bellalovecoach ~ Instagram
bellalovecoach ~ Instagram
reads for: i'm a trans and non-binary, white and indigenous (ojibwe), person who has chronic illnesses, uses a cane and a wheelchair, and has a variety of mental illnesses including but not limited to: ptsd, generalized anxiety disorder, adhd, autism, and depression. i also have a complicated history with dissociative identity disorder, as well as having been through a relationship which was abusive (including trauma bonding) on top of being in therapy for most of my life and intentionally studying both medical and trauma texts, i also have an undergrad in english literature with an emphasis on minority studies which extensively focused on learning and subverting stereotypes specifically in indigenous, black american, indigenous, and asian american works. this also includes colorism as well as history of less spoken about historical events like the aids crisis, and disability history including pre 1800s. i personally try to be as objective as possible while simultaneously balancing the fact that no minority group is a monolith. what this means is looking for opinions held by a majority of said group with extra attention to the non-white portion of said group
general questions and discussion: yes in-depth discussion of plots and characters: yes partial read (relevant sections): yes full read: no
willing to read: original work, fanfiction (ace attorney, persona series, marvel, and others even if i'm not personally knowledgeable about individual characters), erotica/nsfw/explicit scenes
unwilling to read: nsfw unless it deals directly with disability and sex, rape/sexual abuse unless it has to do with trauma recovery specifically. slavery or fantasy racism where the goal isn't to point out how messed up it is. anything involving incest or where minors or barely 18 year olds are dating adults (age gaps with power dynamics basically) - this specifically includes ships like phoenix/maya. anyone who isn't indigenous but is writing a story about reconnecting to an indigenous tribe
rates: case by case, first question related to material is free (assuming it takes less than 5 minutes to answer), expanding on answer in detail or in depth discussions is more, and depends on how long it takes to answer. rate is based on time; for example, reading a 15 minute passage or question which is followed by 15 minutes of me writing a response would be $40. similarly a 5 minute question and 5 minute response would be $20. (willing to give a discount for bipoc people who want advice writing about trans and disabled characters)
contact: available upon request
additional notes: i can provide sources or detailed reasons why things are harmful tropes/inappropriate, but will be paid for the time it takes to compile them. at the time, i'm not going to be helping with grammar for the most part
my cousin just said, “you wanna hear something cursed?” and before i even answered, she started telling me about an idea she had for a bbc sherlock remake where everything is the same except it’s the cast of bbc ghosts. and the casting choices aren’t all exactly who you’d expect. or. at least they weren’t who i would have expected.
sherlock — simon
john — jim
moriarty — mat
mycroft — ben
mrs. hudson — larry
mary — katy
molly — martha
lestrade — lolly (apparently lestrade is the only genderbent character and her name in this is gina now, not greg)
The question you should be asking me is not "so, do you like boys or girls, both,or neither?" but "are you capable of being in a healthy relationship, whether it's platonic, romantic, (and/or) sexual?"
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kdramas always confuse me in the beginning and i don’t understand a thing until the very end
I’m so happy my friends know that I’ll get excited over their art/work because I have a friend who constantly sends me his photography and I got a message from another friend being like “I remember u saying u liked these kind of videos” so he sent me his class project (it was asmr orgami whatever and the prod was so cool) and AAA <3 I love being surrounded by creatives and I’m happy they know that I’ll love to see their work huhu.
Attachment brings misery, unattachment brings blissfulness. So use things, but don't be used by them. Live life but don't be lived by it. Possess things, but don't be possessed by them. Have things - that's not a problem. I am not for renunciation. Enjoy everything that life gives, but always remain free.
Kijk 'Tantra for Couples: Using the Five Senses' op YouTube
WAKE UP CLAYMATIONMLM NATION NEW F/O JUST DROPPED
my mother coming over and breaking down and telling me she wants my demented father back because she’s sooo lonely... ok...