Sometimes I wish the whole “seen” / “read”/ “opened” didn’t exist. it honestly just spikes my anxiety when someone reads my message, but doesn’t respond. In my head I think of it like, if you don’t have time to respond, why open it then?
I’m still waiting for a text back, meanwhile you’re online and not opening my messages
im not trying to be mean and ignore people on Tumblr but I am a new grad student and feeling pretty overwhelmed so just respect and understand my need for quietness and peace to just use this website to reblog pretty/funny pics rn
little-goof replied to your post “ ( tfw you wanna find crack art stuff of another crack ship. &…”
@gamblealife the outside world may see our ships are nothing more than planks floating in the fandom ocean, but to us, they are amazing vessels that no one can sink <3
Not replying to a text for awhile because it made you upset and you don’t wanna respond immaturely is the equivalent of trying to get away with someone in the middle of an argument because you’re upset and know that you won’t be able to say anything that won’t escalate the situation until you calm down
Honestly one of my biggest pet peeves is when people take forever to reply or they just disappear in the middle of a conversation.
lol someone from the outside world found my Tumblr and is now being v. mean in my ask inbox thing.
I wish the people I text would reply quicker, the whole reason texting was invented is to talk to someone in a matter of minutes not fucking hours or days. Ughhh that really irritates me.
One of my friends just Snapchatted me to ask about the break-up with my ex.
She didn’t text me, she didn’t message me, she *snapchatted* me. Tragic.
I hate it when someone reads your message and then “forgets to reply” like fuck me for caring.
I think that I often need to be alone and feel my pain in order to get over myself and remember healthy emotional independence, but I also still need someone to pull me out of my nihilistic and withdrawn downward spirals.
I fantasize about not speaking for weeks or months. Sometimes I think that I use my own silence to hurt myself.
My roleplays never last long. My partner never responds, no matter who it is. Did I do something wrong? I guess I’m just not good enough.
I really hate it when you’re role playing with someone, and you’re really enjoying yourself with them and after awhile they stop replying to your posts, and eventually drop you. It’s really depressing and makes me very hesitant about getting too attached to roleplays.
That’s all I ask for is one reply. One response to let me know there is a chance. I need to at least know there’s a chance. Is that to much to ask for?
*panics when people don’t reply to texts*
*panics when people reply to something after not replying for a long time*