Like…. Really???. And I’m a hypersexual person. But given the gravity of the situation in the environment and the times we in…. I really can’t fathom how this is the song of the year and again no disrespect to the recipients but we really need to focus on something different. #KeepApplyingPressure #WeAllWeGot #UnitedWeStand #WeAreDoneDying #StayWoke #UsOrElse #WhatTheMediaWontShow #WeGottaDoBetter #America #BlackPeopleMatter #WakeUp #BlackCommunity #BlackUnity #BlackPower #BlackLivesMatter #BlackPride #BlackLove #BlackAndProud #BMA #BlackMarketAlliance #DigThat (at Fayetteville, Georgia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CG7SXYcArUE/?igshid=1k0z0m2umnumb
You meet people, never knowing where it’ll go, how it will become or what it will be about. Sometimes you go with the flow, other times you fret, hesitating for all the what if’s due to the conditions of what previously happened.
Take a chance .. Let me tell you how they met!
Scrolling through your phone one day, you keep by passing the dating app. You’ve been feeling lonely lately, hormones are up and it’s a bit late. Some music playing low in the background with a sweet glass of red wine, after a long day. Just somethings you do to unwind. Giving in, you open it up, begining to scroll. You come across this photo and your eyes slightly light up, you click to view the profile and like what you see. Body type, cute face and a breath taking smile. “ How the is it your on this app? ” thinking to yourself. Clicking the chat to start a conversation, telling yourself - play it casual of course. He’s aittle boujie at first and you liked it. It tends to move forward well and he wants to ensure you’re not a catfish. “Not many attractive guys in this area ” him saying something along the lines of such. So he sends his Snapchat and ask you to send a photo. You laugh of course thinking “ why would I be using someone else’s photo ” but you’ve found something about him intriguing, so you go along with it. You two begin to talk and exchange photos, things get a little hot, as mentioned, the hormones were up and y'all decide to call it a night. Over the next few days, conversing a bit and sexting back and forth. It’s all quite exciting. You move a little forward and ask if he wants to hang out, offering to pick him up that night after you got off work. You two meet and the car rides quiet on the drive back to your place. The nerves fill the silence once y'all enter the apartment building. You asked him to remove his shoes at the apartment door and he slightly smirks. It was late so a movie and a blunt would suffice for the first hangout. Movie of choice was not really something he’s into, but he entertains it for being in the presence of you. Your arm slightly wrapped around him as it laid on the top rest of the couch. The blunt moves around and eventually you fall asleep on him, not realizing. Sitting there quietly, he questioned what to do, texting a friend asking for advice “ He fell asleep girl, what do I do? ” deciding to pretend to sleep beside you. You awake and realize you fell asleep on him. Turning off the TV and waking him up to direct him to the bedroom. Things tend to get a little interesting here, if you could only imagine. An early morning, middle of the night pleasure filled, sensational scene of love making.
At that point not realizing it was love or what would come to be a year later.
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Love is sacrifice and understanding, it’s purpose is unconditional.
But that sneaky lil Chris took me out😁😁
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This is too cute!😄❤
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I cancelled my trip . To be honest I’d rather be responsible than to be irresponsible. I have to make sure things are okay financially before I do anything extra . I’m just trying to stay afloat. Instead of going to PR, I’m going to go to South Beach for the weekend. It’s a lot cheaper . I’m just tired of being alone and I’m ready to see my girls again . Thank God for homegirls.
I hanged out with one of my sneaky links for the first time with my friends and I’m glad that it went super well. I love the fact that he had fun and I kept my composure . I honestly don’t think that we could ever be more than friends but I just honestly admire how much he respects me .
I just be wanting a guy friend who is understanding and actually is only a friend to me .