I have a friend that is like the perfect height to give me a hug. He’s tall enough to where I can rest my head on his shoulder and I feel like he would give a solid hug. He does Muay Thai so I’m pretty sure it would be a nice and strong hug and after the night I’ve been having I really just want to be hugged for like 20min.
Im too awkward to ask him for a hug because I don’t know how he feels about physical contact. Especially with someone that he’s not in a relationship with. I’m all for physical contact and affection if I feel comfortable with a person. If they’re up to it I would seriously be in constant contact with them. Whether it be like leg touches or hand holding or arm bumps or head on shoulder type things. I don’t want him to feel uncomfortable or pressured into giving me a hug cause I feel crummy, but a hug would be really nice right now.
I hate the fact that I need physical contact and a hug every once in a while other wise I get really depressed and I just cry. I’m so far away from my family ( and hour to the airport, a four hour flight, and another hour to my house) and all of my friends that I know are cool with physical affection are shorter than me and I really just want a hug from someone that just makes me feel safe and secure.