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  • Looking for love

    Don’t know where to find it

    It may just be looking at me

    How am I supposed to know

    There is nowhere to go with it

    So I wait

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    Rumpelstiltskin & Belle

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  • … and here I really thought you were going to bring up the lord of the rings movies and not start screaming about TOM FUCKING BOMBADIL

    #marriage#relationships #he does it everytime #lotr #lord of the rings
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  • Did anyone else not know that the show was filmed in 2018 ?

    Well heres the update :

    • 1 ½ years later, Cameron and Lauren are still married, as is Barnett and Amber
    • Damian and Gianna are back together
    • Kenny and Kelly are not together
    • Mark and Jessica are not together … honestly thank God for that
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  • Marriage: It’ll get like that – one way or the other.

    From the Instagram itspeteski. You should follow.

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  • Yep, in my last post I said something about Meathead and Toodles, and now I have some ideas for them. Even though I write mostly Butch x Lauren stories, I sometimes do some Meathead x Toodles Galore.

    Spa Day With Toodles: (Remake of an old story) After when Meathead and Toodles makes plans to go to the Spa, they have a relaxing time but Meathead feels embarrassed. 

    The Surprise: (This is a Christmas idea I had) When Toodles and Meathead enjoy there fifth Christmas as a married couple, she has a special gift for him which leaves him to crying, tears of joy.

    The Baby Is Here: Toodles is about to have her baby, which leaves Meathead nervous and scared. But with the help of his friends and the doctors, they help the couple and soon, they’ll give birth to a baby girl.

    A Sick Kiss: Meathead has the case of the flu and Toodles has to take care of him. But, in a romantic way.

    A Cruise To Remember: The couple, including another one Butch and Lauren, spend a quality time on a cruise ship. But Meathead gets suspicious, as one of Toodles’ old friends, come along.


    So, I guess that’s it. I hope you enjoyed and thanks for looking!

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  • I feel like marriage has really lost its meaning and getting married because of love really isn’t enough, because what happens when the love dies out? I think the best marriages are the ones that are solely for the sake of Allah, one that is based on taqwa, a love that takes you to Jannah because real love is lasting and the only love that I’ve known to be lasting is the love that my Rabb bestows over me.

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    Do you find yourself giving your all to your family but never yourself? Are you tired, over whelmed or stressed to the max? You can love your family and yourself at the same time. The first steps to the process is making good choices for yourself so you can live the life of your dreams!

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    We are all guilty of allowing ourselves to become overwhelmed, beat down and even over looked. Although, it is when you realize that it is happening that you must make the steps it takes to make the change you need! Once you set boundaries you will find it easier to say the word No! You will also find that you will have a new sense of the words I love you, freedom, clarity and peace.

    This can all be achieved today !! If you need help building a plan of action toward your future or setting some positive boundaries which will help you achieve all of the above.

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  • Today’s the day my life begins. All my life I’ve been just me, just a smart-mouthed kid. Today I become a man. Today I become a husband. Today I become accountable to someone other than myself. Today I become accountable to you, to our future, to all the possibilities that our marriage has to offer. Together no matter what happens, I’ll be ready. For anything. For everything. To take on life. To take on love. To take on the possibility and responsibility. Today Izzie Stevens, our life together begins. And I for one, can’t wait.

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    “Betty, you have some mails from the court.” Veronica said.

    Betty froze instantly and felt her tension heightened.

    “That quickly?  Not even three month I’ve made my decision.” Betty pressed out as Veronica walked to her.

    “You have a bad ass lawyer now. I haven’t doubt that she would speed up the process.” Veronica stated and asked then: “Should I open the Envelope?”

    Betty just nodded, she suddenly wasn’t able because of the leaden weight this message may contain.

    When Veronica handed her the letter in the envelope, she refused to look at it for a second, but then she did:


    Invitation to Trail


    Betty Jones, former Cooper vs. Alice Cooper


    First hearing: 2nd March 2020


    Where:Courthouse of Riverdale


    When: 2 pm



    Betty gasped.

