" How to become a man of Integrity."
Why Do I Want These Things Anyway?
How much is enough? How much do I need? Do I need to possess it or do I just need to prove that I can? Firstly, why do I even want it in the first place? Was marketing at play? Do I think this will make me happy, solve a problem or do some good for the people around me? Why do I need more of anything other than the true essentials?
Perhaps what I want is something that everyone wants. Maybe it’s something that people like me gravitate towards. So maybe it’s okay to want. Of course it is. But then, how much is too much? I guess it’s too much if it begins to create a problem. Maybe these individualized pursuits are an important part of our lives, yet we have to manage it to be at just the right range of acceptability. Or maybe that’s going to far. I mean, our desired and our actions aren’t just dictated by our perceived societal expectations. If so, this must be a stressful way to be. Otherwise, I guess it’s overall okay to want, to yern, to pursue. But, at some point, enough has to be enough. It’s critical that it is.
On the other hand, what if you can’t get enough of what you need of the essentials? For certain the pursuit of more is justified. By this point, this sounds like I’m quite insecure or ashamed of my desires and of the pursuits of my interests. I’m fully aware to be careful of excess and to make sure to keep my priorities in check. But outside of that, I should just enjoy myself unhindered. Right? But why can’t I do that? What is keeping me so bottled up? Perhaps I am afraid? Afraid that I need to keep my hands on the wheel and my foot flooring the brakes to make sure my crazy, unstable and wild self doesn’t do anything stupid. It’s to the point to where I’m needing to justify wanting in itself. How do I live the way I want, unafraid? Is there a connection between desire and fear? Perhaps I’m afraid I won’t get what I want, and that would be a major disappointment.
Today again I didn't have motivation to workout and I didn't do my morning skincare. But you know what? I will not beat myself up for it and making mean comments or be unease. I accept that there are good days and bad days. Like that video of that man giving interview with his funny accent and hand gestures: "Sometimes it's maybe good, sometimes it's maybe shit." I will take this wisdom from him and apply it in all aspects of my life.
mau tidak mau pasti akan terjadi perubahan, itu menandakan bahwa kita hidup dengan banyak perubahan.
So I wanted to make a little something to remind and help my fellow Marvel fans when we're having a rough day.
Credit this this photo I found from Pinterest :
Here's my version I hope this helps ☺️🥰
Although I did make a few edits I still want to give credit
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You can remember this.
"Saying 'sorry' ,first doesn't mean you are wrong it only means, the person is more important than you being right"
Tak ada beda, tetap sama, dengan yang pernah ku jumpa, saling bertolak, mengelak, berjarak, aku mendekat ia menjauh, aku bicara ia terdiam, aku mengikat ia melepas, aku mengaku kalah, karena sudah lelah.
jika terlalu banyak input dari orang lain, makin susah menentukan yang kita mau.
At any given moment, you have the power to say: This is not how the story is going to end.
-Christine Mason Miller.
# Truths of Life...
Time is not the same for everyone. If there is sorrow in your life today, there will be happiness tomorrow.🥰