1. Past. Ace of Pentacles - An opportunity has opened up for you to come together with someone… well, in this deck, the Ace of Pentacles represents coming into sexual union with someone, but in a very safe and gratifying way. It has probably been a while since you’ve slept with someone. Giving yourself to the right person, waiting on that person -that patience- has granted you someone who can provide you with the right type of intimacy (not just sexual intercourse, and actual, fulfilling relationship). You’re not just coming together for a sexual experience. You have come together in sexual union, because you waited, you are happily together, and it was time. Remember. This is something that has happened - if it has not yet been experience, it is because you are getting there, and waiting to get to know the right person that will come together with you in a union first. I can’t stress the word union any more than it has some serious significance in this relationship. You need to feel connected to the person you are giving your body to. And that person likewise feels safe enough to share that kind of bond with you (it’s a mutual adoration, sense of self-respect, and kindness that is fulfilling for the both of you).
2. Present. Eight of Cups - don’t judge someone based on their first impression, get to know your suitors (good or bad first impressions). This card represents someone who has a reserved nature about them. Underneath a cold exterior generally lies a person very sincere and willing to explore an honest relationship with you. That said, this person is probably shy. And they’re not used to opening up to people (at first). Build trust, and see where that takes you moving forward.
3. Future. - Protect yourself, and be clear about what you want in a commitment. It will align you with a person of similar value. Don’t be afraid to ask the universe to help guide you. It is omnipresent. It will not leave you.
You will come together into a great union. Be clear about what you want moving forward - it will be granted in the shape and for of a very rewarding relationship.
The Emperor - usually representative of the fire sign Aries, but doesn’t have to be. The character represented here is an individual who knows his limits.
In a relationship he can put aside his desires for the sake of your own, understanding that it takes great resolve to obtain what they want, to have their desire and their needs met (likewise, this is representative of you, by the way, because you’re reading this, aren’t you?).
This person also wishes to be in charge of your desires, and they are willing to restrain their desires to achieve this. They know life is give and take. They are entrusting you to fulfill the other half of the effort (just so this makes sense).
It’s not that The Emperor doesn’t expect anything back. They know the right person will give back. They don’t lost a thing by trusting the right or wrong person - they are in charge of what they receive. In other words: they know what they’re getting into when they approach you. lol
You walked away from things that you made you unhappy. Now you can just enjoy the things that are going to bring you fun, and are celebratory (of you, of your life, and probably your finances; your endeavors lol; you will accomplish great things, and you will have time to celebrate those great things).
Don’t drink and drive. Party hearty. 💗
PS. Someone walked out on you and left you alone. Jokes on them - they got the shit end of the bargain… lol. You’re happy, and you’re free~ lets keep it that way. :)
Someone may approach you who is willing to provide you some enjoyment. They are in a very good position in their life currently and are proactively wishing to make amends with you (ugh, lol, if this is someone you know, anyway - had to be said - I felt the energy, but it doesn’t mean that who is coming towards you isn’t someone new/different - it just means that they wanna help you heal, and heal the situation that you went through - this is also doesn’t mean that they know what you went through… it just means that life/universe/god… what-have-you… is bringing this person into your energy to help uplift you).
If it’s not a person you already know, and this is your energy - you’ll be recognized for your initiative. Good things are coming to you, so don’t worry. 💗 Maintain that fiery, spirited nature. The pace in your life will change (for the better) - like, this is a good thing (in case you’re like me, and you didn’t know lol).
Be wise. What didn’t work out for you before probably doesn’t deserve a second chance, especially if it’s coming towards you with the SAME, STUPID OFFER (lol). Like, this is a pattern that does not change. It will not help you. It will give you the exact. same. outcome. That’s what I mean - don’t do it. Do something that you know will succeed. Without a shadow of a doubt.
Just because something feels right, doesn’t mean it will do right. Wait for it to do right. If it works - jump on it.
Someone who wants to be within the vicinity of YOU needs to prove that they are worthy of your time. Someone who makes excuses for what they can and cannot do will always provide you with less moving into the future, because that’s the standard they set for themselves in their lives - if it doesn’t work for you - they can beat it - nothing’s gonna stop you, they cannot get in your way of the life you wish to achieve; they’re already on their own bargaining issues, it’s their mess, it’s not yours to clean - you have a life you need to live - this person and their set of rules and conditions, and bullshit, if I may say so - isn’t going to be living your life for you; you are. :) It’s yours to care for; it’s yours to manage (and personally, I’d be grateful, imagine living under someone’s nonexistent self care routine - when you actually have your own - I’m sorry, but why would you downgrade? Am I right? Or am I wrong?).
If you are looking to break down the barriers of someone’s walls… I’m going to say be careful. You may accomplish what you set out to do, but understand that moving forward, that continued initiation has to come from you. Because they are the ones that are unwilling (this has a plethora of connotations, but please… this means someone who has reservations has a good reason - be attentive to that, and consider: are you being avoidant? are you being aggressive? are you being… distant? if your answer is yes, it’s not wonder this person doesn’t want to engage with you lol
AND IF THEY ARE BEING LIKE THAT WITH YOU (like, to you) - REASSESS - DO YOU DESERVE THAT? NO, PROBABLY NOT. YOU DESERVE SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO ENGAGE WITH YOU AND MAKE YOU HAPPY LIKE YOU WANT THEM TO).
And it’s not to say that you won’t succeed - but if you want somebody, then gauge their reactions and the situations, and place your best when you’re ready. Otherwise, the end result is disastrous. You can’t just “jump in” with half your feet in (you’ll freaking fall on your face that way, and right away, too).
And it goes without saying: respect this person’s boundaries.
The King of Wands is in charge of what he wants. His relationships, his time, his passions, his life… You have to maintain a strategy that allows you to be that in your every day waking life. It is what feeds you as a fire sign. Be in charge.
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The Star - though the star traditionally represents a period of healing (generally, spiritually, or after some really intense heartbreak) - in a love tarot reading, this card represents an invitation to love again.
Yes, that can mean with an old partner, AND that can also mean with a new one. It may also just mean that it’s an invitation for YOU learn to love again. Open yourself up to the possibilities… because you are currently dreaming.
Moral of the story:
Get to know your S.O. better…lol.
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Aespa’s Karina prefers to be cared for and looked after in a relationship. She likes to be spoiled and have a lot of attention on her. She gets jealous a lot in a relationship and likes to make sure that she has what others don’t have. She is the type that will show off her relationship to her friends like tell them what her lover gave her or what trip they both went to.
She is cold in a sense that she won’t say sweet words or word of love to her lover. She prefers showing love through actions, including touch. She sees a relationship as something that will help her become more well-known and powerful in her career.
As Karina cares a lot about how others perceive her, she also cares a lot about how her lover will make her appear to others. Her lover has to be presentable to others. When they appear in public, she expects her lover to dress well and look good.
She moves on from relationships quickly once they end. She loses interest once her lover is unable to make her feel proud or happy. She is always on the lookout for someone better and will have many ambiguous relationships with others if her lover cannot fulfill her desires and needs. This does not mean that she will cheat on her lover, but the line between friendship and a romantic relationship is blurred at times. Depending on someone’s POV, she could be cheating. (i.e. someone could consider messaging another person in a flirty way to be cheating while others would not. Someone would see going out with another person to the movies as cheating. Others may not.)