    “That’s in two weeks! Oh my god Veronica! That’s in two weeks. How am I suppose to brace myself for this?” Betty said and felt herself on the brink of a panic attack.

    “B. You have an extraordinary support system. We all will be there.” Veronica try to calm her.

    Betty inhaled and exhaled deeply.

    “Yes… Yes, your right.” Betty whispered.

    Then Betty remembered that Veronica spoke in plural.

    “Wait V. You’ve said mails, -plural – open the other one.

    So did Veronica.



    Invitation to Trail


    Betty Jones, former Cooper vs. Archie Andrews


    First hearing: 3nd March 2020


    Where: Courthouse of Riverdale


    When: 2 pm  



    “One day later.” Betty nearly shouted.

    “Hey hey hey. What is going on.” Jughead asked rushing to her, half dressed and with wet hair.

    She didn’t say anything. She just let her gaze fall onto the letter.

    “Already?! Well that was quick. I guess we have thank miss Burble for it.

    “How I am I suppose to do this.” She murmured and felt unclench and massage her  palm and arm.

    “How did you…” she started and he just smirked.

    “I know you… Baby you got me and V. All  your assistants, Mr. Burble and Dr. Pop Tate. We got this. We got you. Everything is going to be fine. “

    “I know. But I just don’t want them to mess with my head again.” Betty said quietly.

    “Then don’t let them. Have faith in us and yourself. You are strong and you are surrounded with people that love you. Besides that, Veronica knows the drill. You two have been through this once.” Jughead comforted her.

    “You know I am your personal pitbull and you just have your second pitbull, now. Your knight in shining armor.” Veronica stated and added:

    “And Jeez. I can’t wait to see they get what they deserve.”

    Her  husband leaned towards her and whispered in her ear: “Besides that, you know that I know how to switch your head off”


    She blushed, but that she said with a smile:

    “I’m not alone anymore. I can do this! I just have to have a little faith.”

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    Coming next week on ao3


    Until then catch up here

    or read the first part of the series “Spectrum” called “I’m not what I seem like” here 

    or read the one shot collection of the series Spectrum called “Spectrum-Vignettes” here

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  • Scottish Wedding Show - These Are My Thoughts

    Truthfully it’s truly majestic to have wedding and event decor all in one place. If you love the stuff then wedding fayres are one of the lost exciting places to get your fix.

    If you’re like me then you adore fawning over charger plates, weighing the benefits if artificial verses real flowers and drooling over prop tables filled with catering spread ideas.

    Theres something magical about the experience of that but reality started to bleed into the dream as I walked around the Scottish Wedding Shows stalls last weekend and came face to face with vendors pushing invasive cosmetics, weightloss programs and bridal stalls using models in the smallest sample sizes that didn’t reflect the brides make myself wondering around the space.

    Firstly I want to say that I think its brilliant that Scotland as a wedding fayre of this size because its important that there are accessible events that serve Scottish brides. It would be ridiculous to expect them to travel for hours down south just in order to experience and encounter the variety they deserve to have.

    However this is the problem I had. It felt like a lot of the setup of the day wasnt about providing insulation for couples, but giving them standards to aspire to that are about impossible standards and aesthetic. The first thing I clocked and what I usually clock was the lack of racial diversity. In models and clientele.

    My OH and I were certainly the only interracial couple I saw present on the day and I certainly didn’t bump into any other women of colour nor see any vendors that accommodated the needs of brides of colour and their electric heritages.

    This was disappointing as there is a hugely incredible Asian wedding industry within Scotland and I at least expected to see vendors that reflected this in either event planning, venue or makeup artistry.

    Now for all I know the producers of the SWS have sought them out, but how much was done to make sure there was representation for people of colour? This isn’t an accusation as much as a genuine question. What was done and was this even important do the organisers?

    If it takes a person or colour to keep pointing out that we need more representation we are honestly never going to see change because you see it’s all of our responsibilities to ensure that we create spaces that reflect the diverse world we live in.

