I always find it interesting to see which cis people get unnecessarily upset when I don’t cater my trans identity on what they think transness ought to be. You’re angry that you’re too transphobic to see that I’m trans enough without your input? So am I.
I had an amazing experience today :)
I’ve always looked forwards to going to starbucks. Thing is, i hate coffee. What i looked forward to was the people there. They were always very supportive and affirming in whatever pronouns and name i wanted (which have changed a few times over the years as I figure myself out)
I always loved being able to see The Queer Employee™.
Today i got to be The Queer Employee™, and let me tell you it was amazing. This kid came in and pointed at a small piece of pride gear that i wear basically everywhere and just gave me a thumbs up and we made eye contact and smiled. This child just made my day!
I want to give away this (very) small chest binder tank top. It’s 25" at the chest (elastic panel on one side, rows of hooks and eyes on the other, measured with the first row closed) and 22" long. Free but please pay shipping. I went swimming in this once and wore it only occasionally (swapping out for a different one that was also too small), and I had top surgery a couple months ago.
Please only message if you’re looking for a full time binder, though I still recommend getting a better quality one in the future. This is not for cosplay, drag, or people who only feel the need part-time.
i was trying 2 have a discussion w my gf on gender and i was trying to explain why xenogenders aren’t bad and that having more labels isn’t a bad thing! but in my gfs talking i realized i don’t think I’m an nb man and that I am a man im just a more feminine one that doesn’t follow gender roles and i put myself into a box that i don’t need!
Just got a haircut. I still look like a 12 year old, but at least I don’t look like a homeless 12 year old.
(I’m pre-testosterone so I’m cursed with looking at least 4 years younger than I actually am. And it’s at least 2 or 3 years before I can start HRT because my country sucks)
Anyone know a good English or Italian boy name? My deadname is Italian but popular in England so I want my name to be either English or Italian I could really use some help
Sure we could take turns topping … but what if we held eachother chest to chest, grinding and growling, both of us sinking our teeth deep and slow into each others shoulders … who would cum first? Who would cry out and beg for mercy first? Who will bite harder trying to counter the pain?
2 weeks post op and 6 weeks on T vs 6.5 years.
It’s hard to believe that it’s been over 6 years since I started my physical transition. I am so fortunate to be happy and living my best life (pandemic excluded).
If you have anything to spare please consider donating to the gofundme I’m running for my girlfriend. Her being able to medically transition would save her life as she’s facing increasing transphobic attacks on top of her ptsd and depression.
I’m letting my hair grown out for the first time in about 6 years
i finally understand why people wear hats all the time
Part 6
Surgery was something that I had wanted for a long time. Gladly, I opted to go private as my previous attempts at public hospitals had been unsuccessful, in that the first one flat out refused and the second one bailed literally as I was waiting in pre-op. I was over the bullshit. So I went in and had my double mastectomy and oh my God, the freedom I felt was incredible.
By this time, my mother was starting to talk to me because she wanted access to my son. On the flip side, my ex was using piss poor excuses as to why his mother was the only one who really wanted to see my son. My son expressed his discomfort going up to visit the other side of his family as they made him sleep in the floor on the couch cushions. Not really very nice. He said he didn’t want to go. So I told them that. It was fine by me. He didn’t want a bar of them.
So I began to spend time planning for something amazing. Buying my first house. It took us a while, but Soulmate and I had it all worked out. We eventually bought a nice little house and made it our home. My son, meanwhile, was hoping we could have another child. Someone for him to grow up with.
So, despite everything else going on we decided to try - through the miracles of modern science and after 13 agonising attempts my Soulmate became pregnant. How joyful for us. We’d made a serious commitment to one another by having a ceremony (way before marriage equality as a thing), and now we were having a baby.
Mentally I was in a good headspace. Meanwhile, my mother was doing all kinds of crazy shit and I was in no mood for it. My Soulmate was made redundant from her job and I was desperate to do something different. We sold our house, paid our debts and decided to move. Far away. Interstate. To an island.
Mother went berserk. Why was I going so far away. Why? How could I do that? Simply put, I needed to get the hell away from everyone and everything that was causing me grief. Number one being the heat. My migraines had become a very large part of my decision to move to a cooker climate. They were also affecting my son. We chose to go live in a colder environment in the hopes it would be more comfortable. Then of course there was mother. I knew that if I stayed she would pull some crazy stunt and then she would be expecting me to fix her issues. No thanks.
My only regret is that my sister would be left behind, but she had her own life. Distance would only bond us together stronger.
So, once my lovely Soulmate gave birth to a son, I became a proud father for the second time. It was an exhausting and entirely joyous occasion. And then… We waited 6 months and then moved south. To the Apple Isle.
Life was about to change for us again… but love and perseverance would make everything okay…
Hey guys,
Can you help us by sharing this fundraiser? We’re a collective of black trans women from Cali-Colombia, this is one of the most violent and transphobic cities in Colombia, where we are most murdered and persecuted. That is why we want to have our own community house to support each other and more trans people to be safe.
https://fundrazr.com/Transhelp7
Paypal.me/transhelp
Instagram: @en_poder_arte
Question: Which name do you like best?? (You can choose more than one but like max 3)
Florence
Gabriel
Roland
Reilly
Lucien
Kara
Joan(n)/Jo
(I just want your opinion on them, please feel free to respond)
I have this URGE to fill my room with plushies and I hate that it gives me dysphoria, brain let me do things
