not a big surprise)
fluxphage is literally a transandrophobia truther + they’ve outright said that trans men don’t oppress trans women. (we literally do.)
Also I’m obviously not in that aro server anymore, so I can’t provide more context or screenshots, but I explained this after I sent the message which Kirin is using as proof that I’m a rape apologist — When I sent it, I hadn’t read the earlier messages in the thread to know that Kirin was opening up about their traumatic experience. I apologized several times, including in DMs to Kirin, and I acknowledge that it was incredibly careless and hurtful of me to not be more conscious of others in that thread. I inserted myself into the conversation without the full context and ended up hurting someone because of it. That was wrong of me, and I genuinely am sorry.
But I truly don’t know how that makes me a rape apologist. I made a really stupid mistake. I never said that Kirin’s trauma didn’t happen or was justified or that trans women can’t be rapists.
I’m glad we could get things cleared up. I’ve deleted the offending “callout” post, and I urge anyone who’s reblogged it to do the same.
43 - bricksotherblog10.01.2022 - 1 week ago
ATTENTION
if you’ve reblogged this post of mine
please delete it right away
it has come to my attention that fluxphage, the person who collaborated the “receipts”, was sort of lying.
sorry about that!
10 - bricksotherblog09.01.2022 - 1 week ago
ATTENTION
if you’ve reblogged this post of mine
please delete it right away
it has come to my attention that fluxphage, the person who collaborated the “receipts”, was sort of lying.
sorry about that!
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bricksotherblog09.01.2022 - 1 week ago“but they’re planning on making their devices slightly cheaper!” fuck off apple shit is still intentionally broken crap and they’re still weaponizing the fact that they have almost no competition
23- bricksotherblog09.01.2022 - 1 week ago
there’s a huge wave of “All Callout Posts Are Automatically Smear Campaigns Unless Proven Otherwise” posts on my dash all of a sudden
[ID: Detective Pikachu grimacing. End ID.]
12 - bricksotherblog08.01.2022 - 1 week ago
@ transmasc: just because transfems are more visible doesn’t mean they’re actually getting support. hypervisibility is, in fact, just as shitty as invisibility
222 - bricksotherblog08.01.2022 - 1 week agoQuestion:
do you have receipts for gem-femme supporting dead-dyke? thank you for calling out dead-dyke and co!
Answer:so during the time nothorses was calling out woc (which was like yesterday) for bring to light how awful dead-dyke was, gem-femme made a post in support of everything nothorses was doing, including defending dead-dyke. when woc and her followers inquired about it, gem-femme basically had a fit, and was cursing at woc and was basically being very mean and aggressive (saying woc was “dragging them into drama), and not doing anything to call out nothorses or ignore the fact that nothorses was support dead-dyke. nothorses also reblogged gem-femme’s post in a way to support dead-dyke (and be antiblack toward woc) and also mentioned gem-femme and dead-dyke together in a post as trans mascs blogs to follow. gem-femme also allowed some of their nonblack followers to be antiblack toward woc, and these followers also followed dead-dyke and nothorses. so yeah, hope this makes sense.
gem-femme also has a history of being rude and aggressive to other black people when they are called out, and allow nonblack people to be antiblack to black people so yeah. they’re garbage.
73 - bricksotherblog08.01.2022 - 1 week ago
so julia serano (the woman who coined the term transmisogyny) has this to say about it.
huh.
21 - bricksotherblog06.01.2022 - 1 week ago
fucko: Pansexual originated as as a biphobic term! Stop speaking over bisexuals when they tell you this!
me: Actually, I’m a bisexual too, and I can tell you for a fact that the only bis saying that are ones whose only exposure to our very own history is through the lens of exclusionist rhetoric. Our community has historically been extremely accepting of other mspec labels, and it’s been like that until very recently, when exclusionists realized that antagonizing aces/aros was going out of style and switched to a new “acceptable” target. This cycle’s been going on for a while now, and actually started with biphobia. Older bis like me who were around when the “switch” happened a few years ago have been begging y’all to cut out the historical revisionism fuckery.
fucko: eh, whatever. it doesn’t matter anyway.
bringing this back cuz y’all can’t seem to learn from your mistakes, ever
229 - bricksotherblog06.01.2022 - 1 week ago
rjalker :
in conclusion:
people who hate they/them pronouns *handshake meme* people who hate the word latinx
united in transphobia masquerading as “correct grammar”
8 - bricksotherblog05.01.2022 - 1 week ago
animefacialrecognitionsoftware01:
animefacialrecognitionsoftware01:
Absolutely love how every self-respecting latino despises with all their souls the word “Latinx”, to the point even our progressives do so too since it completely undermined their efforts for a true gender-neutral language in the form of the -e suffix, as everyone feels it’s something Americans forced upon us without never asking, which is actually what happened.
Seriously, fuck Latinx, all my panas and parceros hate Latinx, do not support that denomination rooted in racism and imperialism!
Disney:
Latinos all around twitter:
In summary
No nos llamen Latinx, por el amor a Dios.
I really liked the phrase “new white man’s burden” I think it sums it up pretty well.
