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  • Not me being told by tinder that they’re gonna put my profile down because I’m not active anymore, going to swipe left majoritarely and once right, matching with someone and feeling obligated to talk to him despite his bad spelling.

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  • men on dating apps I am actually begging you to give me something to work with when we talk I am so tired of carrying our conversations singlehandedly but also too lonely just to say fuck it and give up on y'all so pls

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  • you tell them

    he’s kind

    he’s supportive

    there for you

    the truth is

    he’s in your pocket

    the palm of your hand

    beneath your thumbs

    that means nothing more

    than the momentary release

    in the silence of the mundance

    - @humcreates

    #writerscreed#illustrans #tumblr writing community #wnq writers#inkstay #writers on tumblr #tumblr writers#internet relationships#online relationships#dating apps #late night writing #writing on tumblr #tumblr writing poetry #teacups13 #writing about life #late night thoughts #spilled ink#spilled thoughts#spilled poem#poetryriot #poetry on tumblr #poetry corner
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  • fun life hack:

    write “send me your favorite brooklyn 99 quotes” in your tinder bio, forget about it, and get very confused when someone texts you “thank you for the heroin, sexy jesus”

    definitely not speaking from experience

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  • Are dating apps only for sex??? I don’t understand tinder has always been for hookups but bumble, all the girls want friends and all the boys want sex and as a bisexual who only wants non-sexual intimacy thats a problem… i tried HER but all the ladies ALSO only want sexy times… I don’t wanna be just FWB… just wanted to put my opinion out there in the void.

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  • Why do guys just like make out with me and then never want to see or talk to me again?

    It’s happened twice now.

    Once with a guy on tinder (which is now like whatever) and now another guy on hinge.

    Like if you can tell within an hour of meeting that you’re not vibing with me, why make out with me? And then why kiss me when you leave? And then why tell me you’ll message me to hang out again!?!

    Honestly, I’m not mad that things didn’t “work out” or whatever because honestly I don’t expect to ever be in a relationship again but just like why do that? I don’t understand

    #I really need to not with the dating apps #They just always end badly #Fml#Personal#Thoughts#Feelings#Guys#Dating apps#Bad experience#Tinder#Hinge
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  • I need the pandemic to end so i can become a normie again… my latest normie phase was almost 2 years ago i’m ready for another one!!!!!!

    #elements of normie phases include #reading refinery29 money diaries #running an instagram meme page #networking and going to industry events #dating apps #working on original writing projects #et cetera.
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  • Another day, another dating app

    #personal#dating apps #if possible Lex is even more alienating than Tinder #I found the app where an even higher percentage of the people are poly and/or NB #(neither of which are bad things- they’re just not MY things. dating-wise) #this is getting so tiresome. can I just spontaneously meet my soulmate already?
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  • Anybody else gotten to the point that they have copy/paste responses for generic questions on dating apps? I don’t like having to repeat myself 🤣😅 Where you wanna travel to? What kinda music you like?

    😴😴😴

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  • where the hell are all the catboys on these dating apps. cant a dogboy just find his catboy in peace

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  • After a while, the matches stopped. I kept seeing women from 70 kilometers away and almost noone from around. I saw nurses/teachers/models/bloggers and people who only had their Instagram in their bio. Again and again, like there were no other options. So many women posing half naked and expected to be taken seriously. No bio, just pictures. No info about her personality, what she’s looking for, interests, hobbies… Just pictures. I understand being proud of your body, but let people discover that for themselves after they’ve gotten to know you.

    There were the obvious working girls, who were promoting a certain sex website. It was a nice change in scenery, but they all got swiped away.

    I got more negative. No more likes, no more matches. Everything came to a complete standstill. So I started swiping every single one to the right. I did not look if they had bio’s, multiple pictures or were even near me. Just that one picture and a name. Everyone got swiped to the right. And then nothing. Nothing changed. I didn’t get more matches, more likes, more anything. It just died.

    Waiting for a sign of life was soul crushing. It made you feel so unwanted. I wasn’t going to keep this going and tell my friend noone was matching him. The difference between mens and womens profiles was enormous.

    So now another question rose: Is it the profile or Tinders algorithm?

    What if we create a profile with a very attractive man, with no bio, no extra info? Just pictures.

    Let’s find out.

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  • This all started when my male friend once again quit on Tinder and any online dating apps. I have met many great people on there and even my fiancé. So I wondered: Is the difference between men and women on Tinder so high?
I asked my friend if I could create a profile for him, choose the pictures and write the bio, and see how conversations go if a woman writes them.

    I got 5 matches in de first few days. Started a conversation with 3 of them to start and waited for responses. Everytime I would report to my friend, ask for his input and then formulate it in an answer. One girl was talkative, we exchanged conversation 3-4 chat bubbles at a time. Funny and light conversation about travel experiences and getting out of the house during corona.

    So my friend suggested to get her from Tinder to his messenger so they could meet in person, go for a walk in nature and get to know each other. I suggested this and she completely ignored the message, said he had been busy all day and the chat bubbles went to the amount of 2. I tried to reassure her and get the conversation back on track, but it was too late. We acted a little fast and scared her off. No more conversation.

    The second one had a very young mind, so conversation didn’t last. The third one answered once and then fell off the planet.

    So we continue this and see what happens.

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  • This all started when my male friend once again quit on Tinder and any online dating apps. I have met many great people on there and even my fiancé. So I wondered: Is the difference between men and women on Tinder so high?
    I asked my friend if I could create a profile for him, choose the pictures and write the bio, and see how conversations go if a woman writes them.

    I got 5 matches in de first few days. Started a conversation with 3 of them to start and waited for responses. Everytime I would report to my friend, ask for his input and then formulate it in an answer. One girl was talkative, we exchanged conversation 3-4 chat bubbles at a time. Funny and light conversation about travel experiences and getting out of the house during corona. So my friend suggested to get her from Tinder to his messenger so they could meet in person, go for a walk in nature and get to know each other. I suggested this and she completely ignored the message, said he had been busy all day and the chat bubbles went to the amount of 2. I tried to reassure her and get the conversation back on track, but it was too late. We acted a little fast and scared her off. No more conversation.

    The second one had a very young mind, so conversation didn’t last. The third one answered once and then fell off the planet.

    So we continue this and see what happens.

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    Get on dating apps they said…🤦🏼‍♀️

    #dating#dating apps #jesus take the wheel
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  • the whole idea of dating apps is really not for me, man. like, the thought of not being the one— the one you see god when you look into the eyes, the one who bewitched you body and soul, the one you wanna worship like a God, the one you would perish without— the thought of a person swiping right to a bunch of other people?? and i’m just another one among them???¿ no obsession? no nothing? just another cute face to choose from an app? nahhhh fam, it physically makes me sick to even imagine myself not being the thing that buries you. no, thanks.

    #yes. I have a lot of leo in my birth chart #but seriously now. I can’t do it #I feel so expendable #I’ve tried so many times tho #but it’s just not for me #leo venus#leo#dating apps
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  • Ooh dating app red flag alert


    In response to me telling a guy my favorite DC character is Oracle he said: yeah she’s cool but the killing joke that lead to her being Oracle is amazing.

    #dc#oracle#batgirl#barbara gordon#dating apps #like yeah killing joke is a good and classic arc #but if it’s your favorite comic I fear you #also... my favorite comic is the one that insinuates your favorite character was raped by the joker #not a great first impression for a dating app
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    OKCupid tries to entice you to sign up for A-list by showing you one person who’s liked and messaged you so you’ll want to pay to see the rest. I don’t know how the app chooses which person to show, but they should work much harder on that algorithm.

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