• toytulini
    11.05.2021 - 19 hours ago

    i dont suppose the animated DC harley quinn show is going to give me canon ivy/harley or at least spare me from. kite man.

    #toy txt post #i legit thought...they were gonna give me that? have i been queerbaited #also i knew about the wild blatant antisemitism of making the cobblepots jewish for some reason and giving away bags of money as party favor #but i didnt know they also made Harley and her family canonically jewish in the show? like i knew that was a thing in the comics! #but i wasnt exactly expecting the show to do acknowledge it when it was being so blatantly antisemitic with the cobblepots? #also i think Sy is supposed to be jewish? i dont know how positive of rep this is tho besides Harley herself #bc they also show Harleys family as being. Not Great! which makes sense from a narrative point of view. but it also makes it so its like. #idk theres like not exactly a balance of 'good likeable characters who are jewish" bc its like thats Just Harley but all the other chars #theyve shown as jewish so far have been. not likeable and of course the cobblepots playing right into very bad stereotypes #so idk. im not jewish so its also not exactly up to me anyway to judge in the end. i havent finished the show yet but i got to season 2 #its gotten a little stressful for me to watch lmao but uh i would die for king shark i love him
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  • toytulini
    11.05.2021 - 19 hours ago

    me: i need to take a break from fishkeeping. maybe i will keep hermit crabs. maybe that will be better

    i dont know why i am convinced it will be less stressful. it wouldnt, im sure. i mean, this alone:

    [image ID: screencap of black text on pale blue background, from hermitcrabassociation dot com, reading:

    “All hermit crabs are wild caught, and not all make the transition from life in the wild to life in captivity. They also take a very long journey from the tropics in less than good conditions to reach the stores where they are sold. Some hermit crabs will start to slow down and may unexpectedly die after being bought. This is known as Post Purchase Syndrome. Any crab that is new is at risk of sudden death until it has completed its first successful molt in captivity.”

    the highlighted text in the screenshot has been bolded instead for emphasis. end of image ID]

    #toy txt post #hermit crabs #dont worry im not planning to impulse buy any!! IF i go through w hermit crabs #1)itll almost definitely be Way Later and 2)after a ton of research. i will be seeing crab forums in my dreams first #i just keep thinking about hermit crabs all the time and what if ing. i guess it would be less stressful in that..i wouldnt have to do water #changes every week? like id have to change their water. probably like every day ir every other day im guessing. but thats not like #A Water Change. with the hose. and the Running. im wondering if i could have 2 buckets with with pre prepared water (fresh and salt) #with water conditioner and salt already mixed in? that would make water conditioner easier for one i think. #dosing a 5g bucket is easier than figuring out the miniscule dose needed for a small water bowl. would just want to have the buckets #nice and clean first and clearly labelled. parents pointed out that itll be impossible for me to go on vacations and like...maybe #idk tho maybe i can find and pay someone to do the extra work of following detailed care instructions to the letter. i worry that my #instructions come off as intimidating and overbearing when really im just trying to have them be as informative and useful as possible. last #time when it was mainly for plants. i drew diagrams. in my head. they are a managable amount of work #apparently finding a heater to fit my tank would be difficult bc of the shape but part of me wonders maybe could i use like. a heat lamp? #would that work for crabs? hang a tapestry between the tank and the wall thats against the outside in the winter lol
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  • toytulini
    11.05.2021 - 20 hours ago

    maybe i struggle to maintain my arospec and acespec sideblogs cos anything that i would put on then i end up just putting on here anyway so i forget to bother to put it on either of those

    #toy txt post #also just. sideblogs. hard #im lazy and i never have any Original Content (tm) cos Head Empty No Thoughts #all u ppl running dedicated sideblogs are so powerful. how are u doing that #i have one sideblog that i consider semi successful and its still dormant frequently and posts in bursts #im just stupid proud of it bc ive done my best to give it a good tag system that i keep track of and have a glossary system for #AND i QUEUE things that is so wild. i dont queue shit #but no one can ever know about it cos its an nsfw sideblog lol shh #....i guess 18+ mutuals can if theyre particularly curious. it is dormant until it isnt #iirc i tried to block younger mutuals on it just in case but its hard to block on sideblogs and i may be confusing it w #the old nsfw one that got clamped down on by tumbkr after 2017 even tho it wasnt particularly raunchy and everything was tagged etc #smh. and to this day i still get the porn bots. awful
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  • toytulini
    11.05.2021 - 20 hours ago

    asterosian:

    asterosian:

    Supporting aroallos requires you to be sex positive

    That means you can’t read “casual sex” and think “fucks around without caring about anyone”

    That means you can’t treat “no strings attached” like it’s synonymous with “heartless fuckboys using women for sex”

    That means you can’t look at someone who wants casual sex and is open about it and claim they must have a “fear of commitment”

    That means you can’t blame someone’s depression on their “missed connnections,” aka their one night stands that didn’t blossom into romantic endeavors

    That means you’re gonna let others make their own choices about their sex life without judgement or shame or any implication that they’re in any way lacking morals for wanting to have sex with people they’re not in any sort of long term relationship with

    I might as well reblog this cause I’m seeing a few non-aroallos saying that showing an aroallo character having casual sex is bad representation. It’s not. Treating casual sex as an inherently bad thing is sex negative and leads to arophobia against aroallos.

    Aroallos are not doing anything wrong if they decide to have casual sex.

    Portraying an aroallo having casual sex is not a bad thing unless you paint the aroallo as dirty and predatory for it.

    We’re people, and that means we’re gonna vary quite a bit. Showing variation is actually a good thing. Not to mention we’re trying to navigate sexual relationships in a society that was never designed for us and we’re all gonna find our own ways to make do, you really have no business dictating to us what we should do, especially not without our input

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  • toytulini
    11.05.2021 - 20 hours ago

    aqueenbutgenderneutrally:

    you can be upset about it but for the love of god keep your thoughts to yourself

    #undescribed#john mulaney #i hope its swift amicable and chill. and that they both can have closure out of it
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