All day on my knees.
Sometimes your hand just reaches to your crotch, hoping to feel something, to touch, to connect with your body. But down there, only steel. You fight inside the steel prison: your dick too wants to reconnect with the whole body. You struggle to no avail. You punch the hard steel with your first. Useless. Steel doesn’t give a shit. Steel doesn’t care for your feelings, your desire, your lust. Steel hides away everything. Steel is the answer.
Needing this one to be chaste
HELL DISCIPLINE CAMP!
leather-rubber ★ DOMINANCE ★
Discipline & Punishment!
MASTER & TORTURE OFFICER
SLAVE & JAILBIRD
Life in a cage of discipline camp
Do you understand how harsh and painful a caged life can be?
The Reality of a Useful Service Life.
Objects ultimately come and go… they are just the fuel for what a Sadist desires… It is just the natural order and the reality of the life they live… once IT is no longer needed, IT exists until IT expires… and a new vacancy will now exist to be filled.
This is the life of an Object. The world will continue to spin without IT.
HELL DISCIPLINE CAMP!
leather-rubber ★ DOMINANCE ★
Discipline & Punishment!
MASTER & TORTURE OFFICER
SLAVE & JAILBIRD
Prisoners of discipline camp
Transfer of inmates who violated discipline in a training facility (Discipline-Camp / D'zc)
Today, the chains go on.
After that, the comfortable life the boy has known will end. No longer will he have a comfortable bed to sleep on. The level of suffering he will endure will become unimaginable.
He is just property now… and this is the life that has been chosen for IT.
I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.
If you have anything to add, please don’t hesitate to let me know and I will update this list, in particular if there any books that a submissive might find helpful or informative, as most of the books I have read or included are intended for Dominants.
Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves.
- Babygirls ‘n’ Daddy Doms: Website dedicated to littles, babygirls and Daddy Doms, with a lot of useful information on the subject.
- Collarme: A free BDSM dating website and community, that is probably the most popular and a better option than the commercial alternatives.
- DS Arts: Academy of DS Arts, fairly self explanatory.
- Evil Monk: Ambrosio’s BDSM Website, featuring many useful articles.
- Fetlife: An online BDSM community that I would highly recommend and which is perhaps best described as Facebook for the kinky, allowing users to create a profile, publish photos or writing and join interest groups where you can ask questions.
- Kink Academy: An online resource with many educational and instructional videos on various aspects of BDSM, although users must pay a small fee to access all of the content.
- Submissive Guide: As the name suggests, this is an online resource for submissives.
- The Iron Gate: A general BDSM online resource, with many aticles, essays and even stories on the subject.
Dating and Relationships:
- 10 Principles For Healthy 24/7 D/s And M/s (Source: sexgeek.wordpress.com)
- Difference of Dynamics in BDSM (Source: the-little-kitten.tumblr.com)
- Finding Your Dominant (Source: asubmissivesjourney.com)
- How To Find A Partner (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)
- Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)
- Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)
- Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 3 (Source: submissiveguide.com)
- So You Want Your Boyfriend To Dominate You (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)
- So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate Her (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)
- The Unfortunate But Common Misconceptions About DD/lg Relationships (Source: a-lolitas-life.tumblr.com)
- Consent Is Mandatory And Non-Negotiable (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)
- Food Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)
- How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)
- Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training (Source: submissiveguide.com)
- Rules and Tasks for Building Confidence (Source: themostdangerousplaything.tumblr.com)
- Tools of Consent in BDSM (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Training in D/s - Why? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)
- Training in D/s - How? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)
- Training in D/s - Thoughts And Concerns (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)
- Wax Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)
- Basics Of Safe, Sane And Consensual Power Exchange (Source: Molly Devon / the-iron-gate.com)
- Common Sense (Source: Sean R. Powell / the-iron-gate.com)
- Emotional Safety (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Offline/Online BDSM Safety Rules (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Rules For Meeting Strangers (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)
- Safewords and Safesigns 101 (Source: kinkology.tumblr.com)
- S.S.C. VS R.A.C.K. (Source: Justin Medlin / the-iron-gate.com)
Checklists, Communication and Negotiation:
- BDSM Play Partner Check List (Source: Sovereign House / the-iron-gate.com)
- BDSM Scene Negotiations (Source: daddyvinnie.tumblr.com)
- Can I Get That In Writing: Basics of Negotiations (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Communication (Source: submissivesupportgroup.tumblr.com)
- If I Ever See Another Checklist I Will Scream: An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Negotiation Forms (Source: Jay Wiseman, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction / greenerypress.com)
- What Are Negotiations Good For? (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Sub Drop and Aftercare:
