I havent seen tylenol being racist, I havent seen him being against trans women, and if he didnt know you were trans he just didnt know. If his friends who talked to him about it and probably took the screenshots didnt inform him that you are trans, how the hell would he know? You have blocked him so he cant access your blog. In what way is he being racist, because I have not seen him being racist. And dont just say its because he supports dead-dyke or any of his friends, I want concrete proof that he is actually racist, and not him interacting with someone who was involved in a misunderstanding that you and your sibling still refuse to let go.
look—if you can’t understand how him budding into intracommunity discussions, and policing the words black people use to discuss our own intracommunity oppression is racist, and also rallying his white friends to also have a say on that—and then end up saying actual anti black slurs on their blog, discussing how black people joke about their own oppression, literally discussing a black person using the term ‘monkey’, etc. then I don’t know how to tell you that what he and his white friends are doing is racist.
And even if you have someone blocked, you can quite literally still look on their blog to check their pronouns and their gender. Like even if people have me blocked, I actually do go on their blog to make sure I’m not misgendering them or mislabeling their gender. Can you imagine if I called tylenol or all of them cis and misgendered them because I refused to actually to the basic, polite and decent thing and check their pronouns? Can you imagine if I willingly called them cis for years and when I was called out, I said “well I’m blocked so how did I know?” you know that isn’t right at all—you need to stop trying to switch it up just because you like this person. It’s like the way you have gone out of your way to excuse misgendering and ignoring someone’s trans masc identity just because you don’t like the person is heavily tranphobic, but I really don’t think at this point y’all give a damn. like you don’t give a shit. like i love how y'all turned me into the bad guy for me getting upset at you misgendering me and misidentifying me, just like you did that to my sister when you made fun of her trans identity. and none of y'all apologized for it. i guess it’s okay to misgender and make fun and misidentify black trans and trans masc people if you don’t agree with them
Also “refuse to let go”….yo, literally they are quite literally the ones who are still talking about it. I can go DAYS without talking about them, my sister can go days without talking about them, and we still see them in our tags. Like just look in my tag, or wocs tag….like y'all will be talking about us for legit days straight when we haven’t even brought you up. during my hiatus, you all were still talking about me and i literally didn’t give a hsit.
Quite literally, tylenol, nothorses and their whole group will talk about us randomly, nonstop. Even though they sit here and say they don’t go on our blogs, every. Single. Day there is a print screen from or blogs, or one of them literally SEARCHING through our blogs digging up a link, or saying some weird shit. They are always talking about us. I bet if I went to any one of their blogs, they are talking about me. The only reason I started talking about them recently was literally because I was being misgendered and misidentified and that wasn’t okay.
And also, because they are literally tone policing how I as a black person can speak??? I haven’t been talking about them randomly—I have let it go but im not gonna let people misgender/identify me?
And even more so when their whole group is deciding to speak on race and racism? Like it’s just funny how you tell me to let it go when I can’t even talk about intracommunity black issues without them, as white people, prinstcreeing my shit, and inserting themselves in the conversation and attempting to police how I can talk about issues that affect ME as a black person, using lingo and words that affect ME and other black people
it’s funny how you tell me to let it go when nothorses quite literally has opened his inbox to people from my past, who were racist to me, literally telling him how they were being racist and how I ‘harassed’ them for discussing racism in the fandom and holding discussions of racism in fandom. It’s funny how nothorses and his whole group are literally ridiculing and discussing my discussions of racism while inviting people who were racist to me in the past to slander me and having these conversations daily??
I can’t even talk about racism—things that aren’t related to them—without them as white people getting offended and inserting themselves in the conversation. I can’t even talk about racism or intracommunity black issues without them printscreening my things, and hosting discussions that don’t involve them, and even posting slurs that they shoudldn’t be using and tone policing my language.
Why do you think I’m leaving tumblr? Literally because of them. it’s ALL because of them.
I am not safe to talk about racism or black issues because they are always going to be policing me. They are always going to be inviting racists who I’ve gotten into arguments with in the past, or who just didn’t like my racist metas, accusing me of ‘harassment’, because I spoke about racism. They will always be stalking my blog, and printscreening my discussions of racism, even if they are white, and scrutinizing them. They have literally harassed and stalked me to the point where I am not free to talk about any form of racism on my blog without them looking and bringing it up. So they literally are responsible for harassing not one, but two black trans masc people off of tumblr <3
‘let it go’, yes I am trying. But then I get weird anons like this, who don’t take a black persons word and concrete examples of racism. Im sorry, but not every instance of racism is saying the n word or anything like that. If a black person is having intracommunity discussions and you are intruding as a white person and trying to tone police that is racist, because white people have tone policed how black people speak for ages. White people discussing fandom racism and shaming a black person for discussing it, and calling it harassment (despite the fact that I have been harassed for discussing fandom racism TONS of times), and giving people a platform to do so is racist. But you probably won’t believe that. So I really don’t know what else to tell you.
LIKE im pretty sure, almost 10000% sure this post is gonna end up on their blogs or they’ll at least be referencing it. I’m pretty sure they’ll be talking about it. But who cares–it just proves my point.
and if you’re gonna send me anything else, send it to me OFF anon or i will block you.