every single time we say good things about girls, we are talking about ALL girls.
black girls. asian girls. trans girls. gay girls. jewish girls. muslim girls. autistic girls. intersex girls. fat girls. girls.
learn the difference between those who mistakenly hurt you when they had your best interests, and those who made the mistake of just choosing not to care about you - even for just a moment
don’t give the latter a second chance
introverted lesbians have the world at their gay fingertips!!!! be quietly content in the loudness of solitude and love women and yourselves. read a Malinda Lo book and drink water
I’m learning that you DO NOT have to put up with people raising their voice at you or yelling at you, and you especially do not deserve to take it from men. women and femme people constantly put up with casual loudmouthed behaviour and people aggressively talking at or over them because that is the way men are encouraged to argue, but once you determine exactly the way you feel comfortable being spoken to, it makes it easier to stand your ground. IF and only IF you feel comfortable and safe doing so, remind a man who casually raises his voice that he is not allowed to speak to you like that.
you’re not a concept or an idea. and it’s okay to fuck up and make mistakes and be scared. you don’t have to know what you’re doing all of the time.
stop ! objectifying ! women ! not ! everything ! we ! wear ! is ! to ! get ! your ! attention ! we ! do ! it ! for ! ourselves ! because ! we’re ! awesome !
i applaud people who have been through hell but are still kind & loving towards other humans. i hope the universe will soon reward you with happiness.
im here for my lgbtq+ girls who dont have a supporting family. - you deserve light & love on this hard journey you’re facing, nothing less.
your body is beautiful the way it is & you don’t have to change for anyone. embrace your chubby stomach & thick arms & everything else because no one else has your cute body
You deserve to change and decorate your body as much or as little as you want. You deserve tattoos or piercings or wearing clothes that express how you feel inside or covering up as much or as little as you want. You deserve to cut your hair or grow it out long or wear a bedhead if you want. You deserve to take hormones or get surgery if you want. You deserve and are allowed to do anything to your body that you feel will make you more like you, and the only person’s opinion you need to listen to is yours.
it’s important to care for others, but remember to take a step back for a bit and care for yourself too
if they loved you, they would not treat you like this. if they loved you, they would show that they care. they would respect you, they would trust you. it’s okay to walk away from a relationship that YOU are the only one who puts in the time and the effort yet is constantly ridiculed. you can’t control their actions, they can’t control yours. listen to your mind, listen to your body…. do the right thing for your own mental and physical health. there are people out there who do truly love you and will put in the time, and it shows. you are not alone in this.
Girls with round tummies are amazing. Do you realize how comforting your hugs are? How cool your stretchmarks look? How your laugh and smile brighten up the whole room?
i love girls with big noses! with masculine features! with super light or super thick eyebrows! with uneven or stained teeth! girls who are extra hairy in places they “shouldn’t”! girls that have big tummies and small boobs/butt! i love all girls who are seen as “"imperfect”“!
please please *please* do not be in a relationship with someone who is constantly trying to change you. whoever you are with should accept you and all the quirks that come w/ your appearance/personality. if you find yourself being the one in a relationship who is continuously changing for the other person, stop. that’s when they need to reflect on themselves and recognize how damaging and unhealthy they are being to you. don’t let someone put you into the mold they want you to be.
there’s no such thing as a “perfect summer body”!!! a better concept is just letting everybody rock the body they’re in. wiggle your jiggle!!!
reconnect with mother nature 🌱 walk barefoot in the grass. climb a tree. stargaze. build a campfire. be daring, be meditative, be creative, be whatever is most authetically you outdoors, even if it’s just for 10 minutes. reconnect with mother nature, she’s waiting for you 🌱
you don’t exist to impress anyone. wear whatever you want in public - if they don’t like it, it’s their problem.
don’t be afraid of studying and research. take time alone to learn about your favorite subjects through history or science. fill notebooks and drink tea as you work. become your own dictionary of the things you love.
girls masturbate, girls get angry, girls can like porn, girls can get violent, girls can like girls, girls can have body hair, girls don’t have to be curvy, girls don’t have to be thin
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