oppressive groups think they're the ones being oppressed so often - homophobic straight people believe in all-powerful gay agenda controlling the media, goyim believe Jews actually own all the means of production and control the culture and economy, and even believed so before World War II, and so on so on, not to mention MRAs and Christians in Christian majority countries with their persecution complex. the problem is that they were privileged since birth, and grew up with their privilege, surrounded by media and history validating it constantly; they never question it, so when a minority tries to fight for their own rights and liberate themselves, they see an attempt to take their privilege away as violence against them. since the minorities want them to have it worse than before, obviously they're oppressing them - they're oblivious to the fact that "before" they had it unfairly better at the minority's cost. the same, pretty much, applies to white transbians like Contra or Philtube - they think feminists aka "TERFs" oppress them, because they grew up always getting their way, and now some women are telling them they can't just change how the world sees them? that they still have responsibilities related to their sex even if they don't want to be that sex? that they still have to keep out of some discussions even if they identify as oppressed? that their will isn't enough to change societal dynamics? that they may want something and request it and still not get it? that, to them, seems like unbearable offence. oppression, attack and harm, because they're not used to ever being limited, restricted, disciplined or told "no".