#inner self Tumblr posts

  • my-brain-is-still-thinking
    06.12.2021 - 1 hour ago

    About life and suicide and being good to yourself:

    I want to consume life in the best possible way.

    I want people to heal,

    I want to watch the birds sing and hear their songs. The stars are gorgeous on a clear night, eating healthy foods makes my body feel good, loving myself feels beautiful, loving everyone else feels like flying.

    There is information about myself and the world and the universe at my very own fingertips.

    I have the power to spread joy,

    I have the power to spread love,

    I can feel pain but I can also feel pleasure. Most importantly pleasure.

    What is pleasure?

    It is an intense feeling of positive satisfaction. Like happiness.

    What is happiness?

    It is a feeling of great joy that stems from overall life satisfaction and overall human well being.

    IN MY OPINION, I THINK THIS IS ABSOLUTELY GOOD.

    what do I mean by β€œgood”?

    By this, I mean what is humanly right and morally okay.

    IN CONCLUSION:

    It is humanly right and morally okay to be GOOD to yourself.

    I think one reason to keep on living is for feeling good and spreading goodness around.

    I guess that’s 2 things.. but yeah while no other creature commits suicide the way that humans do, on the same hand I believe no other creature can experience life with such great pleasure and has the power to change minds the way humans do, and I think that is something to live for.

    #life#happiness#happy thoughts#my thoughts#journal thoughts#tw suicude #be good to yourself #be good to each other #inner thoughts#happy#pleasure#humanity#nice#daily life#positive thoughts#good health#good#self love#love#depression #dealing with emotions #dealing with pain #dealing with mental health #dealing with death
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  • anbadlosiren
    06.12.2021 - 8 hours ago

    "Mary J. Blige - Good Morning Gorgeous [Official Video]" on YouTube

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  • sawubonah
    06.12.2021 - 9 hours ago

    But finally... finally i woke up and saw my self as the truest version of meee. Because i was never who they wanted me to be i am who i am and my worth never goes away only because of their thought. You can not change someone because you think they are not what they told you. You can't tell someone who they are. PERIOD

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  • dresstoimpressandforyourself
    05.12.2021 - 18 hours ago

    The Real Me !! The Real You !!

    #feminisation #desire to be female #embrace your femininity #inner girl desire #follow your inner girl #release your inner girl #born in the wrong body #be the girl that you know you are #follow your heart #follow your dreams #follow your soul #become a girl #become your true self #becoming a woman
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  • jhenglebellies
    05.12.2021 - 20 hours ago

    Hi you. Give yourself a hug. Your inner child told me they need a hug today.

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  • zulkarnain09
    05.12.2021 - 22 hours ago

    Fall in love with the process of leveling yourself up. Never stop growing.

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  • babysoulwhisperer
    05.12.2021 - 1 day ago

    How to overcome limiting beliefs: My favorite is "Who are you to dream this big?" Yesus I know that reveals a lot about the inner turmoil of my brain. It's rough. But to grow and expand and thrive, that sh?!t needs to go. Often times the first step to overcoming something is acknowledgement. So define and identify your limiting beliefs. These can be limiting beliefs about the world, other people, about yourself. Take control and take responsibility. Life happens for you not to you. Even though there are circumstances that occur beyond our control, the power lies in how we respond to it. Learn from failure, master your emotions and make better, smarter decisions for your life. Let go of predictability. The comfort zone. 😩 Become more aware of your self-talk and create a positive dialog with yourself. Replace negative thoughts with empowering thoughts.

    How to overcome limiting beliefs: My favorite is β€œWho are you to dream this big?” Yesus I know that reveals a lot about the inner turmoil of my brain. It’s rough. But to grow and expand and thrive, that sh?!t needs to go. Often times the first step to overcoming something is acknowledgement. So define and identify your limiting beliefs. These can be limiting beliefs about the world, other people, about yourself. Take control and take responsibility. Life happens for you not to you. Even though there are circumstances that occur beyond our control, the power lies in how we respond to it. Learn from failure, master your emotions and make better, smarter decisions for your life. Let go of predictability. The comfort zone. 😩 Become more aware of your self-talk and create a positive dialog with yourself. Replace negative thoughts with empowering thoughts.

