#queer partners Tumblr posts

  • neverfeedthesarlacc
    14.05.2021 - 1 day ago

    thinking about... queer & specifically trans desire, how certain aspects of queer dating/hookup culture create very specific roles and make it easy for people to just. live in those roles if they've learned to avoid really Thinking about what they want (because what they want is hard/scary/could lose family, friends, job -- esp for trans/gnc people -- respectability (tm)). the roles are rules, the roles are armor. and for a lot of people there is this push-pull of want that / can't have that / but who SAYS I can't have that / I don't know. (There's a switch, sometimes: ok, I want that, so what's stopping me. Finding this switch is harder than it seems like it should be.)

    So the roles let you Want Things In Safe Versions, it's not YOU it's just a Role. But the roles also require mutual, willing participation -- both partners have to want to play the game, have to want to keep to the roles, or else, uh oh, intimacy. And thinking abt how the most interesting queer romances I have read to some degree involve characters who are Learning To Refuse The Roles, who don't like the role they're being asked to play and refuse to participate in it and won't accept anything less than movement toward genuine connection even if it's an absolutely terrifying process for one or both partners to get there.

    working on *clenches fist* learning to write that

    #wires.inspo #obviously there's a version of this in het dating but the roles are different the rules are different the issues are different #there's a thing I'm reading where something like this is happening #but one of the partners just Won't Leave His Role #and is bearing down even harder on it in a desperate attempt to protect himself #and it's so so achingly queer and familiar but i am legitimately unsure that i can continue to read it #flip side there is something i am writing #and I am thinking about these Roles and Rules and how to show the characters clinging to them #and trying to move past them #bones has been blogging abt some of this dynamic in lesbian lit and it is 👌👌👌 #this should possibly be tagged something? eek #queering#gendering
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  • sleepless-in-starbucks
    11.05.2021 - 4 days ago

    hangs upside down off a chair it’s missing my demonboi hours

    #the cryptid speaks #the cryptid speaks in tongues #there's a pro to the ds being off tumblr rn and it's that i dont feel bad makin a post like this #usually i feel bad bc if they see it it feels like. idk. like im indirectly askin for them to front? and im not y'know im just Yearnin #but they cant see it rn so i can make it and when they Do see it it's later so it's chill #anyways did i mention im missing my demonboi bc im missing my demonboi #im missin all my partners really just focus on her right now for a mix of reasons im not gonna go into detail on skdjifcnk #i was tryin figure out faer eye colour so i had to look at some of his picrew and whoo boi im gay #im so gay. and so in love? so queer. and so in love. so so smitten and in love and did i mention gay #i wanna play with their hair and kiss her and wrap around her to hold virrrrrrrrr #our one year anniversary is less than 2 months away and i cant wait #i mean- a year!! together a year!! can u believe that!! that i would be so fuckin lucky!!! #plus it'sn't just our anniversary it's- well- it's our solar system anniversary and i!!! ahhh!!! #someone talk to me about my gays i need more reason to ignore calc and be queer /hj
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  • thealphashadows
    10.05.2021 - 5 days ago

    I'm so glad trans and bi/pan m/f romantic ships are being recognised for the raw power they hold but may I also suggest: queerplatonic m/f ships?

    #there's times where even romantically it doesn't feel quitesatisfying shipping an m/f pairing romantically. even if they're both queer #take... Dan/Clara. romantic? tired. qpp? wired. #life partners without the romance? probably I'm speaking too niche here BUT I STAND BY IT #gods this is gonna be too niche and wishful thinking #plantimonius posts
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  • dorliart
    10.05.2021 - 5 days ago

    Chapter 01 - Hello! 🌱

    „A request“ and - „you’ll know where to go.“

    The darlings are off, let’s see where it takes them 💘

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  • zerberosa
    09.05.2021 - 5 days ago
    #short animated films #bang bang#youtube#girlfriends #be gay do crimes #lgbtq#lgbtq pride#hehehehehe#badass music #i wanna be them #short animatic#queer stuff #and they were partners in crime #refreshing #wanna go do crimes together? #yasssss
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  • wolftails-funkin-arts
    07.05.2021 - 1 week ago

    Girlfriend and Pico discussing about their poly boyfriend. ^^

    #fnf #friday night funkin #fnf gf#fnf pico #gf x bf x pico #bf x gf x pico #girlfriend and pico aren't exactly romantically close like boyfriend is to them but they're queer platonic partners!! :>
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  • imuser304
    07.05.2021 - 1 week ago

    im gonna throw up and cry look at this. look at it. jfjahshghjsdjkd I really like them ❤️💗💘💘💖💗💖💘💘💞♥️❤️❣️

    it's 3:25 a.m. and I'm a smiling blushing queer mess.

