Since some people seem to think they know absolutely everything about my views/ opinions
Hi. I have no political affiliations, my loyalties lie only to my husband and our future children. My dream life consists of us living happily together in China where he is a citizen, and our children will also hold Chinese citizenship. I’ve also talked previously about how excited I am to raise my kids with Chinese culture and language.
Idk what about my account ~screams~ white supremacist values when I almost exclusively post pictures of non-white families/ kids. If you have a problem with individual people in the trad community then take it up with those individuals. I’m simply here to dream about the day I finally get a little family of my own.
wish i could just like. reblog criticisms of the various industries and social attitudes that punish women for gender nonconformity without having to check and see if op is a terf. truly hateful that experience has taught me to be wary of anyone who criticizes makeup culture or hair removal or cosmetic procedures and to pull away from anyone who says anything about ‘catering to male desire’. bc like it IS fucked how women are materially impacted by how well we perform femininity but i have both a brain and a heart that aren’t filled with maggots so i recognize that this is especially true for trans women and want to improve things for all of us
Cooking and cleaning are not gender-specific activities. Don't even try to change my mind on this one.
[Hey Besties, should I wear a corset to Tumblr Prom?]
Why is it that on damn near every post traditional women make about our lifestyle someone who isn't traditional feels the need to make it about them?
We don't invade posts about women in stem or women in business to tell them that not all women want to do those things so why cant they respect our spaces the same way?
I like, never wanted to be a housewife tho
Not a day goes by without me thinking of the implications of being trans in the eah world
OMEGA ALPHA AND BETA ARE THE S E X E S OF THE OMEGAVERSE????? ??? ?????????? ?? ? ??
I’m not active here anymore but I gotta say it somewhere
STOP BRINGING UP THE STRUGGLES OF OTHER COMMUNITIES IN RESPONSE TO CONVERSATIONS ABOUT THE STRUGGLES OF ONE COMMUNITY.
STOP BRINGING UP SEXISM TO BELITTLE A CONVERSATION ABOUT RACISM. STOP BRINGING UP MEN’S BODY POSITIVITY TO BELITTLE A CONVERSATION ABOUT WOMEN’S BODY POSITIVITY. STOP MAKING IT SEEM LIKE ACTIVISM ABOUT ONE THING IS MAKING ACTIVISM ABOUT ANOTHER THING LESSER.
I’ve seen one too many people commenting about veganism and animal rights under posts and videos about racism and sexism and stuff. It’s disgusting. Animal rights are important, but stop using them to belittle movements. I’m white; I don’t know what it’s like to be in a marginalized community. But I’m not going to speak over one movement with another.
Male gender roles are a problem. Recognizing that and working to improve is important. But don’t use male gender roles against the feminist movement.
Sexism is a problem. Recognizing that and working to improve is important. But using sexism to make someone else’s struggles is gross.
All of these movements are important, but using them against each other is horrible. We won’t be able to fix everything overnight, but if people keep pitting everyone against each other, we’ll never solve anything.
Everyone’s feelings are valid. Mental illness is an issue and making people feel bad for having whatever emotions they have, just because they aren’t part of a specific community or minority, is not going to help anyone.
My point is, do what you can to help these communities but please don’t use one movement to argue against another. It’s disgusting. Do what you can to help people but stop making it seem like their feelings are less valid. The issues in our society will never be solved unless we acknowledge all of them and celebrate the victories in every community. Racism is a huge problem. Homophobia and transphobia are problems. Sexism and gender roles are issues as well. None of these are lesser than others and if we don’t realize that, we’ll end up pitting each other against one another and never solving the issues we’ve got in the first place.
jesse and lake go to prom, but lake wears a suit and jesse wears a dress
Mid century average.
Right now I am making a photography project called femme about male femininity.
Here are some photos 💕
“The woman should—”
“It’s a man’s job to—”
How about you shut the fuck up
i think a lot about how taemin said he didnt expect move to get as much attention as it did