Hello this is me! Y'all can call me Har! Not my real name but as a nickname to yalls. I am a non binary Lesbian. I’m quite okay with whatever pronouns you use for me…so. uh yea. Heheh.
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if this isn’t me, idk what is. but here’s another meme i made lolololol. but anyways. hello fellow trans men, trans women, enbies. your experiences with dysphoria and constantly in a loop is valid. your experience is valid. your identity is valid. you are valid. remember that.
0my afab ass just learnt that cishet men (at least those with fragile masculinities lol) do not wear tights under their jeans. now I have a question : how the fuck do you survive the winter without tights under your jeans?!?
(also I learnt that because a friend of mine just told me he put on TWO PAIRS OF JEANS ONE ON TOP OF THE OTHER. two. pairs. of. fucking. jeans. (should I laugh or cry?))
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hey fellow trans girls/women, you’re so fuckin valid. i hope you are all having a good day/night/evening/morning. you all deserve the world. fuck those who put you down. you are all so beautiful or handsome!!
0i gotta be honest - the reason i am so intense about people respecting george and dream’s boundaries, and not pushing them and not constantly trying to push a gay agenda on them - is because i’ve been in fandoms before where it was done to people and i have seen the bestest, strongest friends become genuine strangers, some even enemies.
because they start to overthinking everything they do, they start to think ‘oh i can’t say that because people will think the wrong thing’, and that becomes exhausting and that drives people apart.
i am so happy that dream is so outspoken and so comfortable and i know he won’t allow that to happen to him and george, but it just frustrates me to hell and back that this is even a thing.
18about.
- devin. my nicknames are kiwi and rez. you may call me either three.
- i’m 19 years old.
- he/him && trans.
- afro latino.
- scorpio sun, libra moon, aries rising.
- gay.
- fine with discourse, just don’t be a fuckin dick alr? don’t hve time to argue lmfao.
- will mostly be a trans masc/mlm blog. ill try to post things for my fellow enbies, lesbians && bis when i can.
- trans && enby inclusive. all transphobic people get the fuck off my page.
things i like.
- frogs && racoons.
- various subcultures && aes. i myself just recently got into goth subcultures. i like: (mall goth, gothic lolita, kawaii goth/bubble goth, lil devil *a term i made up to describe the whole red && black combo, reminds me of a devil*, trad goth, vaporwave, kinderwhore, some more.
- certain animes. give me recs, i wanna get back into em.
- anything horror; films, novels, documentaries.
- witchcraft at times.
- catboys, puppyboys, bunnyboys, frogboys.
- writing.
- some music (bikini kill, 100 gecs, the cure, joy division, ICP, mother mother). give me recs please.
- i like creepy shit. i like lore. the supernatural. cryptic stuff. send me cryptic stuff and ill love you forever.
that’s all for now
- i’d like some friends. please be 14/15+ since i’m 19. don’t wanna talk to little kids and look like a creep lol.
- be preferably lgbt. trans especially.
- be okay that im asexual.
- that’s about it. i guess like this post and ill message you and we can be friends. :)
0lesbian culture is crying to a very confused cat you’ve manhandled into a baby hold about how you miss your girlfriend but can’t do anything about it because she lives a country away and is flighty with when she comes online and goes offline.
0there is a lot to unpack here regarding dream’s tweets so here’s my bit -
dream never should have had to address that. i’m so glad and happy that he did, but he never should have had to, because their sexualities are nONE OF OUR BUSINESS. they never were and never will be - because guess what? they don’t owe us ANYTHING.
two boys saying they love each other is just two boys saying they love each other. they have said time and time again that they are straight, and they are not dating. that’s it, that’s all you need to know. people who try to dig deeper and who keep forcing their ideas and beliefs upon said two boys - are people who need a reality check and quite frankly, they should take a break from fanfiction.
dream is a real person. george is a real person. fanfiction is fiction. learn to dissociate what you see on their streams in comparison to what you read on ao3.
there is some crazy toxicity in the lgbtq+ community. yes you have the right to an opinion, but you don’t have a right to accuse someone time and time again of something they have denied doing, just because you know deep in your head that you just want yourself to be right. yes dream has said bad things and he’s gone too far and he’s made things uncomfortable, but he’s addressed those things, he’s apologised - he takes things and he learns from them and he grows. he isn’t fucking perfect and it’s disgusting that anyone expects him to be.
he’s literally telling his fans that he doesn’t mind that the fandom loves his relationship with george - you have no idea how RARE THAT IS FOR SOMEONE - FOR A MALE - TO SAY THAT. he’s more than happy for the fans to continue shipping them and creating their fan art and fanfics and he’s so accepting of it all. please for the love of god don’t make him regret that, don’t make it awkward and uncomfortable for him, don’t try to make it seem like he’s not doing good enough when he’s been so clear and open with us all.
let them love each other and let them be close, let them do whatever the hell they want without demanding for answers and explanations. they don’t owe you anything and they never will owe you anything no matter how much money you donate or how much merch you buy or how many hours you put in to their streams - because all of that is your choice to make. what you feel like you’re giving them so much and they’re giving nothing back? grow up and re-think your life choices.
people online don’t owe you nothing. and they especially don’t owe you respect when you don’t give them the same energy.
8A real genuine text I received from my lovely girlfriend at 4:50 am:
🚽 can be our ✨ always ✨
0(via https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2BTy8VlyrzKJPNWEfSu067?si=EOjS84zFQ6_h15vZCMseOQ)
“a playlist for that girl that you dated, but not really dated, but you were friends with for a long time and then you admitted your feelings to her and she liked you back and told you that she wanted a relationship, and things were going well, till she dumped you 1 week later“0Sex before marriage being accepted as normal is a prime example of how influential media can be on society. It has taken something that was frowned upon in times past and made it the new norm despite all the negative consequences still remaining. Directors and celebrities influence masses through their work, and unfortunately, are the people that shape most of society.
Given celebrities position of influence, they should be held accountable for what they produce, however to do this, many would consider it a violation of freedom of speech and creativity.
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