#priorities Tumblr posts

  • A picture of my dogs paws has more likes than one of my butt, it is time to revaluate what I will be posting in the future lol

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  • cait sith: ok lets go to the temple of the ancients!

    me: *goes back to the marshes to fight the midgar zolom to get the beta skill*

    #ooc. #tbd. #priorities
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  • “Persons appear to us according to the light we throw upon them from our own minds.”

    [Laura Ingalls Wilder]

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  • what would you do if you were moving to a rural backwater with no reliable wifi/cell service? I downloaded my favorite fanfics onto my phone….  

    #fanworks#priorities #'almost heaven' should have wifi... #getting a job in a pandemic??
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    ‪Daily Thought 2169: Don’t think of 💵 💵 💵 when we talk of ❤️ ❤️ ❤️.

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  • I’ve had Fiona Apple’s “Criminal” stuck in my head all morning, especially these lines:

    I know tomorrow brings the consequence at hand /But I keep living this day /Like the next will never come

    I love Fiona Apple and have loved this song for years, and this part has always resonated with me for some reason. Perhaps it speaks to me because I realize that I generally don’t really have a long term game, or goal. People might assume otherwise, pointing to evidence that I’m in my last year of grad school or that I say that I think I eventually want to go into private practice, but the way I have operated has almost been in some kind of survival mode. And as I contemplate this, I realize you can’t really LIVE in survival mode - you’re just getting by, to the next day, and to the next. It’s hard to plan or acknowledge any real wants because your life isn’t steady enough for that - it almost feels like, what’s the point? But then there’s the reverse: I’m allowed to acknowledge wanting something? I’m allowed to want, period?

    Which brings me to my next thought - I also must, at least for now, live based on NEEDS before I can really get to WANTS. Meaning I need to prioritize getting myself healthier, in all domains. Baby steps. (Building a foundation, without abandoning or burning down the base)

    #personal#fiona apple#priorities#recovery #what am i doing with my life
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  • Life is hard, this is a simple truth.  Yet it is one that we all often forget in our efforts to make it better.  What most do not understand is that life is harder for those that do not fit in.  One in Twelve, one in twelve people have some form of Autism…and of coarse that makes things harder.  Areas like where I live, they are a hot spot where tech companies understand those that are neurodiverse are an asset.  So that number changes.

    But that also means those that the issues we all face also become more pronounced…like with relationships.  Misunderstood, misdiagnosed or worse, undiagnosed.  Tired from a day of just trying to fit in with people that do not make sense…then to come home to someone that may also not understand or not know.

    obsession and fatigue can be seen as neglect and disinterest.  The emotional differences can be misinterpreted.  And when you have two people on polar opposites, an autistic that is living with an undiagnosed bipolar, life gets worse because that needed communication breaks down.  That is what happened to me, that is my story to this point.

    So what can you do?  How can you keep that glue that binds you?  In my case, I am now looking for someone with more similar interests.  Someone I can share games and anime with, that can spark my interest in writing and be my muse.  The low hanging fruit you might say.  The point being that way she need not step out of her self just to engage with me when I may not be able to for her.

    I know it is one sided…but at the same time I am making the effort now to ease the issues later.  So that we have a common interest and hobby and grow from there, and if all else fails there is a way to engage me in conversation.  I know it is not all about me…but that is also not always on the top of my mind as well.

    Consider this when dating someone with autism, that you may not be their top priority.  They may be focused, obsessed with their work or hobbies to the exclusion of all other things.  They may be worn down from their day at work, of being social and trying to blend in, of being torn in different directions day in and day out when all they want is to focus on a task or gaze into the void.

    Understand that we still love you, but we may need you to be the one to bridge that gap and engage with us.  I know that it is unfair, and it is hard…it is hard on us as well as we struggle with the differences in needs every day.  If you can find things that you can interact with one another one, A game or an activity, something active like a craft, then life will be better.

    Because in the end, we just want the person closest to us to understand us.  To not disparage us.  To be the one that we let touch us.  And to love us as wholly as we ourselves love…even if it is different.

    That is not so much to ask is it?

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    Good Morning!☀

    I have set the LORD always before me: because he is at my right hand, I shall not be moved. Psalms 16:8

    First things first is an ages old maxim that succintly reminds us that there are priorities in life. If our priorities are out of order our life will be out of order.  Some things must be done in a certain order to succeed, and to prepare us for what is ahead.

    The psalmist had his priorities straight. He understood that his relationship with God had to be first and everything else follow after. This decision gave him the confidence to face whatever came his way. Hear his words again:

    Because he is at my right hand, I shall not be moved.

    Echoes of another who said:

    I  will fear no evil, for thou art with me (Psalms 23:4)

    First things First!

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  • it’s important to know when to prioritise yourself first ! sometimes you grow distant from someone because of some reasons , but then they do or say something kind and you just want to crawl back to them ? no ! stop ! think about why you left them , or why they left you . it’s isn’t always worth it luv ♡

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  • My dumb ass went out knowing I have to be up in 3 hours for work… 🤦🏽‍♂️

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  • Thank you for making me a priority when we are around one another.

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  • Okay so the kissing booth girl got sick and needed a doctor but I also wanted to use the kissing booths for Anton and Marissa to smooch each other. But Anton took forever in the bathroom. 

    So now I guess Marissa has a mark on her medical record because of smoochies. 

    #she was throwing up but i wanted kissing booth smoochies #priorities#shes fine #she didnt die #ts3 #the sims 3 #sims 3 gameplay #sims 3 legacy #sims#crombie legacy #crombie: the acrobat #marissa lacy
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  • I’m not joking, I’ve spent this summer reluctantly looking for any teaching/tutoring/nannying/child care job that I could easily do with my degrees but now that I’ve applied to Chipotle’s, my favourite basic white girl source of joy, I’m super stoked

    #priorities#about me#to clarify #I do NOT think customer service is fun or enjoyable in any way shape or form #I just love the restaurant and the concept of being paid in tacos
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