Kim Jisoo ✦ Being a sub
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𝑾𝑨𝑹𝑵𝑰𝑵𝑮: nsfw ✦ mentions of multiple kinks ✦ bdsm dynamics
𝑺𝑶𝑵𝑮 𝑷𝑳𝑨𝒀𝑰𝑵𝑮: Ice Cream ✦ BLACKPINK & Selena Gomez
𝐍𝐎𝐓𝐄: i’ve never written headcanons b4, but i rly enjoyed it — not just bc jisoo is my bp bias — bc it went much faster than writing a ff or reaction/scenario abt multiple idols! thus, hc requests will b posted much quicker than other rq so feel free to rq hc
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random but ice cream was my most played song on spotify 2020 lol + bp was my most played artist(s) on spotify 2020!
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✦ Would want to appear as dom in public, because, before you, she was always the top/dom and is used to being the leader, both in past relationships and in general when she’s with friends (non-sexually)
✦ She’s used to always being the one to take care of others (she refuses to show herself in her weakest moments because she doesn’t want to bring anyone down with her problems), and therefore she’d prefer if her girlfriend took care of her by allowing her to be vulnerable only to put plasters on her wounds
✦ Anyway, onto the more NSFW parts, she’d call you Mommy — although she’s a sub, she wouldn’t mind if you called her that either (only in a non-sexual manner, though). It’s not a label or title; it’s just a name of affection and love
✦ At the start of the relationship that title/ pet name would only be used for innocent purposes, but later on it’d become a kink in bed
✦ Her title/ pet name would be Baby as she loves taking care of you and being taken care of, so this pet name is both fitting and cute to her
✦ She’d also really enjoy being called Princess, but the little name would make her feel spoiled and like she doesn’t deserve it, so she just ends up blushing and whining to you about making her shy every time you call her that — however, after being together for a while, you can call her that without her freaking out on the outside (her heart would do somersaults every time on the inside, though)
✦ She tends to be more of a giver than a taker because when she loves her partner, she puts her all in her and wants her to feel like she’s everything to her
✦ At first, it’d be hard for Jisoo to not give and give all the time, but after you introduced BDSM dynamics to the relationship, as well as showed her that she deserves to get back what she gives (either by words or actions), she’d eventually become comfortable with being on the receiving end
✦ You two have to lock Dalgom (Jisoo’s dog) outside the room whenever you want to fuck and sometimes, he starts wailing so you end up feeling bad about it…to the point you might actually end up hiring a dog sitter
✦ Passionate sex would be her favorite because she’s busy and doesn’t get to fuck too often, so when she does, she wants it to mean something. If she doesn’t feel loved and make you feel loved, it’s failed sex. In this case, passionate sex would mean BDSM and the level of it would depend on how long you’ve been together
✦ In the begging of the relationship you’d go for edging, cunnilingus, light hairpulling and maybe a degrading praise, like “naughty baby”, every now and then
✦ But as the relationship progresses, you both grow more comfortable in trying new things you’ve been interested in before, like 69, different types of restriction, finger sucking, light choking, blindfolding, thigh riding, wearing lingerie (both of you), using various vibrators and strap on’s
✦ I feel like the main reason she’d be into masochism is because it means she lets go of everything and allows someone else to have all control — which rarely happens in her everyday life. Having someone do whatever they wanted to her (with her consent) would relieve all her stress. The lone concept of not having to do all the thinking and not having the pressure of making the right decisions would be so sexy to her
✦ I especially see her being into handcuffing — not heavy bondage, though because that’s kind of scary — not only because she loves having enough trust in her partner to let her restrict her, but also because it’d make her feel valuable since only valuable things are locked (like money or diamonds are locked in safes because they’re valuable and nobody wants them to be taken away). Also, the view of herself handcuffed, even when she’s fully clothed, makes her feel attractive
✦ Spanking would also be one of her main kinks, because laying across your lap, arching her back, and putting her butt out makes her feel so fucking sexy and desirable. However, this would only occur on special occasions, like when there’s a holiday or when she’s bought a new pair of lingerie
✦ To add on that, neither handcuffing nor spanking have to be a punishment, it could just happen because she requested it out of her love for it; pain isn’t always a punishment
✦ I don’t think she’d be the type to misbehave unless she was bored and just wanted attention, but then it’d mostly be something mild like kissing your neck during a movie or whispering something flirty in your ear randomly
