oh now i’m seeing Actual vagues on my dash ok
oh now i’m seeing Actual vagues on my dash ok
sometimes i miss some of you and then i remember why we dont talk
Hello!! My last duncan piece didnt feel very accurate, and I wanted to try again until I got it right!
hope i phrase all this right. personal comfort levels are one thing, and if it genuinely makes u nervous or uncomfortable to think of a minor on this website interacting with certain content on ur blog, or ur blog in general, i think it's well within ur right to set those boundaries. but i feel like a lot of ppl are like kind of obsessively tagging anything with even an oblique mention of sex as #minors dni!!! just out of like some felt obligation... and it just strikes me as pointless ngl. like do you guys not remember being like 13-17... i read nasty fanfictions off sites that asked if i was 18. i made stupid sex jokes irl and online on the daily. i interacted with media about sex, i watched porn for the first time in my teens, i engaged in conversations and asked questions and read other ppls questions on Human Sexuality at the tender age of like 15.
all this to say: it's one thing to not like. get into private conversations with people significantly younger than you about sexual topics, or something of that nature. it's another to feel obligated to sanitize the viewing experience of ANY sex-related anything for the hypothetical delicate 16 y/os who may or may not be viewing ur blog. yes of course keep your INTERACTIONS with minors appropriate, but i don't think "running a blog that others can see regardless of their age" constitutes an interaction and/or necessitates quite such an intense screening system to make sure no little baby angel 16 y/os look at something that isn't for their eyes. they're just going to look anyway, and that's not on you, it was never on you, it's not necessarily a good or bad thing it's just growing up on the internet. the main thing i wish to god ppl would pay more attention to is like actual. interactions with minor persons! that's where the danger zone starts. that's where manipulation and traumatic experiences and fucking grooming happens. be kind, be understanding to younger kids whose shoes you were in years ago, but keep firm boundaries in interpersonal situations. best practice
Can you believe every troubled kinnie on genshin tumblr and twitter will become a dottore kinnie and/or dottore fucker when he's released into the game
honestly its kinda ridiculous that i literally had the Only mspec lesbian centered and positive blog for a long time, anything that was going in the tags when i started it was pretty much either just me or people being gross about the label, ive become a somewhat major source (i believe) for others for learning about the label and being able to have a positive space for it. but because of some other stances i have, completely unrelated to queer stuff, i feel like theres a lot of people thatre pretty dismissive of the work ive done to practically fight against all the hate on my own for a while to protect people like me, until others started cropping up their own blogs of support too. its really nice seeing more around, but its honestly kinda heartbreaking when some are still actively vicious towards me. what has this all been for if even some of the people ive been defending are attacking me
me: what are the hazmat fans going on about this time. lemme snoop real quick
one of the first things i see on the tag: n0n¢0n fanfic warning?????
everyones always on our case for something as if we're not attention whores with the memes at the ready
okay to be more transparent please DO NOT INTERACT if you follow miles d.emonslayvr / z.agubionywilk here is the master post callout and my own personal callout
It’s “throw together ideas” time again, and in the absence of (to my knowledge) very recent fandom discussion, I’m trying something new! We’ll see how it goes, but I’m very curious to hear your thoughts. So:
What’s something you wish you could tell other members of this fandom?
It can be something you’ve said before, it can regard a specific issue, it can be a niche complaint or something many of us have discussed. It can be positive or negative, too! There are no limits.
Depending on what you all say, I might a) see a concern that I want to address, and choose to talk about that, b) make a google form or something else for further surveying, or c) something else entirely!
But this post itself is pretty informal. I’m not gonna quote you guys on any of this (unless later I ask for permission and receive it, or if you explicitly give permission in your statement.) So go wild! Rant to your heart’s content.
Asks are open, DMs are open, or you can share concerns on this post itself! Whatever makes you comfortable. But if you’re up for it, I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Hope you’re having a good day, and see you soon!
goodnight to the SC3N3 K1DZ whos hairs just too short to have the hairstyle, people who are just a little too obsessed with skincare, anyone over 13 who still listens to Ludo, rat owners and aspiring rat owners, people who laugh at dead memes, anyone who romanticizes mundane trips to the grocery store, kids going through their egyptology phase, people who kin either sam or max, old women who really like frogs, anyone who owns an instrument they have no idea how to play, middle schoolers who read just a little too much into satire television, fast food workers who paint their own tip jars with cute little bugs and flowers, and everyone who needs a reminder to drink at least one glass of water this week instead of their 7th soda of the day
Really do wish you all would get your noses out of my sex life and also stop trying to draw conclusions about my activism and queer theory based off of screenshots that were shared by antis, with the purpose of sowing more friction between trans communities.
jesper: did...did you just call me your brother?
kaz: no! no i called you...i called you a bother! cause you’re always bothering me!!!
inej: ...it did sound like you said brother
kaz: i didn’t-
jesper: is this a bad time to bring up that we need a demo expert, bro?
*kaz, with affectionate but murdery face, stares at him*
*jesper, with nonchalance, smiles and shrugs*
kaz: if i find you a boyfriend that can blow things up will you leave me alone?
jesper: for a week or two, at least
u ever come on here and see a callout post and its like “op once stole a chocolate bar from the store despite having enough money to pay for it” and youre like ok no offence but please Please please go outside. open a window at least
hi, so i kinda made a uquiz... let me give you a hard pill to swallow
Everything that's said or done in the past month has made me sick.
Adults acting like children, everything devolving into a shouting match, one side or the other.
I didnt join the fandom for this. I joined to write about some dork of a girl who builds magical things.
Yes I'm a hypocrite because I myself acted like a child. And I'm stopping it by saying I'm done.
I enjoy the content of everyone here, I enjoy seeing the people we create interacting and being friends.
So unless theres a true blue reason for me to call the police, I dont want to hear about it anymore.
I'm done, I'm out, im going back to my corner to wait for all of you to calm down so that I can get back to my escapist reality.
The reference and The painting
Probably about 20%(?) of my landscapes are based on photos my friends dad takes, he doesn’t have a site or I’d have shared it forever ago 😩 but he’s very skilled and will share his beautiful photos with me he thinks would be good drawing references! it’s very cute ☺️
Using references is the backbone of good art and isn’t something to be ashamed of, anyone who says different is either lying to keep you down or has been tragically misinformed.