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  • snorlax-and-co
    09.05.2021 - 2 minutes ago

    We see V tomorrow for the first time in 2 weeks and there’s a lot of anxiety but I also feel like I’m met with an error message when I try and think about what to talk about. We have a general plan in the sense of carrying on going through the timeline with her but I feel like I can’t place what’s happened since we last saw her.. a lot has happened though and I think the super delayed reaction to our sister’s time in hospital has completely drained us physically and mentally. I didn’t realise how triggering it was for some younger parts in particular. 

    V said hopefully things will be ‘back to normal’ by our next session because hopefully our sister will be home and recovering etc and she is home and recovering well but I don’t feel like anything’s ‘back to normal’, I feel really fragile and keep having massive mood swings. Our fatigue has been the worst its been in a long time recently. Our sleep has been really disturbed with restless legs syndrome, general restlessness, nightmares and pain. I still feel pretty vulnerable (and ashamed in a way?) that we gave V the detailed list of parts - I know it’s kind of necessary and she’s a therapist and knows how to work with DID but it just feels like A Lot and we feel very exposed, even though she’s been brilliant about everything we’ve shared so far.. It’s not even a denial thing, I don’t know what it is, just a yucky letting people in feeling? We really feel seen and supported in sessions but that feeling doesn’t stick around for long, after 2 weeks I feel very disconnected 😑

    #DID #dissociative identity disorder #actuallyDID#actuallytraumagenic#trauma therapy#trauma recovery#mental illness #I hoped writing this out would bring me some clarity but nopeee #personal #please don't reblog
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  • thejunesky
    09.05.2021 - 4 minutes ago

    max and his bedhead say happy mother's day to those who celebrate

    #babby blogging #do not reblog this #tw: mother's day
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  • botwstoriesandsuch
    09.05.2021 - 5 minutes ago

    something about parallels and foils

    listen with headphones ;)

    #revalink#revalink week #parallel phrases revalink #mudkip music #im not doing a lyric reblog of this because it's the same as the other two #except for the phrase 'we are parallel to paraphrase'
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  • sterling-jay
    09.05.2021 - 5 minutes ago

    I’m just?? not a fan??? Of when holidays meant to show your appreciation??? Are turned into guilt trips???

    #Sterling says #ok to reblog #mother’s day #but!! not about my own mother #there are layers to this and I’m annoyed about all of them #(we did Mother’s Day for MY mom on like. Wednesday. for Reasons.)
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  • plushefemme
    09.05.2021 - 6 minutes ago

    i had a dream that my belly was bigger and i was jiggling it and touching it and admiring myself in the mirror i was so happy...... and then i woke up :’)

    #do not reblog pls #this is the first feedism related dream ive ever had #wild#plushetxt
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  • igor-matovic-transgender
    09.05.2021 - 7 minutes ago

    so many people on tumblr think they're soooo funny when they're mean and rude about completely random harmless things that have done NOTHING to impact them at all. they think it's sooo funny to screenshot someone's blog and go 'actually cringe culture is still alive' and 'if youre into *harmless thing no.287* you cant have an opinion lol' like yes king youre so funny woah. r/bossmoment or whatever.. like why dont you just go to reddit. why are you here.

    #this wasnt supposed to sound so angry lol #this is fine to reblog. i cannot imagine thinking its not lol #like i absolutely get dunking on people doing real fucked up shit on the internet #but taking a screenshot of some rando's roleplay blog and going 'lol cringe' is fucking stupid. #people will preach 'minors need to be safe on internet and adults should be mindful of them!!'
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  • fatimagic
    09.05.2021 - 11 minutes ago

    as a bi/queer iranian-american, i am just horrified and disgusted beyond words. there needs to be some serious systemic change in the islamic republic because this is not what islam stands for. stop misappropriating religion to justify the homophobia in iranian policy. and while we're at it, stop using the existence of iranian trans women as a supposed way to "cure homosexuality." do not reblog this post. racists and islamophobes will be blocked on sight. islam does not excuse murder, and this murder does not justify your bigotry toward iranians.

