I’m not sex positive or sex repulsed.
Im sex confused
I’m not sex positive or sex repulsed.
Im sex confused
Rose Nylund from Golden Girls is asexual. And there’s not shit else there is to say about it.
She said that before she was married she never really thought about sex. And when she lost her virginity, she didn’t really understand sexual desire. And she calls Blanche a “hypersexual bitch,” which i cannot wait to fucking call people whenever I’m upset too. 😂
It shouldn’t surprise me that spongebob is asexual, but like, learning that he is canonically asexual, and has been since the creator announced it back in 2002, stating that he is neither gay or straight but in fact asexual, has me fucking shook. I’ve never been the biggest fan of spongebob bc I just didn’t like animated shit as a kid, but like, I’ve never felt more fucking validated. Knowing that one of the most fucking popular kids’ character that’s as old as I am, is fucking ace, has me up the rails.
I’m kinda getting real sick of allosexuals telling it me really doesn’t fucking matter that a character is asexual. Common sense will fucking tell you it’s because representation matters, so the people being represented fucking care and it matters to them. Like, please stop fucking telling me it doesn’t matter. Or it’s just a fucking character. I’m really fucking sick of hearing it. And of course, once again, it’s Xavier.
He called me to his room to show me the YouTube animated pilot, Hazbin Hotel, but I’d told him I’d already watched it because so many people kept telling me to. And he asked me what I thought about it, and I told him it was pretty interesting and that I liked that Alastor, the radio demon, was asexual. And before he could try to tell me that he wasn’t like usual, I told him that the creator confirmed that he was asexual last year on National Coming Out Day. I only even found that out cause when I finished watching it and realized there was only one episode, I went to tumblr for something to do and came across a post on my dashboard with Alastor on an ace flag, so I googled it to see if it was just a head canon or actual canon, and it’s actual canon.
As usual, Xavier seemed annoyed I’d bring it up and told me he didn’t see why it mattered. And I told him it mattered simply because it did. And he just continued to repeat that it didn’t matter. You’d think by now, with him knowing I’m ace, knowing how important any kind of representation is to me esp pan or ace rep, with him knowing how important representation is in general since he’s also a poc, he’d stop being an ass about it and telling me it’s not important or he doesn’t see why it’s important and so on. It’s important simply because it fucking is. Like. I’m so tired of explaining it. I don’t understand why, even if there wasn’t a valid reason for it, why something can’t just be important or matter because it’s important to someone in your life. It’s both important to me and a lot of people and just important for a lot of reasons. And I’m just so tired of people trying to tell me why it’s not.
I hate that I always forget things like this. I’ll forget my nana is homophobic until we’re just hanging out and she says some real fucked shit and it’s like a slap in the face. I forget that Xavier has his own fucked up beliefs and cares little about how I feel about my identity and representation until I get excited coming across new characters that represent parts of me I’m used to never seeing and he just dismisses it as unimportant or tries to tell me that they’re not ace or whatever other identity. It’s just endlessly frustrating.
My aroace best friend just broke up with the person she was with, and she is so happy, it’s beautiful.
A few months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend because I realized I was aroace, and I didn’t want to be living a lie with her.
If you’re in a relationship, and it’s making you uncomfortable, don’t be afraid to speak up. You deserve whatever the frick you want for having to go through what you did to learn that you’re gay, lesbian, bi, aro, ace, or aroace, or anything in between.
You deserve to be happy.
Me at 13: Ew, I don’t want to have sex and conceive! I’m just gonna adopt. 🙂
Society: Just wait until you’re older, you’ll change your mind.
Me at 23: Ew, I don’t want to have sex and conceive! I’m just gonna adopt. 🙂
I’m serious. This is how I felt about myself as well, for so many fucking years I thought I was broken, malfunctioning, something which must be fixed.
Asexuality is valid. We’re like this, embrace it and know that you’re not alone. 💚 Just because the entire fucking world spins around sex, we don’t have to force ourselves to do the same and cause ourselves discomfort and trauma.
Seek out forums and do the research, fam.
And @frombehindpaleeyes — same. I just recently discovered it as well and never been happier. 💚 I’ve found people who’d never judge me for being different. 💚
I’m tired of having to explain myself
I’m tired of the hate I get
I’m tired of the name calling I receive
I’m tired of the insults I get
I’m tired of the anxiety
I’m tired of the anger
I’m just tired of it
I’m tired of being called a child
I’m tired of having to bring up trauma to be “valid”
I’m tired of being shit on for my opinions
I’m tired of relapsing
Was watching a movie with my mom last night and she’s just like ‘this actor is so hot! Don’t you agree? What actors do you think are hot huh?’ And I’m like trying to think of any actor cause like sure faces can be attractive and people can be pretty (this is all my opinion btw) but sh’s talking about how his voice and abs and face are so sexy and I’m just dying like w h y m o m
Polyam people owe their alligence to so many other marginalized groups of people that face the same issues as us, such as:
Stand up for each other, punks.
yes Im asexual, yes we reproduce asexually, yes I am forming an army
Love at first sight?
Lmao sounds fake
Guy #1 - going out for two years, talked about asexuality once in a while, eventually broke up because he thought that asexuality is my choice and I can change that
Guy #2 - going out for 5 months, talked about asexuality only when Mario Adrion came out and I was proud so much, broke up because my joy was “obtruding him with this abnormality”
Guy #3 - going out for a year, talked frequently about asexuality, sex etc., broke up because of after a year he “finally realised I won’t sleep with him”
Note: I don’t believe that either guy is a bad person. I just think that the society where sex is everything unables me to have a satisfying relationship without sex.
don’t you just love when ppl tell you you’re going to change your mind when you fall in love?? bitch i’ve BEEN THERE go eff urself
Stop fucking going through the fucking ace tag please. Why are you even looking through them to begin with? Stop sending anonymous asks to ace people to start shit cause you have nothing better to do and it makes you feel better to invalidate and/or exclude ace people. This shit aggy. I don’t need to hear your dumbass reasons why we don’t exist, or why we shouldn’t be lgbt, or why you’re a cowardly asshole. Y’all asks are getting deleted from here on forth.
Better yet, since y’all already wasting my fucking time, imma just get on desktop and block y’all trifling bitch asses. 5 of y’all hoes has been blocked. ✌🏼
Just thought about cuddling………
He pushed himself upon her,
But she tried to push away;
Yet she didn’t have the strength
To fight with him this way,
To tell him that she
Wasn’t okay with this,
But when he gave her
A chance, she missed
It, because she was
Afraid of his wrath,
That she’d be destroyed,
Like all in his path.
I would like to state that I’ve now ignored three asks from the second anon who won’t leave me the fuck alone. If you have so many goddamn questions, fucking google it. I’m not deflecting, I’m done wasting my time on defending my asexuality and explaining how they’re lgbt. Google exists for a reason. And the A in LGBTQIA+ is there for a fucking reason. It’s been there for a long ass time. So don’t ask me when have we ever been a part of the community. If you have the time to try to waste my time, you have the time to fucking look it up your fucking self. Get the fucking hell off of my blog. Goodnight.