ABOUT DAMN TIME. if you want to use gender neutral language, use latine(s). you know, a word that actually fits in with the spanish language. or just latino(s). latinos is fine. people who don’t speak spanish don’t understand that our grammar doesn’t work the way english does, and that latinos has been used as a gender neutral word for ages so THERE
MY INSTINCTS NEVER MISS BESTIES!
i knew this stank of pepefrog chadbro bullshit the second i saw that off-brand stonetoss lookalike art style
And i can’t believe i nearly missed this revolting example of underhanded antisemitism in the very first comic!
But hey im not the only one who nearly missed it, ppl been tryna warn us and no one else bothered to check either! Yall will bend over backwards warning ppl abt terfs but do the absolute least when it comes to putting those skills into practice
Yall really need to do a better job vetting this shit. Ppl don’t call us gullible for laffs.
Learn ur dogwhistles and don’t be so quick to trust ppl here.
Bigots work best in the shadows and under the radar but they ALWAYS leave breadcrumbs. Look for them!
Be “needlessly” suspicious! These ppl count on ur complacency, the best defense against fascism is vigilance!
Bigotry thrives on naiveté.
DO BETTER!!
ALSO! While i was looking into this:
Also, can I say?
I’ve been seeing on the Twitter side of things that some people will just straight up use ragingly transmisogynistic caricatures for their wojacks, like there’s a version of that “hola my Latinx friends” one that replaces the generic character with really terrible trans women caricatures.And if you call them out on this they play dumb and pretend that you’re just calling them a transphobe/transmisogynist for criticizing the word Latinx and not… you know… the caricatures of trans women.
(Not to mention it reeks of the whole “blame specifically trans women for literally everything” shit basically every transphobe seems to do.
Like, this is something that’s intended for *everyone* regardless of gender who uses neutral terms, it’s not specifically for trans women alone but they’re doing the shit basically every transphobe seems to do and laser-focusing on trans women for no good reason.)
44800 - bricksotherblog05.01.2022 - 1 week agoQuestion:
Could you post some historical articles of lesbian men please? I've been feeling confused and invalidated by your posts and I'm interested in clarifying things but not sure where to start looking beyond Google.
Answer:yes of course! historically there have been many records of lesbian men communities and testimonies from trans men who identified as lesbian.
there are many sources and screenshots of articles in this carrd here, and i’ve heard from elders that lesbian men used to be regarded just as any other lesbian in lesbian communities, talking about lesboy as an older identity that they remembered seeing articles about in the 1980s, etc. a lot of this history was never recorded because let’s face it- historical records of queer people are sparse because of censorship, regimes, and campaigns against queer people.
here’s an article by an enby lesbian describing their identity and the history of non-binary lesbians. yes, the article uses a not-so-great definition of being lesbian (non-men attracted to non-men), but i still find it valuable. not everyone is either a man or a non-man. if we’re to celebrate the diverse history of gender non-conforming lesbians and non-binary lesbians, it is necessary to include non-binary men, stone butches, multigender enbies, and ALL non-binary people because being non-binary isn’t a binary. it’s not “woman-lite” and it’s not “non-women and non-men” and treating it like it is, is absolutely exorsexist.
the lesbian bar project is a project of many lesbians working to restore and preserve lesbian bars across the USA. on their homepage, they quite literally mention that the project intends for lesbian bars to be safe for all people for whom the lesbian label fits, and they explicitly include trans men. now, i don’t know about you, but i’m pretty sure a real organization dedicated to preserving lesbian history, knows their history. you can check out their homepage here.
additionally, i highly recommend you read stone butch blues if you can. it’s by leslie feinberg, a very famous stone butch activist who wrote about hir experience as a stone butch through stone butch blues (that’s not…. necessarily a great summary but it’s a wonderful book) you can read it here
i also recommend just looking up lesboy on tumblr, and you’ll see people describing their identities.
i think a confusion that many people have is that lesboy refers to cishet guys. it doesn’t. cishet guys are the only people who CAN’T be lesbians by nature. and they’re not trying to be. sure, there are individual examples of straight dudes making shitty lesbophobic jokes, example drake in that stupid song of his. but there is no widespread issue of cishet dudes identifying as lesbian to troll. there are, however, trans, non-binary, and genderqueer guys who genuinely do, and after hearing so so many people talk about their identities, how much they love and feel connected to the lesbian identity, how much it hurts to feel like they don’t belong- i can’t in good conscience not support them.
thank you for reaching out. i do apologize that my posts made you feel invalidated, and i think it’s wonderful that you care about making sure you have the right information and not just hopping right onto the hate train just because you may not understand. thank you and if you have any more questions, please feel free to reach out again!
58 - bricksotherblog02.01.2021 - 2 weeks ago
so it turns out some truscum are begrudgingly starting to admit genders besides “male” and “female” exist but they can’t go back on their stance of xenogenders and neopronouns being “harmful MOGAI bullshit” because that would make their “being palatable to our cishet oppressors is the only thing that matters” worldview fall apart so they came up with “alternatives” to them called “xenoidentities” and “nicknouns” which are, functionally, completely the same
oh, but insist these are absolutely not those nasty, weird, ableist MOGAI genders and pronouns, which are hard-wired into your brain from birth and can’t change ever! because that’s totally how gender works! xenoidentities and nicknouns are based off things you connect to and you can coin them just for fun, unlike xenogenders and neopronouns, which are based off things you connect to and can be coined just for fun! /s
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