someone: existing and just being comfortable in their own skin
y’all: thats queerbating
finally came out to my boyfriend as bisexual. it went really well. so uhh that’s good.
thinking about blackmail kink
your dom(me) filming you as they make you do humiliating things, filming you as they make you hump your stuffies, or beg to be fucked or even as they make you fuck yourself in front of them
the feeling of getting so shy that you're face is all red and its the hardest task to keep your legs open for the viewers
bandages by park the ghost (p.c-m.)
I am scared I might be gay….
just cause it would alter my entire life completely.
And due to this fucked up bpd I just don’t know whether my feelings are valid.
I don’t…. know. And my boyfriend has been with me for years, he is my fp. I am so dependent on him.
It’s just… If I wasn’t with him I would not be interested in any guy, but in girls very much so. I don’t wanna hurt him….
I don’t know. It’s bi visibility day. Felt like a good time to just put the gray of life out there.
Saw a post earlier about qpps that reminded me of a Charles DeLint story and I couldn’t stop thinking of it until I reread it.
This paragraph changed me. It’s so short, and yet it opened up my world, reading it at 12. Charles DeLint books are amazing in so many ways I will always love them. (This is from The Pennymen, a short story in Moonlight and Vines).
due to the nature of their relationship which largely involved hiding, secrecy, sneaking around, and fear of discovery, rikki and zane's is a queer coded relationship. in this essay i will
Each day I go through the motions. Wondering how to do life again. I strongly hope that there’s a better life for the one I once cared for. I never wanted there to be hurt and pain for either of us . In the end I chose me and they chose them. It’s a mutual ending after all the anger settles on both ends. I hope they have peace and happiness in the new days to come. I’m moving forward and I know they are also. They’ll always have a place in my heart, one day friendship could be a thing. I don’t hold any bad vibes, energy or thoughts to them and their future. People change and I only support growth! I’m finding who I am again in this new chapter, and I close that chapter with care, understanding and compassion.
Take care - 🌹
We have a type @pinktwinkiezoppo
Diversity win! The main characters in the crossover episodes you watched as a kid are in QPRs! Happy Bi Visibility Day!!
Redbubble!!.... Commissions...pls reblog to support my art!... DNI proshippers/antiantis and queer exclusionists of ANY kind
Anyone else have like, super vivid daydreams about being in a queer-platonic polycule with your best friends?
Cuz mine are getting out of hand and making me want to skip ahead to the part where I can have that.
Kels and my anniversary tonite. Celebrated by taking a nap together cus i had a rough day at work. Now hes making Enchaladas and im doing the dishes.
Very happy, very thankful for him and my life with him in it. 3 years seems like a crazy long time, but it feels like we've just met and I've known you forever at the same time. Heres to an eternity of forevers my love
shout out to all my arospec boys and men and shout out to all my aspec boys and men and shout out to all my aroace boys and men and shout out to all my boys and men in queerplatonic relationships, especially those of y’all who are trans, poc, neurodivergent, and/or disabled!!!
you are valid, you are loved, and you are not wrong or broken, no matter what anyone tells you!!!
your local femme gentleman arospec sibling
Never really thought about it before but like.... aromanticism is such a broad label and covers so much.
There's lots and lots of different ways for an alloromantic person to actually feel that attraction right? And aro is the opposite of allo, not the opposite of any sexuality like bi or pan. So just as allo encompasses anyone who feels the "standard/normal" amount of romantic attraction, aro encompasses all who don't. It is just as broad and varied as allo. So just as it's impossible to generalise allo peoples experience it's impossible to generalise all aro peoples experience. Yes there will be groups within the aro community that do share experiences but that's the same with allos. Like for example, all the posts about how aros can still have a partner, or not all aros want a qpr, you can't possible have one rule for all aros. I just think those posts are slightly counter productive, now I look back on them. And yeah I've made posts like that and I stand by them, I'm not saying they're wrong, just that it's silly to try give ourselves rules about what we can or can't do because it's different for everyone! And thats what's beautiful about it! That's the appeal of lovepunk, love queer, loveless labels!!
I love my bois and I love silly ideas♥️✨
the relationship between cal and jackson was probably one of, if not the best thing, to come out of season three. off the bat, they just had such great chemistry. they were good to and for each other as friends.
the fact that they showed jackson questioning his sexuality after his attraction to cal was verbalized was so fucking great. i think it's super important that we talk about these things because sexuality really is fluid and as we destroy our views of gender, we only further blur the lines of sexuality. it's probably one of the realest things this show has done and it really rubbed me in the best way possible. i also just felt so comforted by their characters generally (as well as eric and viv) because it's rare to see so many black, queer, and disabled on-screen as main characters. usually if they are either poorly written, their experiences are watered down, or they're solely there to show black or queer/trans trauma and none of that happened (aside from the one incident of eric getting hate crimed). there were clear moments of black, queer, and trans joy and i think we need to see more of that on-screen especially in these shows that show teenagers.
i just really love cal and jackson's relationship and in general the way they show communication (and sometimes lack thereof in this show). cal's character being one who's not afraid to say what needs to be said really helped with this. them being able to verbalize how they felt and bringing up things that as a cishet person, you might not understand was so necessary and truly well done. it shows the very real life of queer and trans people and how navigating things like school and relationships can be difficult, while also not making it traumatic.
i just really appreciated these additions as a queer and trans person because it's something you rarely see in the media. i hope sex education gets renewed just so i can see where they take these two and their relationship cause i think it's really important. they also just deserve the world man.
If your romantic partner triggers a panic attack from you and they continue doing the same action on purpose, knowing well and good that it’s causing further/worsening panic attack for you, LEAVE THEM. Your mental health is NOT WORTH IT.
A romantic partner who genuinely cares for you and your wellbeing will stop, immediatly and drop whatever started the issue that’s causing the panic attack.