Incomprehensive list of valid lesbians
Lesbians who are solely attracted to other women.
Lesbians who are dating a bisexual woman.
Lesbians who are attracted to women among other genders, but don’t identify as polysexual.
Lesbians who also identify as bisexual (or similar), but who revolve their lives around femininity.
Lesbians (specifically femmes) who are solely attracted to butches.
Lesbians (specifically butches) who are solely attracted to femmes.
(y'all aren’t “imitating straight relationships”)
Lesbians whose gender is lesbian rather than woman.
Lesbians who don’t care about the gender of their partner, and are just attracted to people with vaginas.
Lesbians who don’t care about their partner’s genitals.
Asexual lesbians
Aromantic lesbians.
Transgender lesbians.
Lesbians who are trans men, and don’t identify with other women, but still feel a connection with the word.
Lesbians who thought they were trans and have retransitioned/detransitioned.
Lesbians who prefer he/him or they/them or neopronouns.
Nonbinary lesbians, regardless of their agab.
Intersex lesbians.
Lesbians who have faced compulsory heterosexuality.
Lesbians trying to escape abusive relationships (regardless of their abuser’s gender).
Single lesbians.
Non-monogamous lesbians.
Black lesbians.
Indigenous lesbians.
Lesbians of colour.
Disabled lesbians.
Lesbians who are “too young to know”.
Lesbians who took a while to figure themselves out.
Lesbians who figured themselves out instantly.
Lesbians who are still figuring themselves out.
Lesbians who thought they had figured themselves out, but then realised they had more to learn about themselves.
Lesbians who will never figure themselves out.
Lesbians who are okay with that
Lesbians who aren’t.
Lesbians who have been with men in the past.
Religious lesbians.
Skinny lesbians.
Fat lesbians.
Lesbians who have fallen in love with someone who now identifies as a man.
Bisexuals who are only lesbians when dating women.
Closeted lesbians.
Lesbians who still harbour internalised lesbophobia (/any other patriarchal hatred) and are working to better themselves.
Lesbians that are different to you.
Lesbians whose lesbianness means something different to what your lesbianness means to you.
People who identify as lesbians.
Comprehensive list of invalid lesbians
People who do not identify themselves as lesbians.
