Kiss Me Now.
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INSIGHT: CHOOSE ME EVERY DAY OR LET ME GO FOR GOOD (WRITTEN BY SARAH MCKENNA AND INSPIRED BY ADULT PRODUCER KAYDEN KROSS)
Do you have any idea how it feels knowing that you are not the first choice? Do you have any idea how it feels knowing that the person you love the most does not love you the same? Knowing that the person you choose every day does not choose you? Of course you do not. You have me, you have someone who chooses you over everyone else. Someone who loves you more than she loves herself. Someone who will make sure that you feel loved on the days when she is not capable of living, but she lives for you. Someone you can come back to, once you are lonely again. But I can not keep doing this anymore. I can not hold onto hope that you will choose me someday. Choose me now. Love me now.
I can not keep on waiting for you, for your love. I need you now, not someday. I need to feel your lips on mine, I need to get lost in your embrace. Is it possible that you do not see my pain? That you can not hear my heart breaking every time you do not choose me? I can not keep waiting for you to make up your mind. I can not keep on hoping and getting my hopes crushed. I can not keep on believing, when there is nothing left to believe in. I am dying in your arms, and you do not seem to notice. I am freezing to death and you are bathing in sunshine, oblivious to my pain. I can not keep on being your last resort, when I deserve to be your first choice. I deserve to be a priority. I can not keep on hoping that you will see that, when you still have not actually seen.
I am done feeling lonely by your side. Is there anything worse than feeling lonely next to someone who means the world to you? Is there anything more painful than feeling lonely next to someone who is supposed to complete you? I am done being your safety net. You leave and you come back, knowing I will be waiting for you. You walk away and return when you are alone. And just when I think that I am okay, just when I have learned how to fall asleep in an empty bed, you come back again. Just when I have embraced my loneliness and started falling in love with myself, you come back and ask me how I am. I am not okay. I am not fine. I am not as strong as I want you to believe. And it is your fault. Stop coming back to me if you are not ready to stay. Stop giving me false hope that you will choose me if you do not intend to.
Please, let me go if you are not ready to choose me. Say goodbye one last time and this time mean it. If you are not ready to commit to me, if you are not ready to choose me every day, let me go. I can not move on while you are here. I can not force myself to stop loving you, when you are giving me hope that I am not loving you in vain. I can not force myself to walk away, as long as I have something worth staying for. Please, let me go. I deserve more than to be half loved. I deserve more than being someone’s last choice. I deserve more than to be whatever this is that I am to you. I do not deserve to drown in loneliness. I do not deserve to constantly doubt my worth, to constantly doubt if I am good enough. I know I am, but something about you makes me doubt it. Something about you makes me weak. So please, for my sake, stop calling me, stop apologizing, because it does not make it any better. It just brings me back to where I was when you left the first, second, or hundredth time. And I am done with that already.
10 TIPS TO MAKE A MAN YOURS
01. BE CONFIDENT: Confidence is sexy. Period. And what men always see first is a physical appearance that helps them decide if they will approach you or not. That is why you need to pay attention to how you look and behave in front of a man you want to make yours. I know that women are pretty envious nowadays and that they will do all kinds of stuff to steal that perfect guy from you but you should think about your qualities and what you can do to make him yours. Even if the room is full of the most beautiful women and they all want that guy you crave so much, if you are confident enough, he will be only yours. It is true that men fall for physical looks, but a woman’s character is what keeps them close. So, give your best to be more confident than all of the other women, and show him your qualities. Use your sense of humor but yet always know how to talk dirty to a guy. That will simply make him crazy about you, and he will be so obsessed with you in such a short time.
02. BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF: If you want a man so badly, you will have to go the extra mile to make him yours. That is why you need to be the best version of yourself. Dress with style, talk and act like a lady, and try to make him feel comfortable when he is with you. If you know him for some time, you can tell him something more about yourself, not being worried that he will run away. Men are okay with women sharing something about themselves. That makes the men think that the women trust them. And I am sure he will be more relaxed to opening up to you as well. He will not feel pressured with you because your presence will make him feel good in his own skin. And that is what most men really want. Someone they can rely on, someone who will be there for them and support them in their dreams. Men do not want miracles, just one woman who will be there for them when their whole world is falling apart. Nothing else.
