I get so self-conscious about tinder it’s a little ridiculous. Like I get it, I’m probably not going to find a prince charming on there, but at the same time it’s all gay people have during normal times, and especially during this pandemic. It’s just so obvious that the type of guy I’m attracted to will never match me back. I get like 1 match per month, so that’s how I know. And usually the one match is a guy that I’m sort of (but not really) attracted to. How am I supposed to fix that? I feel like my profile is as good as I can make it for now, so what gives… Also what other avenue is there for me to meet people as a gay man? Sit at a gay coffee shop and wait til someone approaches me? I think I would rather watch paint dry

I feel like such a monster. I have a horrible habit of just. Not talking to people. No warning, nothing, I just stop messaging them. Sometimes it’s because talking gives me anxiety, or I don’t know what to say, but that’s not an excuse. I haven’t talked to my girlfriend in a little over a month and I don’t know what to do, how to apologize, how to make it up to her, what to say.

WTF? WEDNESDAY! #Dating #Relationship #Advice #Questions & Answers (6/10/20). Listen to the unbelievable drama these people are experiencing in their “love” relationships. Then thank the heavens that you don’t have these problems!

You can’t shame someone for not wanting to date certain types of men, women etc. If a gent doesn’t like brown and dark skin women like me, then I keep it moving because I know there will be other men who appreciate me as I am.

My issue starts when they start making fun of the people they don’t like. 

Date people who like you and choose people who choose you. 

Me Not replying to dating messages;

Not today serial killer, not today.

I needed you, and where were you???

With a friend…

No offense but it’s super fucking ridiculous that men will literally ignore your text(s) all day or multiple days and then have the audacity to call women clingy, aggressive, sensitive and bitchy when we tell them “I’d rather you take the ten seconds to tell me you’re busy or you want some space instead of completely disrespecting and ignoring me and making me feel unwanted”

Me: I’m done dating. For good. No dating for me, thanks.

Also me: Should I pay money for this dating app?

Me: If anyone wants to date me, please come forward, I’m a mess, but I have much to give.

Everyone:

Originally posted by rnightly

So I’m trying to get out there and date

Men that don’t have anger issues and aren’t sexist. Call me.

‘Guys are really easy to understand, you don’t gotta think about what they do or say too much.’

Me:*Trying to know if a guy I like has a crush on me or not because he’s sending mixed signals*

It’s always weird when someone you’ve tried to pursue for so long finally shows interest but now you’re no longer interested It’s weird how life works.

You know how when a guy takes a girl out to eat and he’s like ‘where do you want to eat’ and the girl is like 'wherever you want’? And then the guy is thinking to himself 'well why the f should I have even asked then? -_- ’?

Well, I get what the girls are trying to do, but luckily for the people I date, I can’t exactly he that indecisive.

The closest I’d be able to be is 'I know that I can trust (insert a small list of names) with some of their food, so we can go to whichever of those you want. (Certain number) of those are fast food places, so you can get cheaper food faster, but (the other names on the list) have better food and they’re better for sitting and talking. But whichever one you’re more comfortable with is fine with me, as long as you enjoy it and as long as I can eat something lol’

Because I can’t just roll with whatever places they want. Chinese places? Can’t eat anything. Tacos/burritos? Can’t eat those. Sea food? Hate it!! Ect, ect, ect, ECT.

So, yeah, I have to chop away some of the usual options, otherwise I’d either not be able to safely eat anything on the date or be super annoying by having to shoot down most of their ideas.

How people even do dating. Like. How do you meet people. How do you meet the love of your life. How. HOW.

Still haven’t told my mom I’m dating my suitemate 😬😬 like she wouldn’t have a problem with it, at least i dont think.. but like I’m still scared too and so much time has passed it feels too late to tell her now and I don’t want her to feel offended because I didn’t tell her sooner.. and like I keep talking about my suitemate like she’s my friend which makes it more awkward and this whole situation has been stressing me out.

I am accepting any and all advice.

I’m not guarded but I’m cautious, I’ve been here before, I’m not phased by your compliments nor impressed by the things you posses. Nowadays it all goes in one ear and out the other, since the last one told me to let my guard down and I actually I fell for it well I haven’t been the same since, I’ve always been smart with my instincts they’ve never steered me wrong. This time around I’m taking this slow I mean why rush if you want it to last? Time usually tells all right? Soon I’ll see your flaws in plain sight. Just maybe you’ll breakdown these walls that are tight.

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