    #do not reblog #venting #more and more people are going to start talking about this and using it as an excuse to be racist and homophobic #fuck off if you're one of those people:))) #that said the ir is as much to blame for this as the actual murderers and it needs to end #i am proud to be iranian but i am not here for the ir #alireza is my family #non-muslims/non-iranians do not fuck with this post #i can't * key words but i'm deliberately not tagging this for a reason #thank you jackie cox for bringing this to everyone's attention
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  • bakanohealthy
    09.05.2021 - 24 minutes ago
    #ask#countthelions#details#commission #much as I'd love to take on more commissions I am simply just the one person #so these are all in place to make sure I can actually do commissions at all #this is a general PSA for folks looking to commission me! #also don't worry about mother's day stuff lol I will need to sort out my current workload first #I won't open for comms on tumblr until I'm done with that #so it'll be sometimes next week and not this weekend #this weekend? I do some admin stuff and I sleep #I just finished the intro to wassenveld I can sleep in a little #but yeah! be on the lookout for the signal reblog next week!
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  • glimmerofawesome
    09.05.2021 - 27 minutes ago
    #with this i will see you guys later today or tomorrow! #i may reblog a few things but posting will have to wait
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  • inoselfshiplove
    09.05.2021 - 28 minutes ago

    “I could fix him.” “I could make him worse.” I love and accept him for who he is and don’t strive to change him.

    #okay to reblog #i sometimes wonder if i'm the first one with my ships #but 'fixing' my f/os didn't feel right and has never been my goal #but i realized what it is #this is it #i don't 'fix' my f/os. i just accept who they are and remind them that i'm going to love them no matter what #and they come to terms with themselves and their flaws entirely on their own #amazing what unconditional love and acceptance can do huh #ino rambles
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  • poisonhemloc
    09.05.2021 - 32 minutes ago

    @lavendermarker said: Any suggestions for flossing? That's the thing I struggle with a lot and it's important I do it, but it's Hard for me bc sensory issues & small mouth

    Waterpik (you don’t need all the bells and whistles on it, and i recommend looking for one on sale)- it basically shoots water between your teeth and if flossing is hard it is easier! I also tend to rec that for braces, bridges, and any situation where it’s hard to floss normally (small mouth, also arthritis or other hand/arm/coordination issues).

    Honestly toothpicks can help too? just cleaning stuff out from between your teeth. And there are little brushes designed to go between your teeth that work! I like proxabrushes because that’s what i have samples of at work but there’s a couple different interdental brushes that work!

    #Poisonhemloc’s reblog #further dental things! hope you dont mind me answering this in my own post #im always down to give advice (just cant diagnose cause. legally cant and also i would need you in my chair
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  • avaroseofficial
    09.05.2021 - 36 minutes ago

    THIS...idk why this is bringing me so much joy (this is not my masterpiece, but I did find it under a very lovely youtuber that goes by the name of Lexi Höhe. They make really awesome content, please go check their channel out you wont be dissapointed).

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  • thatgamefromthatad
    09.05.2021 - 1 hour ago

    The three genders

    #tumblr ads#weird ads #the three genders #tumblr ad #let me reblog ads #I’ll do a tumblr ads decoded explainer on this at some point #image description in alt text
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  • dewitty1
    09.05.2021 - 1 hour ago

    Happy Mother’s Day to my lovely Mom. This is still my favorite picture (mostly because it’s one of the only one’s I look good in) https://www.instagram.com/p/COqD7MbgTKf/?igshid=1efbgkgp2okbo

    #Happy Mother's day #About me#Personal #Please do not reblog #Love this photo #This is probably 1970 - 71 #I think my mom is wearing a homemade dress
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  • flame-shadow
    09.05.2021 - 1 hour ago

    gonna do some of those speedpaints with the colors

    send art of an oc or suggest a canon character (hk or bug fables, im only in a mood to draw bugs)

    no promises that i'll draw all of them! these are conditional on my feeling like drawing them.

    #if it's an oc- reblog with a ref or send a ref via ask #or message #and by ref i don't mean fancy colored reference sheet. i just need to know what they look like #a clear sketch is fine since im adding my own colors anyway #this offer is probably only open for today so speak now or forever hold your peace #hollow knight#bug fables #you don't have to be following me- i'll tag you when i post stuff
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  • sleepswithvillains
    09.05.2021 - 1 hour ago

    my art and writing

    All my stuff is SWTOR, with a focus on Malavai Quinn and my Sith Warrior Eleanora because I have a problem and can’t stop! General tags include: Plus-size OC, (gentle) femdom, angst, smut, hurt/comfort, and entirely too many feelings.