- Aftercare for submissives (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)
- Aftercare for Dominants (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)
- Aftercare for Switches (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)
- Emergency Self-Administered Aftercare (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)
- Sub Drop (Source: David Williams / subshelpingsubs.tripod.com)
- Sub Drop and Aftercare (Source: desires-of-a-domimant-man.tumblr.com)
Dominance and Dominants:
- A Dominant is NOT… (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Advice to a Novice Dom (Source: Washington Sexuality University / the-iron-gate.com)
- Advice to a Novice Dominant (Source: cherhatton.tumblr.com)
- An Open Letter To A Novice Dom (Source: evilmonk.org)
- Qualities of A Successful Dominant (Source: Polly Peachum / the-iron-gate.com)
- Daddy Doms: They’re Not What You Think (Source: edenfantasys.com)
- Domination for Nice Guys (Source: Franklin Veaux / the-iron-gate.com)
- How To Spot A Non Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Learning To Be A Dom (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)
- Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)
- Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- The Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- What Is A Daddy Dom? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)
- What Makes A Good Dominant (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)
- What Should A Dominant Be (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Submission and Submissives:
- 10 Considerations For Inexperienced Subs (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)
- A Submissive Bill of Rights (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- A Submissive’s Creed (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- A Submissive’s Ethics (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Introduction To Submission (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)
- Learning to Trust Your Instincts (Source: bewildbetruebekinkybeyou.tumblr.com)
- Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts- Part 2: Submissives/Slaves (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
- Some Rules For The Submissive (Source: daddylookingforhisbaby.tumblr.com)
- Submissive Owner’s Manual (Source: youmadememe.tumblr.com)
- Ten Tips For The Novice, Heterosexual submissive Woman (Source: Jay Wiseman / the-iron-gate.com)
- Warning Signs for Submissives (Source: RC Bauer / the-iron-gate.com)
- What Is A Babygirl? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)
- BDSM: The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer
- Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera
- Devil in the Details I: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - The Master, The Slave, The Power by LT Morrison
- Devil in the Details II: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Mastery Refine: The Issues, The Skills by LT Morrison
- Devil in the Details III: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Sustainable Structure and Traning by LT Morrison
- Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame and Jon Jacobs
- Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams
- Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert Rubel
- Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 by Robert Rubel
- Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony by Robert Rubel
- Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel
- Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera
- Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillp Miller and Molly Devon
- SM101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
- The Control Book by Peter Masters
- The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren
- The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
- The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
- The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino
- This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters
- Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker
Great list! Please note that collarme is now collarspace.com - it changed a couple of years ago due to a falling out of the site owners.
I am kept in this cage naked except for my chain collar and cock cage which are both welded closed. My owner charges straight guys to come in and see his faggot on display and laugh at it.
If they pay more they get a blowjob or they can pay for the deluxe fuck the fag option. Whatever they come for, I am so happy I can help pay for the cost of my maintainanence. Between feed and veterinary fees, keeping a fag can be expensive. That’s why most owners rent out their fags like mine does.
I love my life now. It is everything I dreamed it could be. I also like my owner very much. I hope he keeps me and doesn’t decide to sell me. Adjusting to the requirements of a new owner is always very painful until it learns to serve as it’s owner wants it for.
Found this list on tumblr and removed some and added some suggestion for an alpha on how to abuse a slave.
- Sit back and make him suck your dick, nice and slow.
- Train him to deepthroat your cock.
- Fuck his face, balls-deep, like it’s a pussy.
- Cock slap him.
- Make him lick your sweaty balls.
- Make him service you in a public place (e.g., a restroom, a park, your car).
- Spit on him.
- Make him clean your sweaty ass after you work out.
- Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass.
- Piss on him.
- Piss down his throat.
- Piss in his ass.
- Make him drink your piss from a glass.
- Piss on a pair of underwear, or a jock strap, then wring it out over his face.
- Finger his hole.
- Fuck his ass.
- Spank him.
- Paddle him or whip him.
- Fuck him with a dildo.
- Tie him up and use his holes.
