Maintaining no contact or not?
Hi,So, usually, I don’t really wanna write my “issues” online, but I figured it might not hurt to get some input.Alright, trying to make a long story short; I’ve been texting for this girl for ~4 months. She lives roughly 1½h away. We’ve met once over the weekend, and we had a great time. No sex, but we we’re close, hugs and cuddles etc. etc. She said afterwards that she had a “very nice weekend yes”. This was roughly one month ago, a little more.She works as a nurse and with COVID patients, and I know for a fact that she works hella lot right now. She’s switching job in roughly two weeks, which she really is looking forward to.Anyways; we have more or less been communicating solely over snapchat. I don’t know why, but that’s just how it was/is. We texted every day, and I mean every day, from morning ‘til night. Then, some weeks ago, I realized she was getting less communicative. She said herself when asked that I didn’t text too much, but that she would be slow in replying (due to work/life I would guess). All fine by me, and I started to reply as she did, with some hours in between replies.I then asked her what was up, and she said that she wasn’t sure that she’d manage distance relationship, she’d tried it before and it was “hard, very hard”. And I totally agreed that it is hard. I didn’t push her, and she said that she “probably just need space to think about it”. We’ve talked about the importance of honesty and how that really is everything.And now you will all say “let her go, she’s gone” etc. etc. But I’m not quite ready to do that, because I do care for her. But neither do I wanna be clingy, pushy and/or “too much”. And I want to believe that she do still care for me/is somewhat interested in me.So, right now, last I texted her was this Monday. I asked her if she had a day off from work, which she said she had. I just replied “Nice, enjoy it!”. She read but didn’t reply. Since then I have written nothing, and she hasn’t either.Do you people believe I should maintain the “no contact” and let her reach out to me? Or should I “give in” and text her something, which obviously wouldn’t be pushy etc.?I just want some input, and try to ease my mind a bit. I’ve read some online, and it seems “everyone” agrees that giving her space now might make her miss me and that I’ve been too available, kind of.Thanks guys and gals! :) via /r/seduction