03. KNOW HOW TO TALK: If you engage in a convo with a man you are into, chances are higher that you will get to know each other much better. If all he says is the truth, you will know the real him. But some guys pretend that they are someone they are not just to get the girl they want. The good thing is that all those lies will not last long, and the ladies soon find out the whole truth. I would love to give you advice about how to check if a man is playing with you and telling you lies, but that is not possible. In this case, you need to rely on your gut and do things in the way you feel is the best for you. Also, try to get as much information as you can about a guy you like so you can check all those info with your mutual acquaintances. On the other hand, if a guy is honest and open about everything, there is nothing to worry about. You can relax and enjoy what could transform into love.
04. BE PLAYFUL: Men simply adore playful women. I am not saying that you should be all over the place when you do not feel like it but simply not stuck in a routine will be enough for a successful relationship. If you feel good with the guy you like, show him your wicked side. Learn how to play hard to get just to keep him interested in you. Use different tricks to make him fall for you. Tease him and never let him have all of you, at least if you are not ready for that. But whatever you do, do not let the old spark die in your relationship. Always work hard for what is quality, especially if we are talking about the most important guy in your life. Dating and relationships were never easy to handle so you will have to give all of yourself if you want something to truly last. I just hope it will be worth it in the end. I mean, it has to. If it is not worth it, and if it is not good, then it is not the end.
05. USE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR: If you want to learn how to be irresistible to men, then use your sense of humor. You do not have to be amazing in that but a funny line here and then in your conversation will definitely make some difference. Also, when you mix your sense of humor with strong eye contact, you will be a winner for sure. No man could resist a woman with these qualities since women like this are hard to find nowadays. Every time you spend time with the guy you like, try to be relaxed and make him feel comfortable in your company. If you really like him you can try to find some cute paragraphs for him and leave one in his jacket when he is not paying attention. So, when he looks in his pocket and finds one, he will be reminded of you, and he will be glad to have you in his life. The catch is that you do things other women do not do. That will put you on a pedestal and make you very special and unique. Your nice guy will be head over heels in love with you.
06. BE A LITTLE MYSTERIOUS: Men like women who keep some private things for themselves. That is where the famous saying comes from: ‘A woman without secrets is like a sky without stars!’ So, if you want that special guy for yourself only, do not tell him all about yourself on your first date. Instead, give him crumbs of information about yourself. In that way, you will force him to make some effort about you, and you will feel better because he will get very interested in you. When you think about it a little bit better, you will see that every woman who keeps something for herself is more appealing to guys than the one who has her heart on her sleeve. By keeping something back, she will be someone guys will work hard for and try their best to win over. No guy likes women who offer themselves on a silver platter, making themselves easy to get. They like women who are mysterious because you never know what they hide.
07. SHOW INTEREST IN HIM: If you show interest in the guy you like, chances are higher that he will start noticing you since that will be his ego boost. Every guy would be flattered if a woman shows interest in him, and that will make him find out more about you. If you play this game well, every man will want to go out with you and try to get to know you better. That means he is not only interested in your body but in you as a person as well. But if you have already decided to do something like this, just know that you should not exaggerate. If you show too much interest in him, you will push him away since he will be scared that you are some kind of a control freak. So, have some balance in everything you do, and do not forget to act with dignity in every situation. When a guy sees you acting like that, he will fall for you no doubt.
08. BE INDEPENDENT: In the world of modern dating, most guys’ favorite girls are the ones who are strong and independent. No man likes girls who act clingy and needy. They prefer the ones who have been through hell, but here they are, still standing firmly on their feet. And when you look back in the past, you will realize that strong women were always able to cope with all life problems in a much easier way than the weak ones. I am not saying that you should be strong all the time. There will be times when your whole world will fall apart, and at those moments, you are allowed to break down. At those moments, you are allowed to show your real face, the vulnerable and naked you. But those times come and go. And for all the other moments in your life, you should be strong and independent so no man sees that you are weak. Do not ever let any man see you on your knees unless you trust him the most. Only the right one can see you in your worst edition. Only the right one will understand that. Only with him, you can be yourself.
09. BE A MAGNET: If others find you attractive and alluring, your perfect guy will not be an exception as well. If all the guys go crazy about your perfect style, your hair, the way you walk and talk and the way you do everything with respect and dignity, all guys will find you attractive. And when your special guy realizes that all men around him would want to have you, he will start questioning himself how he can win you over. He will see that you are an aristocratic woman and that every guy would be so lucky to have you. And when he starts thinking like that, your mission is already accomplished. By managing a guy to behave like this you already learned how to be irresistible to men. After something like this happens, you can expect him to do all those crazy things guys who are in love do for their partners, so be ready for some nice surprises and sweet things he will keep saying to you.