✦ There’s no way I’m going to upload this without talking about cunnilingus. Giving head, receiving head — she loves it all and has no preference. She loves giving it, because she likes making her girlfriend feel good (feeling your taste is of course a much appreciated bonus). Her head game is GOOD, but you should praise her because that gives her confidence to do even better
✦ When she’s receiving head, she’s quite vocal. The intimacy of her girlfriend focusing on her, and her only, along with seeing you enjoy doing it for her would just send her over the edge, wrapping her thighs around your head, wanting to come again when she sees her sweet cum on your lips. She’d always be extra affectionate afterwards, wanting to eat you out back, or just say how much she appreciates you and kiss your whole face to emphasize it
✦ Loves lingerie, whether it’s you or her wearing it. She’d be happy to see you in it, not only because you’re so fucking sexy in it, but also the thought of you wanting to wear something special for her would make her feel special
✦ One time when she was shopping with one of her members, most likely Jennie, she passed by a lingerie section, only to be stopped by her saying “If I had a girlfriend, I would buy something like this and surprise her.” After the recommendation, she’d end up purchasing five pairs of lingerie and wear one of them when you got home that night
✦ She’d wear it every now and then, surprising you every time. Wearing lace or fancy fabrics would make her feel so pretty and seeing your amazing reactions and hearing your beautiful words every time would, of course, only heighten that feeling
✦ When it comes to teasing, I think she would enjoy being teased but not too much; she wouldn’t be patient enough to wait, she’d just want you to fuck her honestly. She’d like it if you nibbled her inner thighs or gave a kiss to her clit before giving her head, for example
✦ But she wouldn’t like it if you teased her with your fingers inside her before you fuck her with your strap, but she would just endure it and bite her lip, waiting for you to continue
✦ On the other end, I don’t think she’d tease you often, only when she was in certain moods like if she was feeling a little naughty or if she just wanted your attention, but only small
✦ Hickeys are cute in hidden places like her or your boobs, but she doesn’t appreciate them anywhere else on her body because her stylists have to cover them up and she doesn’t want to face the embarrassment and possible scolding. If you want to, she’ll mark you wherever you’d like (marking you as hers would be her secret guilty pleasure)
✦ Also, I think she’s both a boob person, and low key also a butt person. Like, she’d love to kiss you boobs and vice versa. She’d like to play jokingly with your butt, nothing sexual though (unless you’re not wearing pants/shorts of course)
✦ I don’t think she’d ever like to do anything in public, the most ‘public’ place for having sex being the bathroom or living room — or kitchen if you’re feeling bold. Sex is just very intimate and should be private and also, if she ever got caught, it would be very damaging to her and Blackpink’s career.
✦ But let’s go back to the bathroom, living room and kitchen, I think she’d be OK with doing it in a bathtub or shower and on the couch since they’re comfortable spaces, but the kitchen counter could be used for fucking if she’s feeling extra sexy and fond of the idea of spreading herself on the kitchen counter OR if you asked her to sit on it so you could eat her out, because she always gets flustered when you want to do something like that for her
✦ Although she mostly is a bottom, she also enjoys domming and taking care of you too just because she’s used to caring for others. You guys don’t have permanent roles, everything depends on the situation and who feels like being in control and who doesn’t — but you both prefer it when you top so she only doms once or twice a year lol
✦ She loves aftercare almost as much as the actual sex; it’s during aftercare that you show how much you truly love her. Although you spank her or degrade her lightly, she knows you don’t mean harm in it, but hearing your praises and feeling your touch as you call her Baby/Princess would fill her stomach with butterflies. She especially enjoys aftercare like filling the bathtub or reading a book together or just cuddling naked (in a non-sexual way) and just talking about anything on your minds
“Can I cum?” she panted, hands cuffed above her head as you held her legs apart, sucking her clit gently.
“Say please,” you mumbled against her, sending vibrations, making her moan.
“Please,” she arched her back, trying not to cum without your permission, “Please, Mommy.”
“Everything for my Princess.”
She rolled her eyes, finally cumming, “Oh lord— Thank you.”
You smiled up at her, placing one last kiss on her pussy before moving up and kissing her upper lips.
“You did so good, Baby,” you praised, making her smile at you, for a moment forgetting she’s still handcuffed.
“Thank you, Mommy,” she beamed and looked at you as you uncuffed her and kissed her wrists.
“I love you so much.”
“I love you even more.”
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❝ You’re the cherry piece, so stay on top of me, so I can’t see nobody else for me, no ❞
—kim jisoo; 2020