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While I was wondering if itās time to completely close the door or I can wait some more.
for my surprise, I found no door, thereās no longer such a door!
This time my heart perceeded my mind and cleared it all.
Now, I can enjoy my heart as now he is free, confident and highly mature.
āEverything you do gives you away, didnāt you know that? Youāre giving out hints more than you think, of who you are to people you donāt want to know.ā
- be yourself, fully. Donāt hold back
By telling myself Iām broken , I automatically sign up to the notion that I wonāt be whole again unless Iām fixed.am I flawed within perfections?? The answer is an unequivocal YES. But rather than engaging in damaging behaviours, Iām going to prescribe myself with a strong dose of self healing and self love.
Youāre all that matters at the end of the day. Put your energy into yourself instead of worrying about people that have come and gone. You are your own best friend. You can also be your own worst enemy. Donāt stop your own bag because youāre worried over people that donāt matter. Donāt waste your time over negativity. Itās time to be all about you, all day and every single day. Invest that energy into yourself, at all costs. Make an agreement with yourself that you will always put yourself first. Whatever violates that agreement, must go. Be your own biggest fan and advocate. A barrier like that is impenetrable and can truly improve your quality of life, because you seek meaningful experiences instead of lowering yourself down to people that arenāt worth it. High standards, unbothered energy, peaceful solitude, and donāt apologize for any of it. Do you hear me?? No clownery.
Listen up. When you surround yourself with friends who hype up literally every part of you, like your body to your personality, you begin to feel so good about yourself. Iāve grown much more comfortable with my body and myself after finding a great group of friends.
Honestly idk what Iām trying to say but I guess itās something along the lines of; when you surround yourself with people who make you feel loved you begin to love yourself.
My self confidence has gone way up in the past few months and Iām so proud š„° obviously I still have rough days but a lot less than usual
Get to a point where no oneās opinions affect you but their criticism allows you to grow. Confidence is built on this.
šĀ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
šĀ Some signs of arrogance to avoid for Allahās sake,
To clarify āconfidentā and āproudā are not the same,
So we donāt misjudge anyone in an unfair way,
Aware Allah can tell what lies beneath our displays:
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To be arrogant is to act like you are the best,
Behaving as though youāre far superior to the rest,
Jealous when you find someone else achieving success,
Believing youāre flawless, unable to make a mess.
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Arrogant souls reject the truth, deny what is right,
The kind that wonāt accept men having up to four wives,
Who befriend only those who live luxurious lifestyles,
Who refuse to forgive, and who canāt apologize.
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Confident people help others, uplift, and inspire,
While arrogant folks want peopleās comfort to expire.
The confident can afford to wear simple attire,
While the proud prefer to be in style to be admired.
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Choosing friends wisely isnāt a sign of arrogance.
It shows wisdom and ensures oneās faith isnāt threatened.
Whatās arrogant is to expect VIP treatment,
Ignoring salaams and those with low job positions.
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What seem appealing to arrogant hearts would include:
Judging others by their appearance, income and shoes,
Backbiting, spreading rumors, making jokes that are rude,
Refusing to defend those who are mocked or abused.
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Those who are arrogant canāt be described as helpful,
Since being better than everyone is from their goals.
Before accusing a Muslim of being prideful,
Recall: Only Allah sees our hearts and He knows all.
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šĀ Abdullah Ibn Masāud RadhiAllahu āanhu narrated: Allahās noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,Ā "No one who has the weight of a seed of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise.āĀ Someone said,Ā "But a man loves to have beautiful clothes and shoes."Ā The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,Ā "Verily, Allah is Beautiful and He loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on people.ā
In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,Ā "No one who has the weight of a seed of faith in his heart will enter Hellfire.ā
Source: Sahih Muslim 91
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
As practicing Christians, we are Godās temple. We carry no shame about what we experience or prefer (unless one lives or speaks contrary to Jesusā life and teaching)ā¦ then, it seems, we either repend (aka. turn) from wrong, or stop being a practicing Christian.
Yes, we might get stuck in some selfish cycle, but thatās why every gospel starts with John the Baptist. We are his living temple as we live āin the lightā transparently washed clean in repentance - moment by moment, being completed into his reflection through our experience. Thatās the good news! We donāt live ashamed of who we are. The same God who lives in Jesus - lives in all who follow to reflect him.
We have no shame for our perspectives, or expressing my preferences, unless others use shame as a tool to elicit pity like a toddlerās tool for not getting their wayā¦ in which caseā¦ we find ourselves back at the beginning, āWe are Godās temple. We carry no shame,ā and we will love even our enemies with selfless (and preferably hidden) serviceā¦ but we will not form Godās temple into their likeness.
Even God has boundaries, thatās what makes freewill possible.
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Oh yeah, so one thing i have been working on lately is sorta a confidence thing i guess
Iām trying to teach myself i shouldnāt silence who i am or what i believe in in fear of judgement from those who oppress me or the people i care about, as they do so without fear of judgement so i should take their lead and be as unabashedly open about myself and my views as they are for theirs
Examples being:
SOMEHOW a larger amount of people than youād think donāt know Iām gay, so i still sorta have to ācome outā at times, and sometimes i just didnāt speak about it as i was worried what if the person is homophobic, but Iām trying to teach myself lately that if a person is homophobic and they donāt wanna get to know me for who i didnāt choose to love, thatās not my problem and they are not worth my time
Iām also trying to do it now with racial issues, for a VERY long time i was scared to call out racists/mention my views on racists cause i was like āWhat if everyone around me supports them?ā but now my views are, so what if everyone supports them? So what if people have no qualms with racism? They are not people i like or support, they are not people i need to like and support me, so now as long as i have sufficient evidence/personal experience to know if a persons racist, Iāll just openly talk about it
Sometimes, I write and discard posts. Itās good to work my feelings out before I send them out into the world. Some of those posts, rewritten, become words of encouragement to myself and whoever needs it. Others show me where I need support most and how best to do that. I want to turn my fears, sadness and hurt into healing, happiness and bravery. When things are dark, I can be resilient and love and care for myself!
