I want to meet someone in my forest, my foggy dark forest. I want them to be scared, and I want to haunt them. But then I want to love them, and protect them. Then I want to leave them, and make them so alone. But then I want to come back, and tell them I will always be here. Then I want to show them my tragedy.
I just want someone to accept me as a Ghost. Thats all
I see so many beings talk about how you can't use this label (Like Kingender) because its ONLY for Otherkins, not Otherhearted or synpaths.
That is a myth, Otherhearted beings are Otherkin too. I am SolHearted (Warrior cats), I may still be questioning it, but that doesn't matter. If you're Doghearted, you can still use Otherkin Labels! Your gender can connect with that. It's okay if you are questioning or confused, that is a big part of the Otherkin community.
Beings are gonna try to gatekeep. "Deitykin is fake and disrespectful!" Is one that tore me down. And although my Deity kintype has returned to questioning-
I am STILL Deitykin
One you may get, especially if you go to school, is being called a furry. And you know what? They are just jealous, because of how sexy that tail looks on you. Please keep rocking it.
Don't expect a neurotypical non-kin to understand you and your beliefs. Some will allow you to explain, some beings, you just have to let go of.
Oh, hello there! Welcome to Cafe Cinna, a themed safe and welcoming place for fictionkin! Everyone is welcome here, including coping-links, fictionhearted, synpaths and of course, fictionkin! Fictives and factives are also welcome!
Now let's start by introducing myself. I am Roll! My pronouns are they/he, and I am a young Cinnamoroll-hearted! I am a non-binary singlet.
Tony Stark (MCU)
Helmut Zemo (MCU)
Katie Mitchell (The Mitchells vs. The Machines)
Anne Shirley-Cuthbert (Anne with an E)
Laszlo Kreizler (The Alienist TV Series)
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Well, that concludes my introduction. Thank you for visiting Cafe Cinna, and we hope to see you again soon!
Hey everyone! I'm back :) Found out my Hell Hound name was near Lelan or Lilin. Gonna try to find out more on that soon. I also found I'm Psychotic, and it effected my gender. Hopefully I can post more soon too.
I am trying to explore my Kintypes more, but theres ALOT. I am ollldddd when it comes to past lives. Let's see if I get time to look into the Questioning kintypes.
Anyway, I think thats all for this post, bye yall :D
Okay so the post title is a bit of a joke but it is what this post is about so I'm leaving it that way.
Over recent months, I have been struggling a bit with the origin of my dragonkin identity. I have been open to both a spiritual origin and a psychological origin. Up til now, I was unsure and kind of lent more towards psychological because even though I am spiritual person, it made more sense to me. I don't have kin memories, and I've always been a bit skeptical in general. Spiritual and religious beliefs tend to fit into the fun category of "able to neither prove nor disprove" and it felt easier to call it psychological in origin.
However, recently, I figured out I'm otherhearted with a fictional character. Actually I'm still a little unsure if it's otherhearted or like, an involuntary coping-link or something, but the point stands that I have some form of identity tied to this character. And I know 100% it's psychological in origin. That is a fact. And it feels very different from my dragonkin identity. I can't quite explain it but it's like, on some fundamental level, I know it's different.
So this has left me in an interesting place. I'm still not sure if my dragonkin identity originated spiritually or psychologically. It could come from connecting to dragons and fantasy at a young age, it could come from reincarnation across universes. I have no way to prove or disprove either one. But I'm more open to the idea of it being spiritual now. I know it feels different from my hearttype, and that could be attributed to the fact that they're two different types of identity, but there's just something in there that makes me wonder if being dragonkin could come from something spiritual.
If anyone has any thoughts on this or similar experiences, I'd love to hear them.
Nd-otherhearted. For where you have a strong fundamental connection with a species/non-human identify, because of your neurodivergency, or situations related to your neurodivergency, but not identifying as that species/identify. It would be a microlabel of nd-inhuman, which is identifying as non-human because of neurodivergence, and you could say things like 'I am nd-cathearted' or 'I have an android nd-heartype'.
One of the differences with nd-otherhearted is that you don't need to identify as non-human, just with nonhumanity in some form. It's similar to how otherhearted is a part of the alterhuman community.
For example, I do not identify as a cat. I'm not a cat. But because I was dehumanized and ostracized from humans because I was deemed 'weird' because of my autism, I ended up identifying more with cats than humans. I now have a very catlike identity, and regularly have very catlike behaviors, but I'm still not a cat. Being catlike is central to my identity, and I love it. Therefore, I am nd-cathearted.
Other examples include an nd-otherhearted person been treated as if they have no emotions because of being low-empathy, and therefore identifies strongly with robots because they have no emotions, despite not identifying as a robot, or an ADHD person hyperfixating on dogs to the point where dogs become a strong, central part of their identify.
You don't necessarily have to identify as non-human, but this label can be used in conjunction with a non-human identity, as long as you don't identify specifically as your nd-heartype.
This is an opt-in label, and you don't need to use it if you'd prefer to use other, less specific labels. There's also crossover with other labels, but I personally wanted a label that specifically meant this, so I coined it, and you can use it if you want to and it fits for you.