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1. Past. Ace of Pentacles - An opportunity has opened up for you to come together with someone… well, in this deck, the Ace of Pentacles represents coming into sexual union with someone, but in a very safe and gratifying way. It has probably been a while since you’ve slept with someone. Giving yourself to the right person, waiting on that person -that patience- has granted you someone who can provide you with the right type of intimacy (not just sexual intercourse, and actual, fulfilling relationship). You’re not just coming together for a sexual experience. You have come together in sexual union, because you waited, you are happily together, and it was time. Remember. This is something that has happened - if it has not yet been experience, it is because you are getting there, and waiting to get to know the right person that will come together with you in a union first. I can’t stress the word union any more than it has some serious significance in this relationship. You need to feel connected to the person you are giving your body to. And that person likewise feels safe enough to share that kind of bond with you (it’s a mutual adoration, sense of self-respect, and kindness that is fulfilling for the both of you).
2. Present. Eight of Cups - don’t judge someone based on their first impression, get to know your suitors (good or bad first impressions). This card represents someone who has a reserved nature about them. Underneath a cold exterior generally lies a person very sincere and willing to explore an honest relationship with you. That said, this person is probably shy. And they’re not used to opening up to people (at first). Build trust, and see where that takes you moving forward.
3. Future. - Protect yourself, and be clear about what you want in a commitment. It will align you with a person of similar value. Don’t be afraid to ask the universe to help guide you. It is omnipresent. It will not leave you.
You will come together into a great union. Be clear about what you want moving forward - it will be granted in the shape and for of a very rewarding relationship.
Additional:
The Emperor - usually representative of the fire sign Aries, but doesn’t have to be. The character represented here is an individual who knows his limits.
In a relationship he can put aside his desires for the sake of your own, understanding that it takes great resolve to obtain what they want, to have their desire and their needs met (likewise, this is representative of you, by the way, because you’re reading this, aren’t you?).
This person also wishes to be in charge of your desires, and they are willing to restrain their desires to achieve this. They know life is give and take. They are entrusting you to fulfill the other half of the effort (just so this makes sense).
It’s not that The Emperor doesn’t expect anything back. They know the right person will give back. They don’t lost a thing by trusting the right or wrong person - they are in charge of what they receive. In other words: they know what they’re getting into when they approach you. lol
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You walked away from things that you made you unhappy. Now you can just enjoy the things that are going to bring you fun, and are celebratory (of you, of your life, and probably your finances; your endeavors lol; you will accomplish great things, and you will have time to celebrate those great things).
Don’t drink and drive. Party hearty. 💗
PS. Someone walked out on you and left you alone. Jokes on them - they got the shit end of the bargain… lol. You’re happy, and you’re free~ lets keep it that way. :)
Additional:
Someone may approach you who is willing to provide you some enjoyment. They are in a very good position in their life currently and are proactively wishing to make amends with you (ugh, lol, if this is someone you know, anyway - had to be said - I felt the energy, but it doesn’t mean that who is coming towards you isn’t someone new/different - it just means that they wanna help you heal, and heal the situation that you went through - this is also doesn’t mean that they know what you went through… it just means that life/universe/god… what-have-you… is bringing this person into your energy to help uplift you).
If it’s not a person you already know, and this is your energy - you’ll be recognized for your initiative. Good things are coming to you, so don’t worry. 💗 Maintain that fiery, spirited nature. The pace in your life will change (for the better) - like, this is a good thing (in case you’re like me, and you didn’t know lol).
That said:
Be wise. What didn’t work out for you before probably doesn’t deserve a second chance, especially if it’s coming towards you with the SAME, STUPID OFFER (lol). Like, this is a pattern that does not change. It will not help you. It will give you the exact. same. outcome. That’s what I mean - don’t do it. Do something that you know will succeed. Without a shadow of a doubt.
Just because something feels right, doesn’t mean it will do right. Wait for it to do right. If it works - jump on it.
Someone who wants to be within the vicinity of YOU needs to prove that they are worthy of your time. Someone who makes excuses for what they can and cannot do will always provide you with less moving into the future, because that’s the standard they set for themselves in their lives - if it doesn’t work for you - they can beat it - nothing’s gonna stop you, they cannot get in your way of the life you wish to achieve; they’re already on their own bargaining issues, it’s their mess, it’s not yours to clean - you have a life you need to live - this person and their set of rules and conditions, and bullshit, if I may say so - isn’t going to be living your life for you; you are. :) It’s yours to care for; it’s yours to manage (and personally, I’d be grateful, imagine living under someone’s nonexistent self care routine - when you actually have your own - I’m sorry, but why would you downgrade? Am I right? Or am I wrong?).
In love:
If you are looking to break down the barriers of someone’s walls… I’m going to say be careful. You may accomplish what you set out to do, but understand that moving forward, that continued initiation has to come from you. Because they are the ones that are unwilling (this has a plethora of connotations, but please… this means someone who has reservations has a good reason - be attentive to that, and consider: are you being avoidant? are you being aggressive? are you being… distant? if your answer is yes, it’s not wonder this person doesn’t want to engage with you lol
AND IF THEY ARE BEING LIKE THAT WITH YOU (like, to you) - REASSESS - DO YOU DESERVE THAT? NO, PROBABLY NOT. YOU DESERVE SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO ENGAGE WITH YOU AND MAKE YOU HAPPY LIKE YOU WANT THEM TO).
