#queer stuff Tumblr posts

  • alittlebitofcinnamon
    13.06.2021 - 2 hours ago

    okay so the fact that my best friend (that I have a crush on) and I have that type of friendship where it’s like pseudo-romantic dOSEN’T HELP

    #like she was my date to the dance #we get each other flowers #go on dates #stuff like that #kinda queer platonic #but just#ahh#idek#rambles
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  • bygodstillam
    13.06.2021 - 4 hours ago
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  • gays-dawn
    13.06.2021 - 4 hours ago

    ngl the fact that people think that pride and flags are only for The Gays™ really pisses me off

    like. mad pride was (and IS) an extremely important movement centered around mental health stuff. being proud of your existence shouldn't only be allowed if you're queer- there are plenty of disabled ppl, neurodivergent ppl, and ppl of color who should be allowed to express pride in who they are

    as for flags... besides the fact that country flags exist, symbols have been created for tons of things related to identities. there's a symbol for autism, symbols for physical disabilities, etc. why can't that be expanded into flags?

    i've started seeing more and more stuff abt how certain groups "own" things, and aside from stuff that's actually cultural appropriation, pretty much all of it is ahistorical bullshit. it's frustrating man! just let people do things! it's not homophobic to make neurodivergency flags, nor is it homophobic to express pride for something that doesn't make you queer

    (just don't be a weird white pride person bc uhh Whew™)

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  • thatirishswiftie
    12.06.2021 - 5 hours ago

    It's currently 5 minutes past midnight and I'm contemplating giving myself yet another impromptu haircut

    #my mental health is in shambles #my hair is the only thing i can control #the scissors are gleaming in such a tempting way #mentally ill#queer stuff#haircut
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  • gaycousinlarry
    12.06.2021 - 6 hours ago

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    #tw body image #im so close to unfollowing atleast two REALLY GOOD ig accounts #that focus on tattoos and feminism queer stuff and more #bc they’re skinny people who simply don’t understand body image tw stuff #like… i follow a lot of wonderful smart incredible skinny people on ig #but if you think being queer/a feminist makes your pics of tiny waists etc ’queer’ i…. #i just don’t know #it’s i tricky thing #but i hate going ’i hate skinny people’ everyday bc of accounts i follow #unggfh
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  • ballsakic
    12.06.2021 - 7 hours ago

    Oh and a cool thing that happened a couple days ago.

    I came out to my best friend

    and she still loves me, doesn’t judge me, and accepts me. We’ve been friends for 25 years.

    25 years. She’s literally seen me at my best and worst.

    I haven’t come out to everyone I care about yet, but in due time.

    This is my first pride month being “out” to more than just my tumblr. I’m pretty pumped.

    Happy Pride🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

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  • occasional-sunshine-for-you
    12.06.2021 - 7 hours ago

    Happy Pride Month to lesbian DPDs!

    Happy Pride Month to gay DPDs!

    Happy Pride Month to bi DPDs!

    Happy Pride Month to trans DPDs!

    Happy Pride Month to nonbinary DPDs!

    Happy Pride Month to queer DPDs!

    Happy Pride Month to asexual DPDs!

    Happy Pride Month to aromantic DPDs!

    Happy Pride Month to all LGBT+ DPDs!

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  • halftruthsandhyperbole
    12.06.2021 - 9 hours ago

    i’m still in a mood about like

    my mom and me, specifically in context with my own queerness

    and even though i know there was so much More that ended our relationship

    (like how she parentified me and isolated me and undermined my relationship with my dad)

    (or how she apologized for not being a good parent and how much she had hurt me then turned around and told a court my dad was abusive when she was the one who had the pattern of extremely harmful behavior)

    It’s this Particular Thing that I’ve been circling the drain around really

    all to say i’m binging the second season of Love Victor and like 

    Extreme Over Projecting onto his relationship with his mom (who is not taking the news well either)

    and kinda wondering what would have happened if my mom had her own PFlag meeting to go to

    and kinda wondering at this Weird intersection of gay men having relationships with straight women and how

    like

    it sits on this weird intersection of Harm for both parties

    it’s like so hard jesus christ

    and how gay women having relationships with straight men is harmful but like in a different way 

    and i used to be over labels and identity stuff because it’s like i am who i am and i don’t want a label to dictate how i interact with the pple around me

    but i feel like i’m also regressing because after years just being comfortable being that asexual aromantic lesbian i’m like

    how much of that is a Trauma response of

    having only intimate experiences with a man who deeply hurt me

    having a religiously traumatic childhood that made me feel guilty for any type of romantic of lustful thought before marriage (i literally feared I would be impregnated by god as punishment for lustful thoughts)

    where the only “relationship” i’ve had with a woman felt extremely uncomfortable for me because she was so emotionally needy and wasn’t very receptive

    (that said, I did look her up and I couldn’t find any trace of her online except for a fantasy photoshoot from a few years back) 

    and it’s like when i think of myself in a romantic relationship it’s like, oh i can’t because my house is so messy, I can’t because I sweat too much and stink, I can’t because I don’t enjoy sex and am too worried about infection to even enjoy it (when I first had sex I got lobbed with both a vaginal and urinary infection fun times)

    and i don’t think there’s anything wrong with being in a place because of trauma

    but i also want to get better? 

    anyway whoooo emotions 

    trying to decide if I want to go to an everything you can eat sushi bar with the queer meetup group i joined years ago. 

    but i feel too fat and ugly from the pandemic to go lol 

    jesus. 

