#bisexual Tumblr posts

  • they-callme-ami
    11.04.2021 - 9 minutes ago

    Sexuality is def not a choice cause why the FUCK would I choose to be bisexual when I'm already black AND a woman? Don't get me wrong, I love being all 3 cause black bisexual women are AWESOME I've already got 2 strikes against me.

    #ami talks#bisexual#bi wlw#bi sapphic#bi#bi poc #bi black woman #bi black girl #bi black people #black women#sexuality
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  • mental-health-advice
    11.04.2021 - 36 minutes ago

    Submission about marriage to older guy

    Hi! So I’m 23F and I feel like I’m Bi. I’m closeted because I’m married to an (older) man and we both come from very religious backgrounds. I do definitely care about my relationship with God above all else. I know what the Bible says and what I believe about not being straight, that’s not really what I came here for.
    My problem is- my husband is 25 years older then me. We are genuinely best friends and get on so well. The big issue is that I’m not... sexually attracted to him. He provides for me and makes me feel loved and all that. The relationship is basically perfect. It’s just hard when it comes to the intimacy.
    I see tons of reels and TikTok videos with really pretty bi/lesbian girls or videos of attractive guys around my age or kinda in their 30’s and it just ignites me and makes me want to date again and really see all the options I have. I did date before my husband, but we married pretty quickly after beginning to date. He’s been married before, and older people who are going on their second marriage tend to move faster because they want the domesticated life. But I just miss dating and I used to travel a lot more because I had more money when I was single and everywhere I went I always found someone I was into.
    I just miss the excitement and being with someone I was attracted to. Now I’m in a weird position. My husband is great. And I should be happy. And to an extent, I am. But I feel like I kinda jumped too quickly and didn’t give myself a chance to explore what else is out there. I often find myself wondering ‘what if?’. Or wondering who else I might’ve ended up with. (It doesn’t help that at first my family wasn’t very supportive of this relationship. They now are. But I feel a twinge of embarrassment when I travel with him to visit family and friends because I feel that people judge me or think weird of me for dating an older guy. It gives me a lot of anxiety probably because I’m unsure of the relationship myself.)
    What are your thoughts on all of this and your advice? I’m not looking for anything specific, I just want a general outside opinion on the situation. Give me your opinion and advice that you feel you want to give. (We’ve been married 2 1/2 years. I’ve dated/talked to at least 6+ guys before my husband, but all my age. Some I dated officially and some we just got into the talking stages. I’ve never been with a girl.)

    Hey lovely,

    Thank you for reaching out to us! I’m glad to hear that you’ve discovered more about your sexuality. Figuring out what your sexuality is can be difficult, but you’re a step closer to knowing for certain and that’s great!

    I understand that you’re doubting your current relationship / marriage. Jumping into something quickly can lead to doubts later on, especially the big ‘what if’-questions. The thing is, there’s no way to answer those questions! So instead of focusing on those what if-questions, try to focus on something else. What matters most is your happiness. So I think a question to ask yourself would be if you’re happy at the moment? That’s a difficult question though, so I understand if you can’t answer that right away, or if it’s a complicated answer. I can imagine that you’re indeed happy, but that you’re also wondering about whether you might be happier if things were to change.

    You mention that you miss the excitement from dating. That’s understandable! On the other hand; is that something you’d want for the long term? Dating is exciting because it’s someone new every once in a while, you do fun things. But is that what you want eventually as well? Because eventually, dating is bound to change into a relationship, which wouldn’t be as exciting anymore. So the question is, would you still prefer that over your current relationship? 

    In the end, this is your decision to make. No one else can make that decision for you. To make this decision, it might help to write down pros and cons, both to staying in your current relationship, as well as to leaving the relationship and starting dating again. You can divide the pros/cons into short term and long term. While the short term pros might seem very tempting, it’s always more important to focus on the long term pros/cons. You might also want to give each pro/con a value, so that you can see better how it all weighs up against each other. This is a very rational way of making a decision, so I also understand if that isn't for you. It’s also okay to sit with your feelings for a while and see where that leads you. 

    I understand that you experience anxiety when you think about what people might think of your current relationship. However, it’s none of their business. This is your relationship. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks, as long as you’re happy! So there we are back at it again; your happiness matters most and it’s up to you to figure out what would make you happiest.

    Even though I can’t make any decisions for you, I hope this was still helpful! Let us know if there’s anything else we can do to be of help.

    Sometimes what seems impossible, is just hard. Love Pauline

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  • summerythoughts
    11.04.2021 - 45 minutes ago

    Your soul is divine....never forget that the God's are within you. 💫🧿🌟

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  • fiery-chaos-maia
    11.04.2021 - 47 minutes ago

    I had waist lenght hair, donated it six months ago, now it's shoulder lenght. But I sometimes just wanna cut ittttttt, in like a pixie or something like that. I have pretty thick hair so it feels like a fire is lit in my hair. My mom and my brother say that short hair will require more effort and that I won't look good(my mom is like 😕😬🙎‍♀️🤷‍♀️ & my brother is 😑🤨🙃😣😧). So, I'm asking short haired folks(mainly female & non-binary), is short hair worth it?

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  • hisnamewasbeanni
    11.04.2021 - 1 hour ago

    a) How good is this playlist?

    b) What else should I add to it?

    3) But really, how good is that name?