    My art My writing at AO3 My NSFW art at Pillowfort

    #this is just for a pinned post #no need to reblog #i finally went through and tagged my art so it should be easier to find through the tag #and sometime i will do the same for writing but 90% of it is on AO3 already #there are only a few unpublished snippets here
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  • hataena
    09.05.2021 - 1 hour ago

    ME AS AN CATBOY!!! ~ ♡

    #DO NOT TAG AS CROSS.DRESSING #pinkcore#maidcore #ok to reblog #internet persona #ALSO I MADE THIS USING CUSTOMCAST
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  • theblogthing-tm
    09.05.2021 - 1 hour ago

    society has progressed past reblog baits,, guys, seriously stop

    #:/ #cuz sometimes i'll be about to reblog something then #tHIs MuST bE rEBlOgGEd By EVerYoNE!! iF u dON't TheN ur An aSsHolE!1!1!! #and just feel :// and scroll past quickly #reblog baits suck and stop people from peacefully enjoying this hellsite #like no actually #full offense
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  • bleiddiaidsiocled
    09.05.2021 - 1 hour ago

    you know i actually think we put too much stock in fanon? i think we assign it a lot more importance than it actually has 

    don’t get me wrong, i think the idea that hundreds or thousands of people can come together from all sides of the world and construct, as one, a whole united interpretation of a text or media is rlly interesting and heartwarming. and i think a lot of the time it’s can simulate a sort of bonding experience for fans, especially in subfandoms and small communities. but i think when we assign fanon interpretations a huge wealth of importance to the point where we perceive other readings as alien or confusing, we lose a bit of the magic?

    particularly in this fandom we can sometimes have a very, very homogenous understanding of the characters we work with, especially marauders era characters. it’s completely fine for certain interpretations of characters (that james potter lived in a manor, that marlene mckinnon was a blonde white woman etc) to catch on because they’re prominent in popular fics or fanart, but it’s worth remembering that variety is the spice of life, and that we can often end up maligning diverse voices in fandom when we create universal fanon interpretations of characters or plots of worlds, because these interpretations are almost always determined by which fanfictions are the most popular at a given point, and that decision will almost always be made by cis white women, who dominate fanfiction reader communities most of the time.  

    i think when we assign set fanon readings to different characters (particularly offstage/unseen characters, characters who we aren’t introduced to directly in the source material, etc), we remove most of our communal proclivity to create our own interpretations of them, and we make small fanfiction authors uncomfortable with the idea of introducing their own perspectives to the mixing pot. and i think that’s a real shame. i understand that set fanon interpretations of fan favourite characters can often serve as a narrative shorthand for fans, particularly serial and non-au fanfiction authors, but i think that encouraging the sharing of ideas and the establishment of soft fanon can be done in a way that doesn’t set hard and fast rules on the ‘best way’ to interpret the text. 

    idk. this post does’t have much of a point, i’m just tired of seeing my super inventive exciting cool friends and mutuals coming up with wonderful, unique interpretations of canon characters which don’t match up to common fanon and feeling guilty for that. i’m tired of seeing people take unique readings on source materials in the same way their predecessors in fandom did, but instead of being venerated as the ‘’new canon’’, being mocked and misunderstood etc. like, i think a fandom which has a thousand different readings of a character is so much richer and more exciting than a fandom with a thousand fanfics that all take the same one. 

    tldr: we should perhaps take a more critical stance on the tendency in fandom to view homogenous fanon interpretations of characters as set rules, rather than general trends. we should also encourage diverse voices in fandom, and be concious of the fact that many of the traits we assign to characters through fanon can make various members of fandom spaces uncomfortable. 

    #this is also partially something im thinking ab a lot rn bc i got a comment abt how my marlene is 'confusing' bc shes not white. #which. i understand wasnt intended to be weird. i get that comments like that dont have bad intentions. #but god pls can we not let cis white women make Every Decision #anyway! #gonna delete this if anybody discourses on it #bc i have too much nxiety to put up w that rn #but feel free to reblog! pls do actually #elijah speaks
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  • yesterdays-protagonist
    09.05.2021 - 2 hours ago

    If I don't put a proper background on this will I still get notes

    #Everybody look at lakes shoes not because they look good but because I spent a lot of time on them #alt version bc my friend said the first looked better but i still really like the second #lake infinity train #lake it#infinity train#tulip olsen#myart#digital #infinity train fanart #Mirror tulip #gonna reblog this again later cause i spent so much time on it yesterday
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