- Smack or slap his face.
- Call him names.
- Tag team him with a buddy.
- Gangbang him with a group of friends or strangers.
- Whore him out to friends or strangers.
- Make him sniff and lick your piss- and/or cum-stained underwear.
- Gag him with your dirty underwear, jockstrap or cum rag when you’re fucking him.
- Cum on his face.
- Cum on his face and make him wear the load out in public.
- Cum on his ass.
- Cum directly down his throat.
- Cum in your hand, and make him eat it from your hand like a dog.
- Organize a bukkake and cover his face with multiple cum loads.
- Make him eat your cum off your buddy’s cock.
- Cum on the floor or a table and make him lick it up.
- Make him drink your load(s) from a shot glass.
- Cum on food and make him eat it.
- Double-penetrate him with another Top or with a dildo.
- Flick or twist his nipples.
- Write names (e.g., faggot, bitch, pig, slut), pictures (e.g., a cock and balls, a pig face, a toilet) or phrases (e.g., insert cock here, with an arrow pointing to its holes) on his body.
- Make him wear a butt plug out in public (e.g., to the bar, to the gym, to the grocery store).
- Piss on his underwear then make him wear them home.
- Tie him to your toilet when you have guys over, and tell them to use him instead of the toilet.
- Don’t let him cum.
- Make him ask your permission to jerk off or cum.
- Make him eat his own cum.
- Make him jerk off or finger himself while you and/or your friends watch.
- Make him watch while you fuck another faggot.
- Position him beneath you while you’re fucking another faggot and make him lick your cock as it goes in and out of the faggot’s hole.
- Make him eat your ass while you’re fucking another faggot.
- Make him clean your cock off after you fuck him.
- Make him clean your cock off after you fuck another faggot.
- Make him eat your load out of another faggot’s ass.
- Take photos and/or videos of him servicing your cock.
- Blindfold him when you use him.
- Fist his hole.
- Cum in his ass.
- Make him fuck another faggot, or get fucked by another faggot, while you watch.
- Make him and another faggot fuck themselves on a double-ended dildo while you watch.
- Make him lick your feet.
- Use him as a footrest.
- Make him give you a massage or footrub.
- Take him to a bar; when his beer’s empty, refill the glass or bottle with your piss and make him drink it in public.
- Make him pee at the urinal (e.g., at the movies, at the gym, at the bar) with his pants around his ankles so everyone knows he’s a faggot.
- Shave his body.
- Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass.
- Save your piss in a bucket, and make him bathe with it.
- Keep him in chastity.
- Decide what he wears.
- Make him wear a collar and leash.
- Keep him in a cage.
- Make him do domestic chores for you (e.g., laundry, cleaning, shopping).
- Make him sniff poppers, then use him.
- Make him wear a ball gag.
- Make him crawl in your presence, like a dog.
- Make him eat his meals out of a dog dish.
- Make him service anonymous cock at a gloryhole.
- Engage him in forced workouts.
- Make him beg for your cock.
- Feed him your pre-cum.
- Make him call you “Master” or “Sir.”
- Make him wear a hood while you use him so that the only sensation he has is the feeling of your cock in his hole.
- Make him lick you head to toe
- Make him drink a bottle of your piss left somewhere in a public place and order him to tape it!
- Go in to a club’s bathroomat the same time and order him to leave his half full glass of his cocktail in the toilet before you and add to the cocktail your piss, leave him the glass somewhere and order him to drink it in front of you.
- Go to a public bathroom together and while standing in front of urinals make him put your head down to your urinal and drink your piss.
- Make a video you raping him, cuming in his ass and forcing him to drink your piss and post it on tumblr claiming ownership of him.
- Make him wear a puppy tail and take him for a walk outside.
- Make him wear women’s lingery and fuck him like a whore.
- Mummify him and fuck him in his mouth and ass.
- Tie him up with chains or rope and let him sleep on the floor next to your bed.
- Choke him while you fuck him in missionary position.
- Pull his hair while you fuck him in doggy position.
- Make him wear a collar showing your ownership in public.
- Make him come to your work place and service you in anyway you need.
- Make him wear a cock cage.
- Make him wear ball weights.
- Make him give you his social profile passwords to monitor his communication.
- Make him raport sexual contacts with other guys.
- Make him write an online diary of all sexual contacts and sub duties.