Reason for inactivity

So, there's several different reasons why I haven't even logged into Tumblr for a couple weeks, but I feel I should talk about the main ones.

Mental health, school, and I'm just not that into Undertale anymore.

I have mental health problems, which is something I've mentioned a couple of times before. Sometimes I'm happy as can be, and sometimes I can't function properly.

Of course, school as well. I have an early-graduation plan so I'm doing twice the amount of work as everyone else in my classes to get ahead.

And the biggest reason is, well.. I'm just not that into Undertale anymore. I'm not sure what happened, but slowly, over the past couple of months, I've not wanted to draw anything Undertale related. I still like the game and the friends I've met from the fandom, but I just can't bring myself to draw anything I'm not in the mood for. I still occassionally doodle Undertale-related things, but not often enough to post here.

I'm super sorry to anyone who was hoping for Illusiontale or any other projects from me. I really tried to get back into the swing of things, I really did.

I'll be making a new Tumblr account dedicated to... nothing in particular. Just anything I draw.

I'm so sorry

"A lot of people are confused about what empathy actually is. Empathy can easily be confused for codependency conditioning where we betray or neglect ourselves (usually in an attempt to gain something from someone else) like: feeling needed, being loved/chosen, getting approval or external validation. These patterns are common when we were raised in homes with parents who didn’t know how to have empathy for us or our emotions. This looks like: “oh you’re fine.” “It’s not a big deal” “just get over it.” “That probably didn’t happen (note: if your parent made these statements they were struggling with their own emotional state + coped by dismissing your own.) This can make us hypervigilant to everyone else’s emotional state. We take on other people’s emotions + tend to try to fix or rescue. This is how we learned to survive as children. True empathy has clear boundaries. True empathy is the ability to take on another persons perspective, to understand it, to sit with the uncomfortable emotions that brings up, to allow a person to express + exist even if you don’t agree with or understand that expression. With true empathy, we don’t lose self. We hold space for self AND another. True empathy has limits. Stays in touch with intuition, + leaves us feeling *more connected* to those around us, not resentful or as if we’ve been taken advantage of. True empathy does not require self betrayal"

Dr Nicole LePera

Community

Psychologist 🔮 I teach you to heal + consciously create a new version of yourself 🎧 Podcast: @selfhealers.soundboard 👇🏻@SelfHealers.circle

👇🏻linktr.ee/the.holistic.psychologist

#selfhealers

debsieann: She's just the cutest 😩

New Design 12inch FHD /Ultra HD Streaming DVR Dash Camera Recorder

2K+1080P

2K+1080P+WIFI

2K+1080P+WIFI+GPS

4K+1080P+WIFI

4K+1080P+WIFI+GPS

Different configurations

WhatsApp/WeChat+86 18332107626

#Autobright #AutobrightTech #ChengJin #ChengJinTech #CarAccessories #AutoAccessories #OtoAccessories #vehicleaccessories #carcameras #carcamerarecorder #carcamera2021 #carcamera #carcameraeuropean #carcamerajapan #carcameramalaysia #cardvrsafety #cardvrrecorder #cardvrindonesia #cardvrmirror #cardvrblackbox #cardvrcamcorder #cardvrmalaysia #cardvrcamera #cardvrvideorecorder #cardvr #dashcamera #dashcameraindonesia #dashcamera2021 #dashcameras

onyourm__ark just uploaded a photo:

are you happy to be in paris?

OUI.

❤️ 2,449,086 likes and 💬 76.3k comments.

Avenida Paulista by @drone.fe 🚩 #saopaulocity #EuVivoSP #paulista — view on Instagram https://ift.tt/2Xw9ACB

Headshots By Scott — view on Instagram https://ift.tt/3EqVAur

for more

Fuck.