    #bi#lgbtq#bisexual#bi music#spotibi #the songs are either about queerness or by queer artists #or for a very few there are some that are absolute bangers by artists that are strong lgbtq+ allies
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  • cottagecorelazybones
    11.04.2021 - 1 hour ago

    Some art of Pride Dragons as traditional Chinese Dragons

    Pansexual, non-binary, and Bisexual

    3 hours of drawing+lining+colouring

    Free to repost, Just don't crop out my name!

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  • jukeandthewillex
    11.04.2021 - 1 hour ago

    MY OCS

    These are my OCs from my JATP Fic HERE

    (Mentions of Suicide)

    Maria Patterson

    Second Child of Mitch and Emily Patterson

    Neglected

    Probably needs to be in therapy her whole life if she wasn't too stubborn to go

    Has two best friends, one of which she's dating

    Biromantic and Bisexual

    Black Hair with Black eyes that can probably pierce your soul, intoxicating

    Knows literally everything but refuses to say because 'it must happen at its own time'

    Badass

    Plays Piano, sings

    juke and willex shipper, very lowkey, you wouldn't even know it if she didn't mention it (Juke is OTP because she likes making fun of her brother, because he's absolutely screwed, loves Willex because she went through her questioning phase with Alex, and she discovered who she is after he did (because she's a lot younger) and is so happy to see he found his soulmate)

    Jade Thompson

    Twin Sister of Asher Thompson

    Maria's best friend, also best friends with Asher

    Lesbian, Asexual

    Neglected

    Born First even as a twin

    Also probably needs to be in therapy her whole life if she wasn't too stubborn to go.

    Soft blond hair with princess curls and beautiful hazel eyes

    Badass

    Sings

    juke and willex shipper, very high key (Willex is OTP because, and this is her quote, 'everything is better gay'. She also helped Alex navigate through his sexuality since she's pretty much been sure about who she is since she was twelve. Loves Juke since she's known Luke for years and loves seeing him being such a simp.)

    Asher Thompson

    Twin Brother of Jade Thompson

    Maria's best friend/boyfriend but she doesn't let him call himself that because she doesn't like labels.

    Not the overprotective jealous type, more of A 'Luke Patterson' jealous type (he turns into a puppy)

    But that was only before they were dating. Now he only interrupts if she's uncomfortable and in a public setting so she cannot kill the person who's making her uncomfortable ('she's perfectly capable of taking care of herself')

    Omnisexual Dork

    Flirt but only with Maria, asks if it makes her uncomfortable

    Her answer is always 'cute that you think you have the power to make me feel uncomfortable' which is her emotionless way to say it's fine

    Loves music, plays piano

    His parents are mentioned as bad people who abused him and his sister

    Had a trans friend who was abused and bullied to suicide so is a huge trans supporter

    #OC#juke#willex#lesbian#asexual#ace#lesbian ace#lesbian asexual#biromantic#bisexual #tw : suicide #cw : suicide #trans#lgbtq positivity#lgbtq #mentions of transphobia #transphobia#transphobes #if you are a homophobe/transphobe #go away#jukebox#jatp #julie and the phantoms #julie and the fat ones #julie and the himbos #julie x luke #julie molina#luke patterson#luke jatp #luke julie and the phantoms
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  • albarossa26
    11.04.2021 - 1 hour ago

    So like... how do you know if you're lesbian or bisexual???

    I get crushes on boys but I'm also romantically attracted to girls so...

    #my issues#lesbian#bisexual#personal #this is probably so random #but i have like nobody else to talk to #so im going to yell it into the void and hope that someone gives me an answer #i am a girl btw #also we need some local place we can go to to ask about this #excuse me if this is really weird or inappropriate #im young and muslim and society is weird
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  • simp-3369
    11.04.2021 - 1 hour ago

    i got my mom to say trans ppl are valid but im not gonna stop there i feel like i can fix her homophobia

    #i swear i can teach her #maybe one day i can safely come out to her #bisexual#lgbtq#lgbt#lgbtq+
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  • gaynonbinarybitch
    11.04.2021 - 1 hour ago

    thinking about sol badguy in a gay way

    #this is a weird post #i’ve just been playing guilty gear the past couple weeks #gay#bi#bisexual#mlm#lgbt#nonbinary#guilty gear#sol badguy#mine
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  • thatonemouseykid
    11.04.2021 - 1 hour ago

    my group chat is just three miscellaneous non binary asexual minors making sex jokes and crying about how unfair life is with a confused bisexual appearing out of nowhere from time to time

    #it’s magical#asexual#asexual humor #ew no it’s spelt humour #I hate America #um#bisexual#queer#queer stuff #I don’t know
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  • cadenceofhyrule
    11.04.2021 - 1 hour ago

    me

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  • supersleepdeprived
    11.04.2021 - 2 hours ago

    if u hear me snort or kinda laugh whenever u mention the word ‘straight’ in whatever context pls don’t look at me weirdly i’m just a closeted 17 yr old with a really bad sense of humour

    #gay#bi#bisexual#lols#validation#queer #someone date me #pls #i’m bi but i keep screaming that i’m gay #idk why#larry stylinson
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  • countrynerddancer
    11.04.2021 - 2 hours ago

    I'm very bisexual and and a woman sometimes I see photos or gifs of men I'm very attracted to and say "ugh I'm so gay" and that's valid.

    Like on one hand I wonder if it's just a figure of speech that I've picked up, but on another I wonder if I've so integrated my queerness into my self perception that any experience of sexuality is inherently gay for me now.

    Either way its funny

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  • mypartnersaysimcute
    11.04.2021 - 2 hours ago

    Trans guy x bi girl moodboard for anon! Thank you for the request, I hope you like it! :D

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