It’s true that we males should better recognize our place in the presence of Women. Since Women are our natural Superiors, it’s only respectful that we speak only when allowed by a Woman.
We are the luckiest men to have these women in our lives who love us enough to discipline us in the only way or manner that truly reaches us. My life has changed for the better since my complete and total surrender to my female partner and lover, my dominatrix and disciplinarian. I so enjoy the feeling of my obedience to her. Her Paddles, canes, belts, whips, etc. put me in a state of disciplinary and corporal punishment bliss!♥️
In Goddess he Trusts- Sunday School
- Humility- A good man is humble, he understands that he knows very little. Always assume Women know what’s best, always defer to the judgment of a Woman.
- Obedience- Accept Female control and authority, follow the instructions of a Woman down to the last letter. Male obedience is natural, it is your true purpose, it will make you feel fulfilled.
- Endurance- Wether it be physical or emotional, pain is an integral aspect of being male. Endure that pain, do not let it shut you down. Work through that pain so you may continue to be useful to Women.
- Diligence- Be industrious, meticulous, and USEFUL. A man’s worth is measured not by what he can do, but by what he can do for Women. A man who is able to complete the tasks his Wife gives him with skill will earn the favour of his superior, which is what all men should strive for.
- Gratitude- Be thankful that you are ALLOWED to serve, that you have been given the PRIVILEGE of slaving away for a superior being. Always understand, and be grateful of, how incredibly lucky you are to be a servant to Women.
- Prudence- Be mindful of your tasks, and allocate your time well. Ensure that you are maximizing the amount of service you can offer to your Goddess. You may never hope to be as wise as Women, but you should at least strive to be better than other pigs, if only to make your Goddess’ life easier
- Abstinence- Deny self-pleasure, your earthly desires have no value. The only satisfaction a male deserves is the satisfaction from serving Women well. Act in accordance with your duty, do not cave to impulse.
How to be a good husband
Disclaimer: FLRs differ from one another, and this is not by any means meant to apply to everyone.
Show your Wife proper respect
- The way you conduct yourself around your Wife is very important. You must make sure that your submission is expressed implicitly, and explicitly in the way you interact with your Wife.
- Lowering yourself to greet your Wife is a common and effective show of submission, whether it be: kneeling, bowing, prostrating, etc. Couple this gesture with something along the lines of “How may I serve, Goddess.” Make sure that you do this the moment She enters the room, regardless of what you’re doing, so that She knows you have no priority higher than Her.
- In the same vein, keep your head lowered in Her presence after the initial greeting. It helps to cement the mutual understanding that you are beneath Her.
- When given an order, act quickly. Show some urgency! Show Her you’re worthy with an enthusiastic “yes, ma’am!” This lets Her know that She is being taken seriously, and that you are paying attention. However, make sure go at a speed where you can still fully control yourself, a clumsy husband is not useful!
- When your Wife is scolding you, show Her that you are taking what She says to heart. Make sure your body is facing Her, and nod along. Make sure you acknowledge Her corrections. A sincere “I’m sorry, Goddess” or a “I understand, ma’am,” can go a long way. The best default position for this situation is being on your knees, with your hands folded on your lap, bowing your head. You must make sure She knows you understand and are ashamed of your mistakes, and that you know what you need to fix.
- When your Wife raises Her hand, you might flinch, it’s only natural. But never attempt to block Her, or dodge away. These are signs of resistance. DO NOT RESIST YOUR WIFE! You may drop to your knees, but keep your body straight, and your face exposed. Do not beg for mercy, simply apologize for your wrongdoings. You may even want to thank Her for giving you harsh correctional measures! Remember that serving your Wife is your purpose, She is only helping you fulfill that purpose when She punishes you.
Learn what is expected of you
- Know what your Wife typically wants from you. You should keep a schedule, it’s unacceptable if She has to remind you to cook dinner everyday. There are certain jobs that you should just do without your Wife having to order you.
- Have an idea of what responsibilities you have to attend to. Wake up at the right time to make breakfast fresh, so that it’s hot and ready the moment She wakes up! Know what time She finishes work, and start dinner so that it will be ready when She’s back. Clean, dust, mop, do the menial tasks that your Wife is above.
- These are just commonplace duties for a husband, but you must cater to your Wife’s specific expectations as well. Maybe She likes a foot rub while She eats, comply without Her having to command you! Show Her that you are of some worth to Her, that you are capable of serving Her effectively!
- Know what you must do on a day-to-day basis, on weekends, and for special occasions. Your Wife should never have to remind you to do something that you do on a regular basis. Your Wife should not have to micromanage you. Understand Her expectations, you should make life more convenient for Her, not more stressful.
Work on your appearance
- To start off with the basics, make sure you have proper hygiene and grooming habits. Work these things into your schedule so as not to bother your Wife, preferably when She’s out of the house. Also make sure to know Her preferences! Cut your hair the way She wants, shave however much She prefers, apply whatever cologne She finds appealing.
- For clothing, defer to your Wife’s preference. Remember that you don’t have autonomy over the way you present yourself. You belong to you Wife, so must dress the way She wants you to.
- This also applies to your figure! Your Wife might want muscle bound, built, toned, thin. Whatever Her preference, work yourself to meet Her standards. Never forget the nature of your relationship with Her, you are property. By allowing Her to dictate the way you look, you are offering another part of you to Her. It is a wonderful sign of devotion, sacrifice, and subservience. Women are above men, we are objects for Women to use as they see fit.
Go above and beyond
- Everyone needs relaxation from time to time, but do not get complacent. If you find that you have a few hours of free time regularly, ask your Wife for more responsibility. Your job is to serve Her, not to sit around.
- You might consider getting a part time job. Help pay the bills, it might free up some extra cash so that your Wife can indulge Herself. And you know that She deserves it, so get out there! (As long as you have Her permission).
- You could incorporate yardwork and gardening into your schedule, make the house nice and tidy inside and out. Just remember to always run your suggestions past your Wife, She knows better, and you should always defer to Her judgement.
- Some situations may call for a bit of initiative. Make sure that when you act outside of both what is routine, and explicit commands, that you should be extra careful. With that warning aside, let’s consider an example. Say your Wife comes home and She’s silent, disgruntled, just generally in a bad mood. She might be hung up on something frustrating that happened during the day. Fetch Her paddle, whip, etc. Crawl to Her, ask if She would like to use you. Let Her take out Her frustrations out on you. Then while She eats your homecooked dinner, rub Her feet, worship Her Pussy, whatever She wants. Let Her know that the moment She comes home, She should feel in charge, and be waited on by an adoring husband.
Be what She wants you to be
- This is the golden rule, as the true sign of submission is obedience
- The above are general guidelines on how to serve Her properly, but ALWAYS defer to her wishes. It’s fine to have preferences, but remember how meaningless your they are when compared to Hers