Me: ugh, disphoria :(
My friend: hey, you look good all day, everyday
Me: I know that, that doesnât take my tiddies away
Trans people who are in systems and struggle with their non-cis identity because of it:
Yes, you are a part of a whole. And maybe that does affect your relationship with gender, who knows?
But your relationship with your gender is still just as valid and just as deserving of respect as everyone elseâs.
Trauma doesnât invalidate you, being a system member doesnât stop you from deserving support.
I see you. I hear you. Youâve got this.
(exclusionists and ableists dni)
i think my favorite thing about myself is that i have an uncanny ability to catch people staring at me and looking confused,
ĆszintĂ©n nem tudom eldönteni, hogy az agyam most velem vagy ellenem van. Minden stressz ellenĂ©re, a vizsga, a gyakorlat, hogy jĂłl teljesĂtsek, elkezdtem megkĂ©rdĆjelezni a nemi identitĂĄsomat. Vagyis nem egĂ©szen pontosan egyik naprĂłl a mĂĄsikra, valahogyan mindig is Ă©reztem hogy valami ânem 100-asâ, de Ăgy hogy ĂĄllĂtolagosan kezd benĆni a fejem lĂĄgya, az a maradĂ©k agyi kapacitĂĄsomat is lefoglalja (Ă©s sajnos az sem segĂt, hogy senkivel komolyan nem tudom megbeszĂ©lni, mert szinte lĂĄtom magam elĆtt a szituĂĄciĂłt hogyan is menne ez le). SzĂłval most Ășgy a nĆ Ă©s az enby közĂ© tennĂ©m magam, de semmi sem biztos. Komoly beszĂ©lgetĂ©s elĆtt ĂĄllok magammal.
Hey there non-binary pals!
So Iâm curious, for those of you that identify as non-binary but donât identify as trans, why is that?
I myself am enby and am perfectly comfortable with the trans label, but I know whatâs not true for everyone and I just genuinely like to hear from others who have differing opinions.
So yeah if you feel like sharing, let me know your opinions on whether you do or donât ID as trans and why.
Hope youâre all having a lovely day! :)
a friendly reminder that AFAB trans and nonbinary people can wear makeup and skirts and dresses and use she/her pronouns and have feminine names and like pink and theyâre still trans/nonbinary and deserve respect :))
Also how do I change my content and how I advertise as Iâm evolving and changing? Iâve built my brand as like ~sexy fairy girl~ but Iâm feeling less and less ~girl~ and idk what to do.
I donât wanna alienate my customer base⊠But at the same time I want to be authentically me.
Idk idk just tryna get thoughts down somewhere
Reminder that thereâs a BIG difference in asking about the race/sexuality/gender of someone you know and of someone you just met or donât know well.
I canât tell you how many times people I barley know have asked me about my ethnic origins. Iâm not out yet, but I guess I dress queer enough that Iâve gotten some poorly veiled questions about my sexuality.Â
If a friend wants to know any of these things about me, Iâll tell them. If someone is respectfully asking for my pronouns, Iâll tell them. But if someone is just trying to figure out which of their societal boxes to shove me in, all theyâre gonna get is a sarcastic response.Â
Iâm a person. I donât need strangers categorizing me to fit their black and white narrative.Â
changing your name should cost the price of a bottle of white out, not hundreds of dollars
Mirror mirror on the wall
What you show me isnât fair at all
That reflection isnât me
Thereâs someone else Iâd rather see
crying over my spanish work because I dont know if I want to be an amigo or an amiga like why is spanish online lessons just adding to my gender crisis
we had to recreate a piece for art class. this was my first time drawing on a beard i tried lol but i love it.
okay so iâve just made this blog because iâm struggling too much with pronouns, identity and all gender stuff?? and i thought having a place where i could talk about it and use they/them pronouns without anyone misgendering me or even i hiding my pronouns to other people to avoid any bad comment.Â
so yeah, iâm ayla, iâm 18 years old and iâm currently going by they/them pronouns <3