10. ALWAYS BE POSITIVE: No matter what happens in your life, always focus on being positive. Men do not like negative women because they will only talk about their problems,and they will be so depressed. Women like that do not get it that guys need a cheerful and interesting woman, a woman who wants to get to know them better and not one who only shares her problems with them. That is why you need to be the best version of yourself when you are in the company of a man you like. Even if you are sad, give yourself a second chance, and try to be happy instead. Smile to life because life will definitely smile back at you. When you think about it, you will not get anything by being sad or depressed about some thing. That will not change the situation. Only your actions will. So, start with a smile on your face. I am sure there is no guy out there who will be able to resist it.
AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF A GIRL: PLEASE DO NOT COME CLOSE TO ME IF YOU HAVE NO INTENTION TO STAY
I do not know about the girls you are used to and I do not plan on convincing you that I am a special, delicate flower but the truth is that I am looking for some things that are probably not ordinary in today’s world. You see, I am not a one night stand kind of girl. Not a girl who is looking for meaningless flings or casual affairs. Not a girl who is perfectly OK with you picking her up from a bar, never to call her again the next morning.
Do not get me wrong, I have nothing against those who are into things like this, nor do I consider myself above them in any way but that is just not how I roll. No, this is not all a part of my strategy to get you to fall for me even more. It is not that I am playing hard to get or that I am pretending to be different just to stand out from the crowd. The point is that, honestly, I get easily attached and the last thing I need is some guy who is just passing through my life to leave me heartbroken. I do not give a damn about modern dating, you may call me old fashioned but I am not looking for something temporary and I am not ashamed to admit it.
I simply do not plan on wasting my time on building a relationship that is doomed to fail. So if you will enter my life with an already planned exit strategy then just do not! If you plan on making me fall for you just so you can leave me hanging, please do not. If you plan investing just halfway and not giving your entire self to our entire relationship, do not try around me in the first place. Call me a hopeless romantic but the truth is I believe in love. In real, unconditional love that lasts a lifetime. And I am not interested in anything less than that. I will not settle for a guy who does not know what he wants or for an immature boy who can not make up his mind about me.
For some selfish Douchebag who is incapable of loving and who will end up spiritually killing me. I am not saying that our relationship necessarily needs to last until death do us part but I do not want to start anything knowing that it has a predetermined expiration date. So please, do not come into my life if you are not coming to stay. Do not come anywhere near me if you do not believe in love. If you are not looking for your forever person and if you are not in a search of a happily ever after. Do not chase me if you are not looking for a meaningful connection, if you are not searching for something real or something that will last. Do not date me if you can not commit, if you can not be loyal and devoted.
Do not do it if you plan on stringing me along and playing mind games with me. If you need someone just to help you get through the day or if you need a backup plan until your ex or someone more suited to you comes along. Do not come into my life if you will shatter my heart and leave me broken. If you will leave deep scars and inerasable wounds on my soul. If I will need years to recover from the damage you make and if you will change me for good. Do not do it if you will turn me into a bitter and negative person because I am anything but that. Do not do it if you will kill my faith in love and my trust in people. Do not come into my life if you expect me to chase you or to beg for your love and attention.
If you will leave me hanging and if you will not be there when times get rough. I do not know, maybe I am asking for too much and maybe I will never find the man I am looking for. However, I would always rather remain single than be in a loveless relationship or with a man who can not give me what I want, need and deserve. At least I am honest from the start. Please, have enough decency to do the same. So, if you think I am too much to handle or if you think I am not worthy of all the trouble, walk away in time. Be man enough to save us both unnecessary problems and do not waste either of our time.
CHOOSE THE MAN WHO LOVES ALL OF YOU
Choose the man who loves all of you because he will never make you question your beauty. He will never make you feel like you are not beautiful enough. He will never make you think that he likes another woman more than you. He will never make you feel sad because he will have eyes only for you. Choose the man who loves all of you because a man like that will make you his priority. He will rather spend time with you instead of going out with his friends. He will rather spend time with you than having fun in some nightclub with his friends. A man like that can feel deeply, and you will be able to enjoy every second that you spend with him.
