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WHAT ARE THE 3 QUALITIES BLACK MEN LOOK FOR WHEN SEARCHING FOR A BLACK WIFE: A MANHOOD RACE CULTURE INTERACTIVE EVENT
WHAT ARE THE 3 QUALITIES BLACK MEN LOOK FOR WHEN SEARCHING FOR A BLACK WIFE: A MANHOOD RACE CULTURE INTERACTIVE EVENT
I have learned to avoid discussing a few topics in public because of their uncanny ability to cause people to lose their minds. One of the foremost of these taboo topics is Black Love issues, particularly if it calls for any criticism of Black women.
Trust me when I say that if you want to get emotions flowing and possibly a good cuss out, lay any portion of the blame for failed relationships…
0I’ve been praying for the Lord to send me my husband because I do not belong in the streets. I need to be loved on 24/7!!!!
2A friend told me…”I can’t wait for you to experience this” and he meant, reciprocal love and a partner and a pregnancy…. I’ve had lots of people say the same to me in recent years…. it’s a nice thing to say… and I’ve always wanted to be a beautiful wife madly in love with my man and giving him a baby… but I’m so afraid that at almost 34… that it might be a wrap for that. 141 days until 34… zero prospects at love, barely a date. I’m drained from dating… the little bit I have left in my dating tank I’m trying to save for a husband.
1Woke from a nightmare last night. To some it may not sound like one, but for me it included something I would never be prepared for. The death of the woman I love. I woke up in tears and immediately had to call her just to make sure she was ok. I needed to hear her voice to remind myself that it was all just a dream no matter how real it felt. She means the world to me. I want us to grow old together. When she goes from this realm to the next will I be able to handle it?
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Working on making myself believe im the shxt and see it too. I believe it in my head, but still feel insecure on social media and in public. Im shy, im goofy, i love to laugh, and I love to feel. ♥️🖤🧘🏽♀️👑♏️
💉Tatted & loc’d👑
🌌🌊Hi, my name is Midnight. And this is my world🌎🌙✨
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“When a relationship is truly meant to be, you won’t have to force it, rush it, or manipulate it.” – Stephanie Lahart
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Her: “You really outdone yourself this time. It’s on tonight….”❤️
Him: “Oh really? Don’t tap out😏…”
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1that shit was funny but sad and true. toxic/abusive relationships in the black community are so rooted in the idea that black women have to “protect our kings” but almost always at our expense.
4Am I wrong for feeling this way
So my girlfriend and I have been together about 3 years now. Our relationship has had its ups and downs like any other relationship. So my girlfriend told me when first started dating that she had a low sex drive. At point I made the choice to continue to date her because I felt we contented on a different level than any other girl I dated. Like right now I can honestly say that I wouldn’t be half the man I am with out her. I’m really happy with my woman. I know want to marry her and start a family with her in the future. But here the things. When started dating like I said I knew she had a low sex drive. I might get some from her once every two weeks. Two time if she was really horny. It was a big change for me since my sex drive is really high. Like sex 4 to 5 time a week high. So I got use to it and I was good. We became a stronger and we grow together. But she has depression and she wanted to get on antidepressant. So I was like cool you know do what you go to do for your health. Now since she started the antidepressant pills it’s like her sex drive shot down. Like once every two or three months and longer she has been on the pills the lower her sex drive gets. Now it’s at the point where I don’t even remember when was the last time we had sex. Now don’t get me wrong sex her as amazing. Like if I was hanging with my boys and she call me talking about come get this I’m leaving. And I used to think that I didn’t turn her on any more(sometimes I still do)but I know that’s not what it is. I really think it’s the antidepressant pills that she is on. Her sex drive didn’t start dropping until after she started taking them. I don’t want her to feel depressed or want to hurt herself but sometimes I wish she was never on them so that her sex drive didn’t go down any more. Am I bad boyfriend for feeling this way. Like I want her to be happy because who wouldn’t want the love of there life to be happy but I also want to make love to the love of my life. I feel selfish for thinking this.
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