Friendly reminder that no matter how specific or vague you want to be with your labels (if you choose to label yourself) you are valid!
I love to use heaps of really specific labels (like bialterous and aegoromantic) to define every little part of what I feel, and a good friend of mine prefers to use much more general terms for herself (identifies with all genders but goes by nonbinary), and guess what? We’re both valid!
And so are you!
so, since my last post, my boyfriend and I talked. He actually was the one to bring it up. He noticed things I said and ways I behaved and asked if I wanted to be a boy/was gender questioning. We had a lengthy convo and I cried. a lot. He was so supportive and kind and I couldn’t ask for more.
Since then, I’ve had a close friend and my brother start using they/them pronouns with me until I get a handle on whats going on. It definitely make me feel better! Also, my boyfriend called me handsome and I almost cried from joy so that’s a thing.
AAA and I got a binder!!! I tried it on when it came in and JFK<SHSAKAUG I know I’ve said I cried a lot in this post bot ohmylawd. I just- it all feels so good. A lot of stuff makes sense now. Even when I was super skinny, I hated looking at my body and thinking of it as me? If that makes sense? But I also like girls so if I looked at myself and thought about it being someone else it was fine?
I’m still a long way from where i’d like to be, but I’m further along and happier than I was when this account started. I’m hoping to shave my head soon and start losing weight so my binder will fit better. Thanks everyone for the advice and support! I really appreciate it and am overjoyed to have a community that is so kind.
Walter Beckett from Spies in Disguise is queer and gay and there’s nothing you can do about it!
(Requested by @serfuzzypushover, in seperate pictures!)
![[ID: At the top, text reads “Me: love doesn’t make us human”, and on the next line, “Someone, invariable:”. Below is a picture of a pirate, saying “Well yes, but actually no”. End ID] #ive determined that this is a new universal law (within experimental error) #and id like it to change #but amatonormativity means that allos be like that sometimes #aro#aromantic#queer#lgbtq#queer memes#original#meme #well yes but actually no](https://66.media.tumblr.com/7fee97c148edb8941830612c884ca6b8/62095b391c3b3d6f-17/s1280x1920/4923bbee56c6a2d69ec7742cf14166a2c2039e6f.jpg)
[ID: At the top, text reads “Me: love doesn’t make us human”, and on the next line, “Someone, invariable:”. Below is a picture of a pirate, saying “Well yes, but actually no”. End ID]
I’m starting to learn that my attraction to queer women who present as more butch or androgynous feels more like a superficial excitement that I found another wlw like me. And sometimes that leads to a possibility that this woman could like me back. So I get a little excitement at seeing women like this and mistake it for genuine attraction. I start to get frustrated or lose interest because I really wasn’t attracted to them, I just thought I was. I’m learning that they aren’t my type, and I’m actually attracted to other femme women. It is just so much harder to read femme women as queer, so I never make that assumption and never get that same feeling of belonging right away.
All of this is also making me examine my own femme presentation and my own conflicted desire to present more androgynous even though I’d rather present as femme. The problem is that I don’t want to attract men, and I don’t want people to think that I am trying to attract men.
How can I be both? How can I be visually clocked as a queer femme? And how can I shift my own perception of other femme women to not assume they are straight?
Sometimes i wish i wasn’t part of the lgbt+ community.
The childishness and sheer asshole-itude and toxicity makes me want to rip my skin off. Its like no one knows how to have a comversation without screaming at each other
No ome can have an opinion without getting hate mail.
Our brothers and sisters who died everyone who rioted at Stonewall didn tdo thst for us to come to this.
And all the exclusionists so dead set on invalidating everyone who isnt their own identity or doesnt conform exactly to what they believe.
What are you accomplishing?
I know the good is supposed to outweigh the bad but at this point all i can see is the bad in this community. It doesnt fdel as loving or accepting as anyone says anymore.
Idk.
Excuse my 16 year old ramblings
Gorgeous day. Grim project. I must finish cleaning the apartment and establishing some sense of order to the filth and confusion here. Went to mass with Lynn and George this morning. After church George, in a foul mood over arrangements with Richard H. to drive his old car, drives all the way to Shady Grove, Maryland looking for a bakery. As the ride lengthens the tensions lessen and soon everyone seems in a good mood again. Without finding a bakery we go back to their apartment. They’re planning a cookout at Great Falls today with Kathy and Richard to celebrate Josh’s fourth birthday. I am invited bu decline because I must clean house today. Yesterday I talked to Gayle on the phone and invited her and Ed over today. Now I regret it because the monumental job of house cleaning is leaving me lifeless.
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All I really want to do is lie here stretched out across the bed in my robe drinking beer, smoking cigarettes, and feeling the day pass.
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That’s all I’ve really wanted to do for two years now.
Wanna play Dead by Daylight with fellow gays? Disappointed by the lack of a DBD community for Nintendo Switch? Do you still hope Freddy will be coming to Switch, but are afraid of the framerate drops at the same time? Then you’ve come to the right place! Welcome to our server!
You can play DBD, or just talk about anything really. We also have an Animal Crossing channel if you need to cool down after a stressful match. We’d be thrilled to have you join!
There’s no entry rules except you have to be 14+, queer in any way and comfortable with weirdness and swearing.
So if you’re interested, just shoot me a message or if you’re shy just like this post and I’ll send you the link!
Hope to see you soon!
Since I love Drag Race, I made a drag makeup artwork/layout for y'all to have some inspiration in your makeup lewks! Please tag or share me your makeup lewks if you have made one of this looks if you are bored in the house during #quarantine or just have something to do with!
CATEGORY IS…..
1st: Mother Earth Realness! 🌏🌱♻️
2nd: Amazing Glamazonian Princess 👸
3rd: Superhero Neon Eleganza
4th: Simple Drag at its Best 🌟
This makeup artwork/layout i made is based from my drawing (2nd photo after the animated one) in one of my sketches and translated in into this wonderful pieces.
Please don’t repost my work if you have my permission. Thanks.
Follow my art account on Instagram @artby.enlei