Choose the man who loves all of you because he will never make you feel sad. He will always be your support no matter what decision you make, and he will help you as much as he can so you can reach your goals. A man like that is someone who saw how amazing and special you are, and he would not do anything to hurt you intentionally. Choose the man who loves all of you because he will love you more and more with every day that comes. A man like that will fall in love with your eyes every morning you open them. He will fall in love with your smile and your soft voice when you tell him that you love him. He will make you feel like you are the only woman on Earth and that no other woman can come between the two of you.
Choose the man who loves all of you because he saw what others maybe missed seeing. He saw that you are a person with a clean and pure heart, the one who is not evil and the one who would do anything for love. He will see that you are the right woman to be a mother to his kids, and he will do anything to make you happy. Choose the man who loves all of you, not just because you deserve that, but because that is a true blessing which happens once in a lifetime. In a sea full of fuckboys, psychopaths and different kinds of jerks, a good man who loves all of you is truly a miracle. That is why you need to choose him. Catch him while he is there and never, ever let him go or leave him alone.
Choose the man who loves all of you because he will give you more love than you ever thought you would get. He will be your best friend, your lover, your human diary and your soulmate. A man like that is someone you meet only once in a lifetime, so make sure that you keep him and that you do not gamble him away. Because he is special. And you will figure out why. Choose the man who loves all of you because he will respect you as a woman. He will never do anything that could make you feel bad about yourself because he knows what it feels like when the person you love the most hurts you. He will not make any big decisions without asking for your approval.
And he will not do that because he is a wuss but because he respects your opinion and because he wants to know how you feel about certain things. Choose the man who loves all of you because he chose you. He chose every imperfection that you have. He chose you in your worst versions, and he never regrets doing that. Choose the man who loves all of you because your heart tells you to do that. And the heart is never wrong, right? And if you choose the one your heart thinks is the right one, you will end up having everything you always dreamed of. That is why you should choose the man who will always love you more. Choose the man who loves all of you! Choose the man whose love feels like home!
STAY REAL AND STAY LOYAL OR SIMPLY STAY AWAY FROM ME (BY KEVIN MCKENNA)
Do you feel like you have just had enough of it all? Like you are sick and tired of dating the wrong men and wasting your time on people who will never be able to see your worth? Do you start thinking like you should give up on love? Like it is really not meant for you? Giving up on love is wrong because deep down, I am sure that we all have a soulmate, that one person who is meant for us and with whom we will spend the rest of our lives.
What is the point in cheating? What is the point of playing with someone’s heart? How can someone betray the person they swear they honestly love? When will some people learn that a human heart and emotions are not their toys? You can not play with it and then throw it away when you get bored or find a new ‘toy’ for yourself. The thing that comforts me is that they do not believe in karma. But I do. And I know it will come knocking on their doors one day. It will catch them off guard and make them pay for hurting another human being and breaking their heart. Its timing may be slow, but karma will be served one day because karma always wins.
My soul is full of bruises, and my heart is full of marks. They were both hurt so many times, and I think they will never be able to heal completely. It is time for change. That is why I have decided to change some things. This is where I am putting my foot down. It is enough. I have had enough of the mistreatment and half hearted love. It needs to stop right here, right now. I am not saying it all was my fault. Maybe some people will judge me and say how I was guilty of letting my heart get broken again and again for so many years or how it is my fault for allowing others to treat me poorly. I honestly just wanted to be loved. I wanted to feel that true, unconditional, eternal, forever kind of love that I was giving to others.
If that is a sin, a crime or a mistake, then I am guilty and I am admitting to my crime. I hate myself a little bit right now for allowing people to make me feel insecure. Now, when I am completely aware of how much I am worth, I will never allow another person to treat me any less than I deserve ever again. I will nott accept being treated as basic anymore. From now on, a person who will want to talk to me will have to try hard to win over my heart. I will never again commit my time or give my honest and pure feelings to someone who is not ready to reciprocate them the way he should. I will never again forgive being betrayed or cheated on. I will never again give someone more than one chance because I truly believe that if you honestly love someone, you will never hurt them.
I will never again settle for half hearted love. There are no halves when it comes to real love. It is either to the fullest or not at all. Prove your feelings but most of all prove to me that love is not complicated. And the only way you will be able to do that is simply by truly and deeply loving me with your entire being. I know that I do not ask for too much. I just want to be loved, truly loved without any games or betrayals. Unfortunately, I see that is too difficult to find in this fake world today. I have decided that I will not tolerate or entertain any more nonsense. It is definitely time to start appreciating myself more. It is high time to stop allowing people who do not deserve me to waste my precious time. I am tired of forgiving and sick of giving second chances to irresponsible people.
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