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  • Me, an ace, realizing how badly I misinterpreted every dating situation I’ve ever been in

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  • ok now that we’re all under quarantine, who wants to start a whirlwind inbox relationship?

    Corny jokes, memes, tons of sass, long debates about why I should watch your weird shows and why my cartoons are the best


    Originally posted by jacularmetteld

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  • Asexual problems:

    Me: yeah, so I’m asexual

    Them: what?

    Me: it means I’m not really into sex.

    Them: *opens* *reads* *doesn’t reply*

    Me: ok

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  • I think some dude at the gym was going to ask me out, he asked if he could speak to me after I finished training. I panicked at first because of the notion that someone might like me, that and possibily explaining to him that I’m asexual. So I kept thinking of reasons to say no. I manned up though, and looked for him after I finished and he was nowhere in sight

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    I know most allosexuals are great but can we NOoooOT?

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  • *views of an asexual who is as such, only interested in profile content and couldn’t give 2 shits that you’re shirtless*

    • “we’ll get along if you like the office” (do y’all have a script you read from??? Make it interesting, for the love of God!)
    • “fluent in sarcasm” (…can you not)
    • “getting that bread/on the grind” *insert 5-10 emojis* (words fail me. I have no words)
    • two word answers on everything (put some effort in, dude, c’mon)
    • choosing a prompt you don’t have an answer to (you only get 3, WHAT IS YOU DOING)
    • answering a prompt with “ask me” (fuck you)
    • “the dorkiest thing about me is: everything” (once again, fuck you)
    • answering prompts with non-answers “I bet you can’t: divide by zero” (hilarious, my heart is full)
    • “Bonus points if you’re *insert specific thing here*” (because that’s a huge winner: scoring systems)
    • Midwest: picture with a giant fish. West coast: “Let’s go hiking!/Let’s get sushi” (OK, hiking, maybe, but way to live up to cliches)
    • “We get along if: you enjoy being spontaneous” (laughs in introverted PhD student)
    • squinting in your profile picture (I feel about this how people feel about duck face)
    • 100% “goofy” profile pics (whether or not you actually are a lovable goof, I don’t know you like that)
    • “sapiosexual” (it’s cute when they try to sound deep)

    that’s all we have time for tonight, folks!

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  • When you’re swiping through a dating app and you realise there’s really no point because sooner or later they’re gonna want to bone and when you don’t wanna they’ll think you’ve been leading them on and probably get pissed and it really doesn’t matter how well you’ve been getting on so you just climb back into your no one is ever gonna want you for more than a few months maybe box

    #sigh#asexual dating #out of silmarils #tbd
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  • I wonder if there’s any startups for new asexual dating sites/apps… doing a quick google search shows that some already exist but they seem unpopular.

    I know OkCupid is pretty popular with ace folk, but it’d be great to have a place specifically tailored to our needs.

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  • Me, an asexual dumbass

    I don’t know what’s going on

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  • Asexuals of tumblr

    I like this non-binary person. They identify as asexual. I have no problem if they have no desire to have sex with me. I enjoy cuddling and closeness without the escalation. I’m having problems with how to Express I like them? I dont want to come off odd? Usually I give someone I’m interested in a smile and place a hand on their arm gently. Listen, and ask questions about their interests. But I’m afraid I’ll over analyze and become awkward? I dont wanna come off sexual or that I’m trying to hookup? I’m a cis gender lesbian btw.

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  • Dating apps feel so useless to someone who isn’t physically attracted to very many people.

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  • I’m super confused about why a guy goes on talking to me, we both know he’s just looking for sex and yet like…he keeps talking. He’s there trying to convince me hook ups are fun and “feel good”; thanks for the information.

    The Desperation is Real.

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  • Asexual Question:

    If you are romantically attracted to the same gender and/or non-binary genders when did you know? How did you know?

    For my asexuality, everyone is equally aesthetically attractive and that’s fine and dandy but meh. However, the only two people I’ve been seriously romantically attached to have been men. I’ve brushed it off for years but I think I could be panromantic. Occasionally I feel some magnetism towards a woman or gender-queer person and I don’t really know what it is. I’m currently in a loving relationship with a man but I still feel like I should be accepting of all parts of myself regardless.

    I’d love to read testimonies and insights from the ace community.

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  • you need to send in submissions for this to work  😅 if you have submitted a profile, please let me know because none are showing up  🤨

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  • would anyone be interested in me setting up an ace dating blog (seperate from this one) it’s just i’ve not come across one on tumblr that hasn’t been dead for over a year and as a biromantic person i’d be interested in dating but without the sex? you get me? and i have found regular dating sites are very sex orientated. so any interest?

    Edit: i made it @aces-date

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  • Now that I’ve begun to come to terms with the fact that my relationship is actually over, I’ve been thinking of dating. Except the idea of dating someone makes me kind of sick. I crave a romantic connection but the thought of going through the process of building that relationship is terrible. I can’t stand the thought of allowing myself to be that vulnerable with someone again. Plus knowing that with any new person I date, there will inevitably have to be a discussion about my asexuality and my complicated feelings about sex (which lean towards “I’d really rather not”). I’m afraid of the possible reactions to that discussion.

    #Dating#asexuality#Asexual dating#Relationships #I'm just afraid #Part of it is fear of being hurt again
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  • I am an asexual female looking to date an asexual male. I am okay with long distance. I just seek romantic companionship, but have failed to find this with allosexual people without the idea of sex being forced upon me, or in quite a few situations being literally shunned for not wanting to have a sexual relationship. 

    So if you’re interested I guess, in chatting, shoot me a message.

    And if anyone knows of any asexual groups or chats I could join that would be great. I am also seeking friends in the community. 

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  • I’m so confused about the boundary between friendship and romance bc my best friend and I do a ton of “romantic” stuff like cuddling and having sleepovers or going to restaurants together or hiking or taking walks or small platonic cheek kisses occasionally or just spending time together but it’s just considered best friend stuff..?? But one of my other friends who has a significant other says they do the same stuff and that her significant other is basically a best friend too. Added to that when you don’t want sex in a relationship… what even is the difference between asexual dating and friendship? I’ve just been thinking about all of this and i’m so c o n f u s e d. I’ve never dated anyone either, so I literally have no idea what to think

    #asexual#asexual dating #relationships??? #what even is that
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  • where am i even supposed to start when it comes to dating as an asexual? i can’t find any good asexual dating sites or apps and i’m just frustrated.

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