The fear of being vunerable…
Is something i have struggled with for a very long time. And lately I have been confronted a lot with this problem.
I have noticed, whenever I get a crush, after a while my feelings completely disappear! And I have finally understood that it’s my way of protecting myself from being vunerable and bare, and potentially getting hurt.
But it’s enough now! My fear is not doing me any good. The answer to withstand the challenges in life and the pain people will cause you, is to find strength and value in yourself
So next time I have let someone see my vulnerable side, and hurt me. I will not turn the pain in against myself, for I know that I am worthy of love, respect and that I have nothing to be ashamed of!