    #queer#afab enby#enby#nonbinary#partners #this is the first time ive ever been comfortable being so forward #and its the first time ive been in a sorta relationship with a feminine presenting person
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  • minsungsoftie
    07.05.2021 - 1 week ago

    Life in Breaths | Yoonkook

    On his eighteenth birthday, Jeongguk begins to wake up at random points in his life. Most times Yoongi is there to comfort him and help him navigate the day.

    - queer platonic aces

    - crisis and existentialism

    - non-linear time travel

    Read on AO3

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  • biracialpercy
    03.05.2021 - 1 week ago

    Even after a million fucking years I still haven't figured out my sexuality

    #non fandom stuff #lgbt#lgbtq#lgtbqia+ #im currently identifying as bisexual but who knows #asexual#asexuality#bisexual#bisexuality#gay#abrosexual#queer #I could just use queer #biromatic#demisexual#demiromantic#aromantic #my sister and one of her partners say i give off lesbian energy #my attraction is pretty fluid and i dont really like people these days #or truly find people attractive #i think biromatic asexual fits but idk
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  • howlingheartdemigod
    02.05.2021 - 1 week ago

    Anyone else have a friendship that's like "this isn't romantic and I don't ever want it to be but I would raise children with you. If it was my choice I'd co-parent with you specifically" or is that just a me thing

    #i dont even want kids #but i know if i woke up tomorrow and had to pick someone id pick that fuxker right there #personal#ignore me #i suppose this is why queer platonic life partners exist
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  • casdeservesallthelove
    29.04.2021 - 2 weeks ago

    the amount of fucks I have to give about Disney "queerbaiting" with Sam and Bucky is absolutely fucking zero. If they wanna keep "queerbaiting" that well then they can do it in every peice of entertainment they make.

    #imo sambucky is indeed canon like #they hated each other in the first couple eps #and now buckys part of sams family????? #if they dont like each other like that that would be hella sus #like bucky therapist made them do a technique she uses with couples #the whole partners coworkers a couple of guys #like how do i explain to u that i dont care if they tear it all down in my heart i know and thats why i dont care what they do #also its disney i expect nothing ever to come out of that company and honestly this was better than a lot of things that are explicitly gay #anyway we could argue about whether shit that seems queer coded is queerbaiting all day i need yall to know i do not care #sambucky
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  • taruolentow
    17.04.2021 - 3 weeks ago

    soft wlw hours

    #this is just me drawing my gay ocs to battle art block #my art#my ocs#original character#ocs#character design#wlw#wlw art#original art #many shades of the rainbow here.. trans lesbian.. bi.. some queer platonic aro-spec partners.. one she/they.. i've got them all right here #cute#lgbtq
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  • panncakes
    17.04.2021 - 3 weeks ago

    fandom learn that top/bottom ≠ male/female and power bottom ≠ the character you have projected as female is simply h*rny and interested in s*x

    #the stuff some people just say without any critical thinking man #fandom learning terms like tops/bottoms because they realised they couldn’t get away with husband/wife man/female when it comes to queer #relationships anymore but using it in the exact same context instead of the right one is my origin story #also every person who assumes most people only have the same type of s*x are wild to me #like you just bottom and that’s it for most people? nah son s*x is more fun than that and a lot of people have a lot more ways to be #intimate with their partners #i realize this is the road that must be taken to people understanding how to talk about sex and to dismiss heteronormative gender roles #but i wish we could skip this phase already
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  • far-off-flower-fields
    14.04.2021 - 1 mont ago

    Do you think the government would start charging me money if I lived with two partners?

    #Because rn they reduce your payments if you life with your partner so two partners w #Would they start charging me xD #I don't have 2 partners yet but like for future reference xD #A joke about being queer and disabled
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  • sorryspacecase
    12.04.2021 - 1 mont ago

    Im so in love

    With you and you and you and you

    All of you light up my life

    And this is only the beginning

    Of our forever

    #polyamory#love#gay #haha sorry im so fuckin queer and in love with my partners
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  • sassy0asexual
    11.04.2021 - 1 mont ago

    i want to walk with you beneath the trees, and reach up to hit the tall branches excitedly. i want you to take my hand and pull me along smiling back at me. i want us to end up by the water, and show you the lovely sunset from my favorite bench. i want to pick up pretty stones for you to skip across the water, and when i can't do the same, maybe you can adjust my grip and i can finally skip the smooth stones with you, and you'll smile at how happy i look when i finally get it <3

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  • icarus-died-laughing
    11.04.2021 - 1 mont ago

    its platonic yearning time, boys 😎

    *listens to comfort crowd*

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  • sassy0asexual
    10.04.2021 - 1 mont ago

    your smile reminds me of the moon darling. the way your whole face lights up is just ethereal. <3

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  • dorliart
    07.04.2021 - 1 mont ago

    Chapter 01 - „Hello!“

    „It was a nice day. All the days had been nice.“

    Well, our darlings meet! A little awkwardly, but of course it’s that way! Wouldn’t be them otherwise. 🌲

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