Happy bi visibility day!! Have this Tik Tok I made a couple months ago when this audio was a trend and I was in my feels about being pissed about bi erasure of these characters. Korra and Asami too but I forgot about them when I made this
I’m still torn between keeping this blog the way it is for the illusion and changing the icon to a version of the Netscape logo I made with a pride flag instead of the dark teal and decking this shit out with my own design and aesthetic.
happy bi day of visibility to everyone, this is the only day of the year you can see me 💖💜💙
I’m not sure listing fantasy series as an alternative for HP is gonna work at all. A lot of fans most likely have outgrown the genre already but they stayed because the biggest part of the whole thing is the nostalgia and the enormous comminity constantly creating and expanding the universe on their own. While I’m sure all these series are wonderful and probably better written they just don’t have the leverage.
We’re talking 20+ years here, you can’t just transport an entire fandom this size and expect them to stick together.
I wish they would make a gay chick flick…
ya no like, new girl starts school or college or some cliche shit like that, likes the popular chick but she’s dating a disgusting jock. they end up discovering each, bumping into each other, lots of cheese…and then ends up falling for each other. some disgusting jealous person intervenes but they still end up together….yo guys know what i’m saying.
i want a lesbian cinderella story, or lesbian high school musical…without the music…or lesbian mean girls….just something lesbian mmk
I feel like I’m doing half the work for myself and actively avoiding the harder parts that come with this journey. I put my preferred name in my bio on social media but I don’t actively tell people it or make a huge big announcement, asking for folks to respect me and my name. It’s resulted in people being very unsure of how to address me by because they don’t know if everyone is on the same page or even just generally aware of me and my identity/name.
But having that whole big announcement is the scariest thing. From hardcore religious people putting on that endless bantering about lgbtq+ folks to women like JK Rowling who glorify and encourage outward transphobia.
That part of me that’s still inside the closet is still comfortable there. Or maybe I’m hiding.
General self image was already a problem I faced throughout my life growing up so a famous and wealthy white women and even a large population on earth disliking and even hating you for merely existing is more than just salt on a wound.
Living my life and my truth is something I’m actively working on and I’m truly grateful to finally have the means to help deal with these things through a professional. Friends, family and even a partner you trust are definitely people that have helped me figure out myself and been there when things became difficult but there’s always that explicit bias. They’re always going to want the best and care for you but talking with a therapist gives you a different and unbiased opinion on what I’m going through. Going has helped me hold myself accountable but also is slowly making me proud of the progress I’m continuing to achieve.
Maybe I am out but not really but I think that’s part of the process.
