imagine never posting for 5+ years uwu
anyway no one cares but we exist despite our best efforts
𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒍𝒅 𝒊𝒔 𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒕, 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒃𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒕
The problem with porn is that it works as shock and manual pleasure. We literally never see naked strangers having sex and we’ve been taught that it’s something to be done in private and therefore hidden, that it’s intimate/vulnerable but when it’s displayed for everyone to see for free in the privacy of our home, it creates a compulsive curiosity to see more.
Pleasure is dopamine and it is meant to act as a reward for doing activities that are important for our survival and well-being so that we continue doing them.
Today we live in such a way that our inventions and ideas can cheat our biological system by tricking our brain into believing we are having sex with numbers of women when we’re actually looking at a screen. Why do we do it? Because it feels really good to have what you want when you want it. But the reason we’re suddenly “uncontrollably” feeling really good is because our brain already believes that we are having sex whether that’s through our imagination or porn, and has prepared the body for sex. The only thing that can pull us out of that is our willpower to either do something else or focus our awareness on the present moment.
Porn is always available and there is so much that can be experienced in such a short period that the brain, not having been built/evolved to handle that much arousal/pleasure, becomes conditioned (through repetition) to the new set of feelings (chemicals) in the body like arousal, guilt, shame, depression, anxiety and frustration that have been caused by the root of watching porn.
There’s a lot more going on psychologically, for example not being able to have sex with those people we choose to desire after in porn causes the feelings of envy and jealousy, feeling the present reality after having escaped it and add the feeling of a lack of sexual connection, all of that can cause depression, anxiety, and your confidence and self esteem will drop. We mentally and then physically become weaker. We don’t want to stop the intense artificial pleasure but we don’t realize that its artificial effect has made us not be able to enjoy our lives as they are.
When we realize what is happening and that watching porn and fapping actually is harmful to our mind and body, that it promotes self harm, corruption and perversion, when we choose to change that by doing NoFap for example, we must understand that it is going to be challenging in the beginning because our body is still used to feeling the arousal state it has been in for a long time. Same with our mind: it has been used to think sexual thoughts out of boredom or pleasure. But with necessary abstinence time our body will feel good again when it gets used to being without all the intense arousal. We must have faith in that process and that we will feel better. When boredom happens we can endure it, learn, do something productive, meditate or learn to be present because that’s what we’re avoiding.
If someone texts you saying that he/she wants to pay you a lot of money every week, just for being a sort of “faithful baby” or wathever he/she says
They’re just awful men/women trying to get porn material from you!
Don’t tell them your name or anything else about you, DON’T SEND PICTURES of any type!!!
It’s likely your pictures will be published on a porn blog or sold to other terrible men/women!!!
Just block and report!!!
Please share this, I am so done with this situation and maybe younger people, who don’t know that they’re will be deceived, are in danger! Please be careful
I saw a great post about meeting new people online, so If you are feeling bored and want to chat about awesome things like movies, tv shows, anime, K-Pop, any type of music, photography, books, literally anything that doesn’t suck, feel free to message me. 😉
Lick my body👅
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