    If we are not striving to be as inclusive as possible and ensuring that as many of us feel welcome to these sorts of events then who is it for?

    So honestly I would love for that to be addressed and I would love to go to the next show witnessing a genuine change.

    One of the other things that irked me, as I mentioned, was the weightloss and invasive cosmetic treatment stalls.

    Now I want to take a moment to acknowledge that each person’s choices are there own. If you want to change yourself because of whatever reasons that is truly your prerogative and honestly we support your happiness.

    As long as we also acknowledge that true happiness can be found in transforming are outside appearance but in the internal work of healing and accepting our authentic selves.

    I also don’t think theres anything wrong with wanting to look good nay, your best, on your wedding day, but that doesn’t just start from the external things you try.

    Okay.

    That being said, it would be naive to not recognise that in a world where the media bombards us with images of “what’s beautiful” that that’s not going to affect how we see ourselves.

    Imagine a person getting ready for their wedding who already struggles with their self esteem and self worth, walking into a space that is meant to help accommodate creating their dream day, and being met with the harsh message of YES, consider losing weight because fatness is bad and YES consider cosmetic treatment or surgery because something about you isnt good enough and can be changed.

    Why should the message be affirming that there is something wrong with you? When the message should be affirming that you are already wonderful, your partner knows that and that’s why they want to marry you and that’s why you’re planning a wedding.

    I think its dangerous when we are curating these events and promising the facilitation of a genuinely positive experience and yet still buying into these toxic and systematically broken standards and ideals that have been oppressing us for so long.

    We all want to feel special and look awesome on our wedding day, but life before and after the day shouldn’t be consumed by trying to fit a certain size or having to sacrifice who you are to become some wedding “version” of yourself. I’d love to see wedding fayres like SWS encouraging the pursuit of authenticity.

    Okay lastly…body diversity. Where is it at!? If I was a business, especially bridal or groom swear, and I know that vast range of bodies come to me hoping to be dressed, I would actively work to provide visual representations of what items will look like on similar bodies. I saw a total of 2 stalls, maybe I missed some, that offered bridal and actually had plus size gowns on display. This means that either most boutiques don’t have them or they won’t display them because they want you to know that these dresses are aspirational. You want to look like “this” on the wedding day because that’s what a bride looks like. How is that possible because brides comes in so many diverse forms that its offensive to send a message that says you be able bodied, under a size 10 and white. Dont get me wrong, if you fall into this category, you’re wonderful and you shouldn’t feel shamed, but we must remember that this is not the only form beauty comes in. We cannot continue to sell fantasies that’s sole purpose is to ensure the continued tearing down of self esteem and the upholding of toxic patriarchal systems. We had a peaceful time knowing we have planned what we needed to but were open to seeing extras. Side note if you’re nearly engaged this particular exercise of shopping via fayres could potentially be very overwhelming. I feel blessed to have entered into wedding planning confident in myself and in my relationships and our financial position because I didn’t feel any shame because I can’t fit a size 8 wedding dress and I can’t afford a £5k venue.

    I want to end things on a bright note and said I did still thoroughly enjoy the experience. There are a lot of things there that provide genuinely great inspiration and if you take that away and do some research you could either book a vendor you met there or figure out how to do it cost effectively yourself.

    So if you’re visiting fayres and you’re looking for the magic, I just want to tell you something - you are the magic.

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  • If there’s a crisis you don’t freeze. You move forward. You get the rest of us to move forward. Because you’ve seen worse. You’ve survived worse. And you know we’ll survive too. You say you’re all dark and twisty. It’s not a flaw. It’s a strength. It makes you who you are. I’m not going to get down on one knee. I’m not going to ask a question. 

    I love you Meredith Grey. 

    And I want to spend the rest of my life with you.

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  • Live action Anastasia (1997 version) with Scarlett Johansson as Anastasia and Sebastian Stan as Dimitri. That’s all I ask of Hollywood.

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