Today, someone may feel terrible way.. angry, dissapointed, sad, stressed, down, crazy, mad very very bad and nothing even a piece of good things cross in your mind.. I said, very very terrible way… Worst at all..
If you ever feel like that, i mean trully feel like the bad things mind came to your mind. Your choice is just two.
One : take your anger out terribly bad.
Two : be patient until you vent it slowly and do it when you alone.
Hmm, i think everybody choose option number 2 … Niceee, you are a great and kind of a strong, beautiful, handsome (?) people..
Everybody want to be and want to person like that.. So you are just succesfully fulfill their wish!! whether it’s for the good or the bad thing. They said you’re such a nice people, maybe another one said you’re weak, can be arranged, plain, stupid (?) but over all they considered you are good and nice people..
I said life, I said reality.. It is true. !! They said Nice but…. Great but… Good but… and perfect but….. Ect.
So lets talk about option number 1. You may find people talk worst about you, you are bad, you are grumpy, cruel, crazy (?), ugly at all, and something like that.. Problem? I think nope. I said again. Nope.
People didn’t really get angry in a long time. They just need a time, and…………………. Someone to talk about. We are human. We are social creatures. Of course God always in our coversation and all too. But, we are human. We need someone to talk to.
I know everybody hide their anger from everyone. They just bury it them and not let anyone know what it is. Wrong! Anger just want to be realesed, again, with someone, anyone.
If anger was burried deep. What the function of anger ? Be communicate, before anger become worst.
I dont know, maybe communicate with your trusted people, or even your enemies and people who belittle or abuse you. Depends on your condition, position or situation.
Not all anger should known but.. Let it known by at least one person in your life.. Dont forget God too.. Pray to him. Everything that happens is always by his will. You will learn right?
Sometimes we dont need ‘good’ stamp from others. We just need to be 'heard’. If heard doesnt work either (make sure you have communicate) know that only God will not take your feelings for granted. Remember it.
Only God that will not take your feelings for granted. In Al-Qur'an said: ولايزلمون فطيلا which means : and you will not be wronged at all.
So, option number 1 is not bad at all. Always watch your portion of anger. Realived? Yes. Anger? Not again. What if people said you’re bad?
No problem. I take my (anger, sad, down, dissapointed, mad, stressed) portion.