So I decided to start a series on note-taking methods :) Let me know what note-taking methods you would like to see...
i hope these are useful!! :) -love pika☁️
The Speed Waaagh grows...
The way that when Black women wanna be in a relationship with someone or show literally ANY kind or amount of interest in someone else, we're always on the tail end of getting anti-Blackness and misogynoir thrown at us is wild. Now mind you I'm specifically talking about relationships within fandoms between fictional characters but misogynoir and anti-Blackness towards us for dating is still a very prevalent real life issue.
For example when we're paired up with white men, there's this belief for a lot of people that we gotta be with a white person in general so that we can get stronger or gain independence. And this specifically happens the most whenever white men are paired up with Black women and it does perpetuate the belief that women have to be with men in order to be strong or that Black folks need a "white person's touch" or presence to fix everything and make us whole.
But there's also folks out there who just can not stand seeing a white man (especially an attractive one) showing interest towards a Black woman especially if the relationship between them is happy and healthy. White women especially don't like seeing this and it traces back to a time were Black women had to keep our hair up and covered because white women were jealous of us and thought that we would steal their white men from them due to our looks. I've already talked about Black women not being allowed to just be in relationships with white men before but the most important point that I want to make in this post is the fact that overall Black women aren't allowed to make our own decisions especially without being judged or and discriminated against.
We're either forced to be with a white person, usually white men, because we're not allowed to be with other Black people or people of color in general, neither is it okay for us to just be alone because whiteness is viewed as healing. It's viewed as inherently good and if you encounter it or in this case, place it in a ship than you're automatically making everything better. Basically the white saviour complex but with dating. Meanwhile on the flip side, when we're genuinely interested in someone, we're not allowed to be because it's assumed that we're already strong and should be all on our own because it's decided for us that we don't need anyone or that if we're going through something, it's better for us to just be alone and pull through it solo.
All of these examples never take into account on how we actually feel. It doesn't matter if we choose to heal alongside someone else because we're scared to heal alone or just want to help someone else on their journey. It doesn't matter if we're "well off" without a partner but just want a relationship because we genuinely like them or just want to be in one in general because we know that we're ready for one.
Assuming how we feel, dictating what we need, don't need, want, or don't want, are all examples of anti-Blackness and misogynoir. We are perfectly capable of speaking up on how we feel and determining what we feel for ourselves. And if we aren't than let us be. We might just get to a point to were we can ask for help if we want it. Overall allow Black women to make our own decisions, heal in ways that we choose to, and let us choose who we want or don't want to be with. Allow us freedom of will and to use our own voices. And most importantly, don't dictate any aspect of our pain and what's actually the best for us vs. what isn't.
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remember when i said consort would be 6 parts?
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can you recommend some desk organization ideas for my not-so-great desk
a presentation by Connie Springer and Sasha Braus
Телескоп «Хаббл» зробив світлину взаємодіючих галактик в сузір’ї Пегас
Телескоп Hubble, який є спільним проектом Національного управління з аеронавтики й дослідження космічного простору США (National Aeronautics and Space Administration, NASA) та Європейського космічного агентства (European Space Agency, ESA), зробив знімок пари взаємодіючих галактик під спільною назвою Arp 86 — NGC 7752 (на світлині – менша) і NGC 7753 (більша), які розташовані приблизно в 220…
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M87: Black Hole Musical if Off-Key (Redux: NASA, Chandra, 10/05/06) by NASA's Marshall Space Flight Center
I don’t think Ralsei is up to anything, Toby already did that in the first one
Abuelita: Y… ¿La Looneyversidad qué cuenta?
Bugs: ¡Eres un idiota!
Lucas: ¡Y tú me enfermas, Bugs!
Abuelita: ¡Ah! “Que alegría”.
Lola: Aaammm… ¿Alguien quiere más carne?
Lucas: ¡Espero que te pudras!
Bugs: ¡Espero que quiten a Oprah!
Fuente: Drake & Josh (2004 ~ 2007)
(A copy paste)
Hey guys thank you so much for the following and love and support for my chubby ladies however I'm doing inktober Because of this I have been lacking my chubby ladies but don't worry Christmas ladies will be coming soon for now please enjoy my inktober prompt (I missed labeled one of the days I just don't know which one sorry)
From October 25, 2021 at 09:41AM, until October 25, 2021 at 09:50AM, the International Space Station passed over Louisville for 552 seconds.
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Yki Nummi "Kuplat"/"Bubbles" pendant lamp, 1960s
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