I have been digging through old archives and found the following audio recordings of Men’s Discussions that I moderated a few years ago at weekly gatherings for FetishMenSanDiego. These were extremely popular worldwide when they were new, being downloaded, and listened to, on every major land-mass except Antarctica (those darned penguins!).
They’re re-posted here, to help folks find something that may be of good use. They are a treasure-trove of interpersonal wisdom and open, honest sharing by many men.
Being an Effective Top
Intro To Master Class
Being an Effective Top: Why is it a Good Idea?
Being an Effective Top, Part One
What is the Ideal Top?
Being an Effective Top, Part Two
Being an Effective Top, Part Three
Giving Permission as a Guiding Philosophy
The New Leaders
Constituency vs. Bossiness vs. Title Vests vs. Leadership
How To Build Real Community in the Internet Age
Jack McGeorge’s 2003 Leadership Lecture
Welcoming New Men into the Community
Men in Crowds: Cooperation vs. Competition
Training a Submissive
Establishing Trust with a Capital T
Safe, Sane and NON-Consensual
Finding the Buttons
The Training Process
How Do We Meet in the Internet Age?
Relationships, Polyamory and Jealousy
Turn Ons/Turn Offs
Stories From The Old Days
Papa Tony’s Verbal History, Part One: The Good Old Days
Papa Tony’s Verbal History, Part Two: The Bad Old Days
Male Grief and Our Fathers
The New Generation (TNG)
Folsom Street Fair Tips
Left Of The Slash
Review of the Butchmanns Experience in Arizona
Fisting for Tops
Penis: Friend Or Foe?
Fetlife Tutorial For Gay Men