My girlfriend is barely speaking to me currently.
I haven’t figured out what’s going on exactly.
She always messages me to have a good day in the morning, but doesn’t respond any other time when I message her. I’m trying not to be overbearing so I try not to blow her phone up. But it no longer feels like I have a girlfriend.
With my husband (her boyfriend) being out of town this past weekend, I figured we could spend some time together, but it was pretty much radio silence except Friday. She showed up randomly at on of our clubhouses, spent about 15 minutes with me, was really standoffish and weird the whole time, and then left.
My husband tried to console me by reminding me that I’m the only woman she’s been with. But that doesn’t make it hurt any less. And she hasn’t spoken to him any more than she has me recently, so I don’t think the woman thing has anything to do with it. Normally Tuesdays are the one “no matter what” night that we get to go spend the night with her, but other than a good morning text we haven’t heard a word from her.
Her psycho ex-boyfriend (stalker, obsessive, recently broke into her house and poured tree tea oil all over her bed) has been posting on her Facebook though and she’s been responding to him.
Am I overthinking? Maybe I should just continue to give her space?