And it’s not to say that you won’t succeed - but if you want somebody, then gauge their reactions and the situations, and place your best when you’re ready. Otherwise, the end result is disastrous. You can’t just “jump in” with half your feet in (you’ll freaking fall on your face that way, and right away, too).
And it goes without saying: respect this person’s boundaries.
The King of Wands is in charge of what he wants. His relationships, his time, his passions, his life… You have to maintain a strategy that allows you to be that in your every day waking life. It is what feeds you as a fire sign. Be in charge.
NOT of someone’s life. OF YOUR OWN.
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Main energy:
The Star - though the star traditionally represents a period of healing (generally, spiritually, or after some really intense heartbreak) - in a love tarot reading, this card represents an invitation to love again.
Yes, that can mean with an old partner, AND that can also mean with a new one. It may also just mean that it’s an invitation for YOU learn to love again. Open yourself up to the possibilities… because you are currently dreaming.
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The Eight of Cups - There may be someone that you aren’t very inclined to get to know lol it’s not because they aren’t attractive, or anything like that… it has to do with their characteristics (and maybe their words of choice LOL)…You might be put off by the fact that they hold so much information back from you… or that they choose to act in a way that is very “standoffish…” which just means they prefer to act cool… LOL – or better yet: they seem distant and cold. The key word is that they SEEM distant and cold. I’m not condoning that you let someone act like a prick. And be okay with that. No. Don’t tolerate an asshole… Never.
This card advises that you try and see past that (it’s an aloof, or cold exterior), and continue getting to know the person that you are involved with, despite these reservations (these can be compromises - like things you have to learn to compromise with, etc., or as simple as this person considers saving certain conversations for a more appropriate time in their life?).
They may just have a personality that you’re barely getting to know. One that you’re probably not used to… People say first impressions are everything - but let me tell you - NO. No, they are not… 😂 Sometimes a person’s true colors don’t come out until you’ve seen them for a while… True story.
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The Emperor - YEAH. As if I couldn’t get a better card to follow up the Eight of Cups LOL. This just means self control, and restraint… things like that. Not in a kinky way… but maybe. 😂 No, I’m kidding. This is about understanding that you have desires that you want met (probably in a commitment), but must understand that patience is everything, and it’s required here in this situation. You have to be able to deny yourself the pleasures that you are momentarily seeking, and train yourself to receive that reward when you have truthfully earned it. Yeah, idk why this vibe is so sexual lol, maybe it’s just me. 😂You cannot let your desires control you, by the way. You’d be doing yourself a disservice and probably looking a bit like a cry baby. Be mature. :) You are mature. You know what you want in a relationship - keep that goal clear in your mind.
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The Hierophant - Following that Emperor, we have an even MORE traditional card hahaha… but in this deck, it refers to having support. Spiritual support.
If you asked God (or even your spirit guides, or the universe - whatever you like to call it) to bring you the right partner, then you must understand that it will come with time. :) This doesn’t mean you are going to be alone forever… No, but it also doesn’t mean should just jump into the next relationship, with the next person that comes your way.
It also means that you can’t just involve yourself with any partner, either. You can’t just trust any person to have your best interests at heart, right?
Same thing with love… Take your time to learn a person’s ideals, their personality, what they like… don’t just take a look at a picture and go “THIS IS IT.” Lol… Not that doting is wrong. :) Not that having a crush is wrong… You just have to be more discerning with your priorities at this time.
Also: you have to be open to receive what you asked for. If you’re preoccupied with someone that isn’t worth your time (for whatever reason) - you won’t be available to have an honest conversations with someone that wants more… Think about it. What kind of person did you ask for?
Does your interest fit the bill? Probably not entirely… Not yet, anyway. It takes time. And it takes a lot of effort to get to know yourself and what you want in a relationship. SO there you go. :)
Moral of the story:
Get to know your S.O. better…lol.
They got somethin’ ya want.
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The Eight of Cups - There may be someone that you aren’t very inclined to get to know lol it’s not because they aren’t attractive, or anything like that… it has to do with their characteristics (and maybe their words of choice LOL)…You might be put off by the fact that they hold so much information back from you… or that they choose to act in a way that is very “standoffish…” which just means they prefer to act cool… LOL – or better yet: they seem distant and cold. The key word is that they SEEM distant and cold. I’m not condoning that you let someone act like a prick. And be okay with that. No. Don’t tolerate an asshole… Never.
Aespa’s Karina prefers to be cared for and looked after in a relationship. She likes to be spoiled and have a lot of attention on her. She gets jealous a lot in a relationship and likes to make sure that she has what others don’t have. She is the type that will show off her relationship to her friends like tell them what her lover gave her or what trip they both went to.
She is cold in a sense that she won’t say sweet words or word of love to her lover. She prefers showing love through actions, including touch. She sees a relationship as something that will help her become more well-known and powerful in her career.
As Karina cares a lot about how others perceive her, she also cares a lot about how her lover will make her appear to others. Her lover has to be presentable to others. When they appear in public, she expects her lover to dress well and look good.
She moves on from relationships quickly once they end. She loses interest once her lover is unable to make her feel proud or happy. She is always on the lookout for someone better and will have many ambiguous relationships with others if her lover cannot fulfill her desires and needs. This does not mean that she will cheat on her lover, but the line between friendship and a romantic relationship is blurred at times. Depending on someone’s POV, she could be cheating. (i.e. someone could consider messaging another person in a flirty way to be cheating while others would not. Someone would see going out with another person to the movies as cheating. Others may not.)
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