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  • littleviolets
    05.12.2021 - 1 day ago

    longing for the days where i am meeting up with friends and maybe i have a girlfriend or a partner and im the one I'M The One talking confidently and casually and freely about my accomplishments. im controlling the conversation and feeling cool but in an "i don't really care im with my friends so i'm not bragging" sort of way but internally i'm like doing triple spins or something

    longing for the day where i just am so at peace with my growing self. the day i don't have to feel small anymore i just feel as i am which is right-sized and whole in-my-own-way. and my partner is proud of me

    i was daydreaming just now of chatting with my friends at some cafe bar ramen type place when they visit from new orleans and my partner shows up and sits next to me and holds me a little with their arm around my shoulder and does the soothing arm rub that i currently use on my dominant hand/arm side for inner child work. and we're chatting and just being so whole and i seem very different to the violet my friends parted ways from in july this year but still the same too, in the sweet ways. and it's just normal and casual and chill and good. how i'm able to.. feel whole without the constant second guessing myself or my worth or my adequacy, not living inside my head thinking about the things i want to say but just being able to say it freeingly and not feel like i shouldn't have because of a lack of response or something.

    it's just so... i just wish it were real i wish i had more genuine connection to myself so i didn't feel this was impossible even though i'm sure it's not. i just forgot what my therapist recommended when i get caught in daydreams like this :/

    #i recorded that nightmare and tried to do some self soothing for the most babiest of inner children #i had some toast and hot chocolate i think i'm going to just take the day off it's 4:18am now #i'll try to do commission work in the morning so i can just chill out
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  • manilapalette
    24.08.2021 - 3 monts ago
    The last few moments of the summer sunshine rays. A green-light to find peace in the midst of the harsh reality. What used to be a battle between my desires vs real time, is now just a thought that I am taking control of.

    (Summer, 05/21)

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  • autumn-imara
    04.12.2021 - 1 day ago

    Don’t Blame Yourself if You Can’t Escape Your Abusers Right Away

    In our society, we are often really, really hard on abuse survivors. I used to be that way myself. But I realized, through my own experience, that it is never your fault if you can't escape an abusive situation right away. We should never blame ourselves if we find ourselves "stuck". It's not our fault.

    Many times, abusers purposely hold you back from leaving their influence, by financially abusing you (so you'll never have money to leave and escape them), by controlling everything you do, by trying to intimidate you, by making threats if you try to leave, and so on. It's not as easy as just packing your bags and leaving, especially if you grew up in an abusive environment. Trauma affects the brain and your decision-making abilities, which can make it very challenging to form an escape plan, too.

    I used to be so hard on myself because I couldn't escape my abusive situation right away. I felt a lot of shame because I absorbed our society's idea that it's your own fault if you don't escape your abusers. But this is nothing more than victim-blaming. Abuse from others is not your fault, and you don't deserve any of it, even if you haven't escaped right away.

    There can be so many reasons why people stay in an abusive situation. Sometimes abusive parents limit your outside friendships and connections, which makes it so much harder to leave. Sometimes relatives turn a blind eye, instead of actively helping you get out of the abusive situation. Sometimes you've gone through so many other traumatic events in your life (like I have) that you're just too exhausted to escape right away, and that's okay.

    I realized I was just too exhausted to escape right away. I was still trying to heal from another traumatic event that happened to me where I nearly passed away, so I realized I was being way too hard on myself. I'm focusing now on taking care of myself, learning how to heal from my past trauma, and letting go of guilt and self-blame, so when my time to escape does come (and I know it will happen one day), I'll be ready for it.

    The important thing to remember is that someone staying in an abusive situation is NOT the same as someone consenting to abuse. It is never your fault if you are being abused, even if you can't leave right away. The abuser is always the one at fault, because the abuser is the one who is making the choice to hurt, control, and manipulate you. Realizing that I'm not responsible for other people's bad actions really helped me to understand this.

    Now, I have heard people, mainly people who follow the "Law of Attraction" teachings, claim that you somehow deserve a bad life situation or abuse situation because you attracted this to you. This is NOT true. If this were true, we would see this reflected in life, where people who are in abusive situations had extremely negative outlooks on life, and therefore "attracted" the negative experience to them.

