For those who need a reminder
For those who need a reminder
here’s a thought: maybe its fucking stupid to exclude aro/ace people from the LGBT umbrella because they still feel ostracization and otherness for their sexual orientation and they can receive much needed comfort and community in queer spaces.
The LGBT community is a collective group of separate subcultures. Does a het trans man have a lot in common with a cis gay man, yknow, struggle wise? No, but it doesn’t matter. They’re both included in the LGBT community because their gender and/or sexual orientation other them from heteronormativity.
An ace/aro person is othered by their sexual or romantic identity, and they need community and support. It’s shitty to deny that to them. Full stop.
Hannibal Lecter from Hannibal is mlm!
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Will Graham from Hannibal is mlm!
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If I see one more person saying that lesbians can enjoy kissing and having sex with men and still be lesbians I’m gonna fucking start screaming and I won’t stop until the last bit of oxygen has left my body and I die
I just gotta rant real quick.
(btw english isn’t my first language, so if I worded something incorrectly it’s not because I wanna be hateful to anyone, I’m probably just to stupid to express myself. If I said anything wrong, just tell me)
There are a ton of people these days that make up a false gender/sexual identities to justify their (often misinformed and likely false) opinion on lgbtq+ issues. I see this often happens with people who falsely claim to be bisexual or nonbinary but have no interest in actually dating a person of the same sex/gender and think being nonbinary is just not feeling as girly/boyish as they believe they should be feeling instead of the body dysmorphia (which is one of the main traits of being trans/nonbinary, but of course there’s far more to it) that comes with it. Like I see so many people saying they’re bi/nb just to not be straight, kinda like some white people try so hard to be as not white as possible just for validation. And I honestly wouldn’t even care about it if it were just for straight/cis people inserting themselves in lgbtq+ spaces, because I could live with that, but some if these people really think it gives them the right to say and do some harmful shit and I’m not gonna take it. Here are some examples I have recently seen:
- a “bisexual” girl saying it’s valid for girls to be scared of being in the same changing room as lesbians/bisexuals, because “we sapphics just can’t help staring at other girls”
- a “bisexual” guy saying he’d be down for a threesome with a guy and a girl but wouldn’t wanna do anything with just another guy because “that’s gay” and he’s bisexual, not gay
- a “nonbinary” “lesbian” saying that they’d never wanna have anything with a trans woman because sex=gender to them
(I’m not trying to invalidate anyone’s identity btw)
I just see so many people exhibiting behaviour that is harmful to the lgbtq+ community, especially people who are misrepresenting nonbinary identities, who then go on to say “no I’m bi/nb so I can’t be homophobic/transphobic” like wtf? You can’t just use someone else’s identity to push your agenda, that is so wrong and harmful and I see it so much please guys, stop, just stop. Being lgbtq+ isn’t “aesthetic” or “progressive”, it is an identity, not something you can just add when it fits your argument.
i fall in love with the person, not their genitals.
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Difícil seria explicar,
as sensações que eles
causam em mim.
Have a wonderful day, afternoon, morning, or night; kick ass, be awesome, and remember that you are important, you are valid, and you deserve to be happy.
Pass it on, please and thank you.
feels good to draw A of lgbtqiia+
hi! ★ i created a alternative flag for achillean!
ACHILLEAN – non-women (men, men-aligned nonbinary people, and unaligned nonbinary people) attracted to other non-women, namely men, use the term “achillean” as a way to identify themselves in terms of their attraction. essentially, it’s a word that encapsulates the experiences of mlm and nblm. it provides us with a term that all m/nblm can identity under and in turn facilitates solidarity between gay and bi+ men/nonbinary people
i hope you like it!
Bana şarkı söyle, benim huzurum senin sesinde…
reddit appear to have coined a new term for lgbt+, gsrm (gender, sexuality, and romantic minority) and im actually really vibing with it, opinions?
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So many new pieces! Some experimental pieces too!
I’m super happy with the pieces so far. Can’t wait to finish the rest and show you all!
October 23rd, 2020 is when they launch
If I get told that I’m going to hell for being part of the LGBTQA+ community, I’m just gonna tell them that they’re going to hell too. Because there is a very good chance that they are: Supporting Trump (which is supporting a sinner, which is a sin), judging people (Only God can judge so they = sinner) and/or is a closeted Gay (in their words they’re going to hell sooo). And if they try to fight back, I’ll just tell them I was treating them like they were treating me, which means I am following Jesus’s teachings of treat others like you would want to be treated. So yeah ✌🏻
Lmfao got bullied today.
I can’t fathom the level of disrespect needed to gather your friends to gang up on one person to humiliate and degrade them for being openly Pansexual by saying: “I don’t mean to be rude, but who made that up? Like, LGBTQ+ Sexualities and Identities are basically Memes” then proceed to horribly bash Trans people by saying: “Imagine being so unhappy with yourself that you go get surgery” like, Dysphoria? In the world? It’s more common than you think?? Unhappy people? In the same Galaxy as you? You’d be shocked to know the probability of that??
People who don’t even remotely Identify as Transgender undergo various operations to improve the state of their figures they deem unfavorable to match the personal outlook they find ideal and finally achieve contentment. Ever heard of facelifts? Injections?
They then went on to attack the Mentally ill. Legitimately classifying every case of Depression as: “Not getting enough attention from one’s parents.” First of all, neglect from a Parental guardian, biologically or otherwise, is a perfectly understandable root of Depression. Secondly, some people grew up with loving parents, yet still suffer from Depression for OTHER VALID REASONS. That’s pretty much like saying: “Oh? You’re sad because you lost your legs in a near-fatal accident and can never walk again? Damn, is it because your parents didn’t give you enough attention as a kid?” THE LOGIC.
Wait wait, here’s the God Damn kicker! They said: “Yeah. Its probably from a lack of attention, but, it’s not healthy to seek validation online.” WHICH– WHICH IS PARTIALLY TRUE, DON’T GET ME WRONG, BUT HOW CAN YOU GO FROM: “lol. Imagine not being able to smile, who even experiences negative emotions?” To: “Its Scientifically proven by numerous studies that striving for online approval isn’t, in fact, the most beneficial method of an attempt at healing due to psychologically damaging, long-term side effects.”!?!?!?! How can you be THAT intelligent, but THAT FUCKING IGNORANT?! TO EVEN UNDERSTAND THE RAMIFICATIONS ATTACHED TO THE CONCEPT OF SOLELY MAKING ONLINE OUTCRIES AS AN OUTLET WITHOUT SEEKING PROFESSIONAL HELP, YOU’D, INITIALLY, HAVE TO KNOW THAT THE CAUSES OF THAT EVEN OCCURRING IS BECAUSE OF A MULTITUDE OF CHRONIC ANXIETIES, STRESSES, FEELINGS OF HOPELESSNESS, AND FEAR OF JUDGMENT— My mind is blown, that is the equivalent of: “Hunger isn’t a thing because MY belly is full, but before you interrupt let me direct you to the statistics in regards to starving families across the globe because this is becoming a real problem that requires immediate action in order to be handled appropriately, you moron.”
don’t call us fucking attention seekers who seek validation as if you’ve got a degree on the subject AFTER excitedly dragging Trans, Pansexual, and Mentally ill Individuals across your front lawn in some sick power-move at superiority.
Christ. I want to kill myself and I have for a while. I don’t fucking belong here.