    #bad brain blogging #queer stuff and such
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  • nixtevs-hugo-boss
    12.06.2021 - 15 hours ago

    wow it is hard finding pride related stuff that isn’t: 1) US based and 2) made by a big corporation very clearly using pride for profit

    also. any cishet person who uses the phrase “love is love” or “born this way” in my humble opinion, owes at least one queer person financial compensation

    #DO NOT REBLOG. i wanna keep my silly little opinions on my silly little blog #i was gonna do a more updated pride hugo picture w/ resources and stuff underneath but wow trying to find even just flags #is a whole nightmare. every time i see 'love is love' i lose a brain cell #if u appreciate that sentiment as a queer person then thats cool! but corporations using it makes me feel icky #same goes for born this way. however orville peck's cover of the song made me lose my mind its so good #personal#q slur
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  • i-am-the-quintessential-queer
    12.06.2021 - 15 hours ago

    I’m gonna be in the car for many many hours today and tomorrow so send some asks please!

    #send asks#send anons#send questions #send me stuff #send me things #ask me something #ask me #ask me whatever #ask me stuff #ask me anything #ask me a question #send me anything #interact #interact with me #please interact#gqlw#gqlm#genderqueer#lgbtq#queer#message me #send me messages #bored#i’m bored
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  • the---hermit
    12.06.2021 - 20 hours ago

    My history of homosexuality/queer history class is all done, and honestly I would have continued for another two months if I could have.

    #it was so good #and so interesting #and there would have been so much more to say #why isn't this stuff also in regular history classes #queer history#lgbtq+ history#queer#lgbtq+#university#txt#rant#personal#mine
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  • simptasia
    12.06.2021 - 21 hours ago

    the “your suffering means nothing because i’ve suffered more” logic gatekeepers use is so fucked. first of all, a person’s pain is a person’s pain and it’s fucked to try and quantify that shit in some kind of competition. and secondly, if we use this logic it would mean that only one person at a time is ~allowed~ to complain and that would be,,, whoever is suffering the most on earth. and then they die from the stomach cancer and gallstones they probably have and we elect the new Most Suffering Person and they get the dubious honour of being justified in being frustrated with their lot in life. nobody else. everybody else gets yelled at

    damn right i’m using reductio absurdium, y’all are fucking terrible

    #imagine having the gall to demand people justify their suffering #i swear some people really think the lgbtpa+ community is actually the oppressed community #If You've Never Been Subject To A Hate Crime You're Not Queer Actually #one of the goals of the lgbtpa+ community is to lessen suffering and oppression #not to revolve our entire identities and validity around it???? #you know if homophobia ended tomorrow gay people would still exist right?? #anyways this post was me being pissed at how people treated ace people #but it can be applied to a lot of things actually. like disability and ND stuff #grrrrr
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  • nonegenderleftpain
    12.06.2021 - 22 hours ago
    #names#queer stuff#gender stuff #the ask and the answer but not the book #lovely anon
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  • dyingroses
    12.06.2021 - 1 day ago
    you know those gracious lesbian friends of mine, that couple
    well not only are they cat lady lesbians but they are also COTTAGECORE LESBIANS. Today I went on a a nice little walk around their gardens and orchard.
    happy pride month
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  • dyingroses
    12.06.2021 - 1 day ago

    you know those gracious lesbian friends of mine, that couple

    well not only are they cat lady lesbians but they are also COTTAGECORE LESBIANS. Today I went on a a nice little walk around their gardens and orchard.

    happy pride month

    #happy pride month #cottagecore#cottagecore lesbians #let's go lesbians #sapphic#sapphic stuff#queer community#queer elders #(even tho they're just in their 50s) #queers looking out for one another #baby bi#post#me#my life#cat ladies#cat lady
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  • enby-phoenix
    12.06.2021 - 1 day ago

    listening to queer music, and noticing that it largely falls into two categories... celebrating queerness, or mourning the pain of intolerance

    also thinking about writing a song myself, and trying to think of what to say...

    and realizing that even a euphoric song would touch on a lot of that pain, even if not directly. Like. For a song about being nonbinary,

    a line like "I can see myself in the mirror now"

    is itself joyful, but that joy is only meaningful in contrast to all the painful times I looked in the mirror and saw a stranger.

    If I hadn't spent all that time searching my face and trying to find myself in it, I wouldn't be delighted to finally recognize my reflection.

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  • butchaxolotl
    12.06.2021 - 1 day ago

    hey if ur a minecraft blog that doesnt post dreamsmp pls reblog or reply or something i need blogs to follow

    #preferably inclusionist too if u ever post queer stuff #minecraft blogs
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  • hillarydiangelo
    12.06.2021 - 1 day ago

    why why why

    #after everything i've said and done since i was 12 #my mom really really think i will agree with her homophobic stuff?? #haven't i been queer enough for her to notice? #i hate this #that queer woman you're talking about mom? may be me in the future
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  • booasaur
    12.06.2021 - 1 day ago

    Love, Victor (2020) - 2x10

    #lovevictoredit#love victor#lake meriwether#lv lucy#bebe wood#ava capri #love victor spoilers #love victor 2x10 #femslash related stuff #I liked this season overall apart from a couple of points #what a valuable show for queer kids and their families #and this was a cute little bonus at the end
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  • because-weareglass
    12.06.2021 - 1 day ago

    that queer feel when you realize that two of the people you find attractive look really similar but are different genders

    #idk man #long ginger hair and glasses is just a thing im into i guess #queer stuff#personal
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