Getting my communications homework done on the train ride to the sex party I'm attending this weekend. It's all about finding time to be a productive student 😁
We talk alot about roughness and degrading here and that's fantastic but can we talk about romantic Doms?
I'm talking Doms that slow burn you and fine a way to be both rough and gentle at the same time. You won't have bruises but a there firm touch us enough to melt you. Doms that kiss softly and deeply and say "I love you" in the middle of scene. Doms who energy smells like roses with eyes like a candle flame.
You won't feel used when they are done with you but your mind will be a deep fog and after you clean up they'll light Insense and cuddle under a thick blanket.
We need to talk more about these Doms
My tasks are still going on with submissive and sissy who are ready to have tasks with me add me on Snapchat(dominatrixceles)
“Good little pain slut,” he whispered as he rubbed the sore spots on her breasts, undoubtedly causing more agony.
Anyone else just walk about the house in over sized t-shirts underwear and fluffy socks?! I feel like it’s a vibe
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I don't want you to do as I say... I want you to want to do as I say.⛓️🖤
I enjoy being dominated.
There are a lot of people that will confuse what that means. So many of my partners have. What they think being dominant means involves rough sex and calling me names until they reach their finish.
And while that's a nice experience, and certainly will make me feel like an object, that isn't what I mean by "I enjoy being dominated."
When I say this, what I mean is that I like it when a person is observant. Much the same that I have a hard time being a follow in dancing, I have a hard time not seeing and paying attention to everything around me. I have a hard time trusting that I'm not going to get throw into a situation that I can't handle. A dominant will always be watching the environment so I don't have to. So I feel safe enough to relinquish control. This is part of why I trust Sir so much- he is always looking, and always communicating with me so I can be perfectly myself. So I can let go of the rigid vice I keep on my actions and words and be free for moments at a time.
A dominant is always patient. Always. I have never trusted anyone from the jump- not even Sir. Sir has been patient with me from the beginning. He's had to be. He knows that I want to be honest to myself, and that I want to open up and receive. He also knows that those things take time. And he's been taking that time while exploring my likes and dislikes. Watching how my body and mind react to specific acts and stimulus. Listening to me talk honestly about the experience. This is what I need from a dominant- someone willing to be patient over and over again. Someone willing to prove that I'm safe, and that they aren't going to leave me in the lurch or react badly if I can't give them the response they are wanting.
A dominant knows that foreplay is constant. How they touch you, in the approach, in conversation. They understand the influence they have over your body and mind and leverage it regardless of if there's an expected scene or not.
I'm reminded of the time at Sir's place when my head was in his lap and I was being driven crazy by the smell of his balls. Sir could tell, and he waited until I was about to break and asked for what I wanted. He trusted I wouldn't take what I wanted- that isn't present in our dynamic. I am in the position of asking. I also knew that if I did try to take without asking, I would be corrected. We were not in the correct place, and I would not have been safe to do what I wanted. It's moments like that that prove a dominant's efforts. That self-assured energy that comes with the trust in the dynamic. The embodiment of the protector inspires my softness. My Sir knows how busy my head gets, and endeavors to make it simple for me.
For a dominant, their submissive's pleasure is their mandate and less of an ideal to try for. I have had so many unsatisfying partners that refused to learn what made my body tick, tense, clench, and ultimately release. A dominant will not wait to be asked for something. They will do it because they want to see what will happen when they do. They want to see what makes your breath hitch. They want to know what your softest places are. And they're going to take the time to find them, because they decide to. Your pleasure is not an option to them. It's a calling to it. They want to see your body and mind fall apart in their hands, and your consent to allow them to give you that is sacred to them. Why?
Because a dominant knows submission is given. Respect and trust is earned.
There is a massive difference between letting someone fuck you roughly and submission. I think more submissives would benefit from learning how to differentiate. Submitting to the will of a truly dominant person, for a submissive, is bliss.
Stupid girl I can't believe you gave me your address, don't you know what happens to bad girls who talk to dangerous men online ? I'm going to teach you a lesson you will never forget, awe are you going to cry? crying won't save you from me stupid girl, not such delicate flower now are you?, begging me to come violently use you online well now I'm fucking here , now get on your fucking knees, I won't ask again, open your mouth , don't me make me hurt you, open wide, "ah fuck fuck fuck you" take it someone is finally using you how you deserved to be used.
I just want a sub to send hand pics and tell them to imagine it wrapped around their neck
No cuz tell me why I got bratty with him and he grabbed my throat and told me to “say that again” and I SAID IT AGAIN and he choked me out cold in 2 seconds 😭🤚 i think I just fell in love
Remember how joyful and excited Christmas morning used to make you? You can be that shiny new toy, unwrapped and played with again and again