    But this is certainly not the truth. Many abuse survivors I know and have read about are among the brightest, kindest, and most resilient people I have ever met. They have a beautiful energy and vibration. But they still went through abuse and many life challenges, and so clearly, those life challenges had nothing to do with whatever "vibration" they were holding. The abuse they experienced was because of the toxic people who abused them.

    This idea of you attracting abuse to you because of your "low vibration" makes even less sense when you consider child abuse. How can a child attract a negative abusive experience because of his or her "low vibration"? It's completely illogical and untrue. Children are very vulnerable, and have almost no control over how their parents behave. Children are never responsible for the child abuse they face.

    So don't listen to anyone who tries to shame you into thinking you're somehow "spiritually attracting" abusive situations towards you. Just focus on yourself, your healing, and your own state of mind. You are doing the best you can, and that is enough.

    I know good things will happen for me, and I do the best I can in the present moment. That's how I survive and that's how I make it. I believe in spiritual assistance and help, but it's the kind that comes through my ancestors, and through gaining strength and insight through dream work and inner work, not from spiritual bypassing like "The Law of Attraction" in its popular form.

    You never deserve to be abused, even if you are unable to escape right away. So don't blame yourself. You are very brave to wake up everyday, still trying your best, no matter how much intimidation and abuse you face. That is something no one can take away from you - your resilience, your heart, and your beautiful spirit.

    (Please note that if you don't believe in spirituality, that's perfectly okay, this is just my perspective on it. And if you are a "Law of Attraction" enthusiast, please take a moment to stop and examine what you're saying if you're telling other people they "attracted" abusive situations to them. It's not true, and you don't want to re-traumatize survivors of abuse by saying that.

    If you become defensive because I am pointing out victim-blaming and why I don't subscribe to this belief, please take a moment to examine yourself and why you are becoming so defensive. If the Law of Attraction really works the way the mainstream theory says it does, it should work for everyone, not just for people who have societal power and privilege. I do believe we have spiritual powers, and that our thoughts and beliefs can affect our lives, how we experience them, and even life events to a certain extent, but this theory should not be used to blame survivors of abuse.)

    #for abuse survivors #for trauma survivors #healing from abuse #healing from trauma #don't blame yourself #healing self-blame#abusers#victim-blaming#abusive parents#escaping abuse#escaping abusers#inner work#spiritual bypassing#spirituality #law of attraction #law of attraction myth
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  • dresstoimpressandforyourself
    04.12.2021 - 1 day ago

    Introduce Your Girl

    #feminisation #desire to be female #embrace your femininity #want to be a girl #need to be a girl #happy to be a girl #follow your dreams #follow your heart #follow your soul #show the world your inner girl #be the girl that you know you are #be your true self #be as feminine as you can
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  • konsketchbook
    04.12.2021 - 1 day ago
    πŸ–€πŸ€πŸŽ‡
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  • aspiritualstoner
    04.12.2021 - 2 days ago

    To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.

    β€” Thich Nhat Hanh

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  • kajalpandey
    04.12.2021 - 2 days ago

    If success is sourced from external factors, are you really successful then? Or are you just in an illusion of success that is fleeting and sits on no solid foundation. The foundation of success is you. When you see yourself as the source you stop chasing success, you become it.

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  • kajalpandey
    04.12.2021 - 2 days ago

    Self expression: this is how my song sounds and it’s no better or less than anyone else’s. It’s entirely unique and beautiful. It is divine and whole.

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  • hcpefulmarshmallow
    04.12.2021 - 2 days ago

    β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- tag dump.

    #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ i was just in the middle of an inner monologue 」 ooc #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ i've made peace with the fact that i'm lowly stupid and insignificant 」 ic #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ the philosophical musings of a no one 」 thoughts #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ report card 」 headcanons #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ shadow of the flowers in the ripples of the water 」 images #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ how many seconds in eternity? 」 threads #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ enigmatic box of sound 」 audio #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ you are definitely someone who embodies hope 」 boost #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ do your best miss protagonist 」 self boost #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ a frightening liminal space between states of being 」 comm #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ i don’t mind if you just want to see me naked 」 crack #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- γ€Œ your gracious invitation make me want to cry 」 memes #β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ’š Λšο½‘β‹†ο½‘Λš πŸ€ Λšο½‘β‹† -- Β misc
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