Sometimes women find their worth through men so much they want to know it means something but then that only makes them as good as he is doing her instead of as good as Christ is in her.
The big problem is finding a woman who believes Jesus is enough, not finding a woman who will settle with you. You can find someone you believe is pretty, who you specially like certain things about, easy. But there will always be unsatisfication where Jesus isn’t found.
Trying to have a relationship without Jesus will leave you no different than a relationship that’s worldly. And it’s kind of like, should I have to compromise Jesus to be with someone who’s still unsure? What am I giving myself to, how will it affect me in the end?
A lot of people lower their worth and compromise for whatever they can get. They accept whatever is offered them and they make a 50-50 agreement. But what does Jesus want for us as believers and are we settling for less or living?
As much as you can love someone, you can’t compromise Jesus or change who He made you for somebody. No matter how much they want you to follow them, they have to follow Jesus. If people don’t want Him in you, then it’s probably not for you. You don’t need to force a relationship that only wants you to shine less.